In recent years, more and more elderly people have become popular with such ideas. With the development of society, more and more old people's minds are slowly keeping up with the ideas of contemporary young people. That's living more and more clear! Men from birth. The most important thing is to start a family and raise offspring. Whether your life is rich or ordinary, in the end, birth, old age, sickness and death are indispensable. And with the rapid development of society, under the torrent. More and more elderly people are even catching on with this idea. It's just that when you get old, you'll be left alone! It must be like this. Such an idea coincides with many young people today.
First, many old people, to this age. The children have started a family and raised their offspring. In order not to bring pressure to their children in life and not to cause trouble to their children, they have chosen to live alone. You can think about it, children are working hard from morning to night. I can't do it every day, and when I get home, I have to revolve around you, accommodate you and tolerate you. Although it is said that they are all children and daughters, they are filial piety. But over time, there will always be bumps and bumps in life. It's better to live alone, live a chic and comfortable life. It is also a great pleasure in life to reunite as a family during the New Year's holidays.
Second, more and more elderly people will no longer think about finding a wife. A lifetime of ups and downs. How much hard work has been paid for a family? What winds and waves haven't you seen? When you find a wife, you are also a family, and the other party is also a family. Some people are not careful, fight for the inheritance, and even appear in court in a big fight. It's the age of the internet, and I watch the news every day. The end of getting married and finding a wife is not very good, the city is full of wind and rain, and the children and grandchildren are not at peace. I am old, I am old, and the reputation I have saved all my life has been ruined! It's a shame to think about. But there are also many people who really love each other and are not circulated. As the saying goes, good things don't go out, but bad things spread thousands of miles. I'm looking for my wife to go on TV! That's not a good thing.
Third, many elderly people are reluctant to live in nursing homes. After a busy life, I finally got out of this cage of life, and I could finally stop and relax, live a free life, and then you put me in the cage of the nursing home. In the end, he still couldn't escape the end of fate, and he was not happy with birth, old age, sickness and death. Fourth, a lot of older people now. I don't hire a babysitter, I hire a part-time worker. Is there anything you can't do at home? Ask a part-time worker to help you do it, and after you finish it, you won't owe it to each other. When I get old, I find a nanny who watches me every day and manages me, and I don't feel happy when I think about it.
Fifth, it is indispensable to get sick and seriously ill without treatment. Go to the hospital and see, how many elderly people have how many tubes have been inserted into their bodies? How many instruments were placed? It's just hanging a breath. They all suffer when they look at it. Which organ of the rich life is broken, change the organ. After living for three years and five years, he still died without a corpse. The children and grandchildren who are not rich in life are trying to borrow from all over the world, although they are renewing their lives, but they are about to leave a big burden of paying off debts to their children and grandchildren, and after death, the children are not at peace. It's better to go with the flow, run out of oil, and finish the last journey of this life in style.
Sixth, many elderly people have given thousands of instructions. Don't make a big deal out of things after you die. After all, I can't see it. I can't enjoy it either. Affect family and friends. Physically and mentally exhausted from top to bottom. It's better that when the time comes, pull it to the crematorium and take a handful of loess. Spill into the river, river or sea, and go with the flow. Drift to where is where! A few things above. It is also popular with many elderly people around me to think like this. Although they speak very freely, they can see the light of happiness in their eyes! But their final thoughts. We don't know!