I received three invitations from my uncle's family on the National Day, and I thought about it and finally returned early.
National Day is approaching, and every year at this time, I receive invitations from friends and family. I've been invited on a tour, I've been invited to a party, and so on.
All three opportunities were tempting, but after thinking about it, I decided to return early. I knew that my uncle was not sending me an invitation, but wanted me to add to his social circle.
For the past few years, he has been instilling in me the notion of success, that I can only truly be at the top of my success if people see my presence in social situations.
However, I gradually lost interest in this notion. What I longed for was not to attend one banquet after another, but to be able to truly do what I wanted to do and pursue the true joy of my heart.
And every time in such an occasion, I always feel as if I am just an ornament, and I have not really been recognized.
I looked at the three invitations again, and I thought I should give my uncle a chance to get to know me more authentically.
On the day I returned to my uncle's hometown, I went to my uncle's mansion. My uncle was a little surprised when he saw me, and he thought I would choose to participate in his activities.
I told my uncle that over the years, I had lost my original dream in order to meet his expectations. I want to be able to be truly myself and get real recognition.
We were silent for a while, and I continued, "Uncle, it's not that I disrespect your wishes, but I hope that you will understand and support my determination to pursue true happiness.
I hope you will understand me and support me.
Uncle was silent, then nodded slightly. I know that at this time, my expectations of my uncle are not something he can understand, he values glamour and vanity.
At this time, I don't regret returning early, and I firmly believe that this answer will lead me to a more authentic and truly me-like path.
After this conversation at my uncle's mansion, I saw the confusion and confusion in my uncle's eyes. I knew that for him, my choice was truly unprecedented.
However, I did not expect that new contradictions would soon arise. After that night's conversation, the family atmosphere became oppressive and depressing.
He began to suppress me in every way, trying to change my perspective on life.
This time, I was really confused and miserable. I understood that my uncle's expectations might come from his desire for me to live the life he thought would be successful, but I couldn't let that deviate from my heart's true desires.
One afternoon, I sat on a bench in the courtyard and fell into deep thought. At this moment, the uncle suddenly walked over with a serious expression on his face.
The uncle's words were full of apologies, and his voice trembled, and he seemed very sincere. I turned my head and looked at my uncle's teary eyes, and the contradiction in my heart disappeared in an instant.
Uncle seemed to be thinking about my words. After a moment, he suddenly sighed deeply, and then broke the silence.
I was both surprised and grateful for my uncle's words. I didn't expect him to understand me like this and give me such tolerance and support.
The days of the National Day have gradually passed, and my relationship with my uncle has returned to intimacy and harmony. Instead of putting any more pressure on me, my uncle encouraged me to pursue what I was really interested in.
I returned to my city and started my own life. Instead of pantering to other people's expectations, I pursued my dreams according to my own preferences.
For me, the harvest of the National Day has gone far beyond the vanity and fame that my uncle's invitation brings.
It is only in the face of contradictions that we can better understand ourselves and truly find inner balance and contentment.
After listening to my words, my uncle fell into deep thought for a long time.
After a while, he sighed deeply and said with a slightly complicated expression: "You are right. Chasing only vanity and the recognition of the outside world will not bring true happiness after all.
But for some reason, I lost myself.
He continued: "Actually, I always knew that you didn't really want this kind of life in your heart, but just wanted you to stand out in social situations and be respected.
I thought that as long as you succeeded, our whole family would be able to shine, but I neglected your own pursuit and happiness.
I was a little surprised, I didn't expect my uncle to react like this, I thought he would be angry because of my disobedience.
I also said these words from the bottom of my heart.
My uncle's eyes were slightly red, and he looked at me quietly, saying, "Perhaps, this is a point that I have neglected for many years. I've always wanted you to carry the glory of our family, but that's not the only way.
I was moved by these words, and the contradictions in my heart were no longer so intense. I know my uncle is doing it for my good, but he's always focused on a different focus.
Since then, I have pursued my hobbies and found real fulfillment in calligraphy and painting.
I found that it was only when I was immersed in the world of art that I truly felt at peace.
The relationship between me and my uncle has gradually returned to normal, and we have become more understanding and respectful of each other through dialogue and exchange.
Conflicts and quarrels are not something a family is willing to experience, but through such conflicts, the relationship between me and my uncle has become more real and deep.
Seeing the brief silence after my uncle's expression changed slightly, I began to regret my honesty a little. The uncle spoke slowly, revealing a little embarrassment and disappointment in his tone: "Do you think that the prosperity of our uncle's family no longer attracts you?" I want to tell you that our uncle's reputation is dazzling, whether it is in social situations or business circles, it is a leader, if you can withstand it, you will definitely have a great future.
I sighed softly, with helplessness in my tone: "Uncle, I don't deny the prosperity and status of the Uncle family, I just think that we can't just use these as a measure of happiness.
I want to be able to find my own path.
When my uncle heard this, the wrinkles on his forehead deepened. He looked at me, as if he had a lot to say, but ended up swallowing the words in his mouth.
With that, he shook his head and turned to leave.
I looked at my uncle's back, and a mixed emotion welled up in my heart. As much as I hope my uncle will understand my choice, I know that it will be a long and tortuous process.
When I returned home, the conversation I had with my uncle echoed in my mind with a peaceful mood. I realized that I couldn't just listen to the pressures of my family, but I should listen to my inner voice and find my own path.
In the days that followed, I devoted myself more fully to my career and interests. I firmly believe that true happiness can only be achieved by working hard to pursue one's dreams.
I still get invitations from my uncle during the holidays, but I will never be disturbed by the illusion of my social circle again.
And the relationship with his uncle gradually became peaceful and understanding.
After listening to my firm determination, my uncle was silent for a moment, and a look of helplessness appeared on his face.
I've always wanted you to stand out in social situations because that's the best resource I, an elder, can give you.
I listened silently to my uncle's words, a little grateful and a little helpless for his worries. His expectations were born of deep love, but he couldn't understand the true desire of my heart.
But I crave more than just a halo in my social circle, I want to be able to shine in something I really love.
My uncle didn't answer me immediately, his eyes were a little complicated, as if he was struggling. After a while, he gave me a deep look and whispered, "Well, since you're so persistent, I'll give you a chance to show yourself in your field of interest."
When I heard my uncle's answer, I was both happy and sad in my heart. I am grateful that he gave me the opportunity, but at the same time I understand that it is a challenge for me.
My relationship with my uncle is still strained. His disappointment and concern about my choice caused a rift in the family relationship between us.
Time passed slowly, and I made some achievements in my favorite field. Despite the setbacks and difficulties, I told myself to persevere and believe in my choice.
One day, while I was busy with my work, I received a letter from my uncle. When I opened it, it turned out that he had invited me to a gala dinner party he was throwing.
Looking at my uncle's invitation, mixed emotions welled up in my heart. I know it's an olive branch he's reaching out to me, a way he's trying to make amends for the past.