"When all good things are done, there will be disaster", do not do all the three good deeds, otherwise there will be disaster

author：Li Xiao Xi 2023-10-31 07:36:00

In our lives, doing good deeds is a virtue that is able to give help and warmth to others. However, in the process of doing good, we also need to be careful and measured. Sometimes, we can get too invested in doing good, even beyond our bottom line.

"When all good things are done, there will be disaster", do not do all the three good deeds, otherwise there will be disaster

First of all, bottomless dedication is a good thing that should not be pursued excessively. While giving can make us feel fulfilled and happy, without a clear boundary and principle to bind ourselves, it can become blind and meaningless in some cases. For example, when it comes to charitable giving, if there is no effective management and supervision of the use of funds, then no matter how much you give, you will not be able to really change the social reality.

Secondly, excessive kindness is also an act that should not be indulged in by oneself. Grace itself is an act of kindness and care, but if grace is regarded as a psychological need or a means to gain the recognition and return of others, then the real help and support for others will be lost.

In addition, excessive involvement in other people's household chores and matrimonial affairs also needs to be handled with caution. Respecting individual privacy and choice is one of the basic principles of doing good. Although we may have well-intentioned intentions, excessive interference in other people's family life and marital relationships can easily lead to conflicts and misunderstandings.

Therefore, doing good deeds requires having your own principles and bottom line. We should clearly define the scope of our responsibilities and maintain appropriate moderation and measurement within that range. At the same time, respect for others' private lives and their right to choose.

All in all, doing good deeds is a virtue, but it also requires attention and proportionality in the pursuit of good deeds. Bottomless giving, excessive graciousness, and excessive involvement in other people's household chores and marital affairs are all behaviors that should not be pursued or indulged excessively. Only by following one's own principles and maintaining appropriate moderation and respecting the privacy of others can one truly become a person who knows how to measure, contributes to society, and is widely recognized and appreciated.

"When all good things are done, there will be disaster", do not do all the three good deeds, otherwise there will be disaster

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