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Author: ✎ He Yi watched the movie
Edited ✎ by He Yi to watch the movie
She is a dancer;
She is the first warrior in China to publicly say that she is transgender;
She is a wife, a mother of three children;
She is Venus.
Years later, when a reporter asked Venus:
"After you have sex reassignment surgery, when you take a shower with a woman, will you be tempted?"
Venus's answer is domineering, firm and decisive!
Be a woman's Venus
When Venus bravely makes the decision to change from a man to a woman, her life is destined to be unpeaceful.
As the first person in China to publicly admit that he underwent sex reassignment surgery, he was not the first person to undergo this surgery.
12 years ago, there was already a person named Zhang Kesha who had taken the first step;
After 12 hours of surgery, he successfully gained a new identity.
It's just that Zhang Kesha was not as lucky as Venus, although he bravely took the first step;
However, because of various pressures, he always lived incognito, and later left Hong Kong;
Just to find a place where no one knows her.
It wasn't until years later that her parents and husband all passed away, and she returned to the mainland to live a low-key life.
But Venus is different, and when she decided to have surgery, she was already a dancer with good achievements in modern dance.
He not only won the highest award in modern dance in China, but was also sent out to study modern dance;
His excellent dancing talent is known as the "dance machine" in the industry;
No matter how difficult the dance moves are, as long as he watches them once, he can reproduce the movements perfectly.
It is understandable that such a highly-anticipated dance genius is facing public opinion pressure to undergo sex reassignment surgery to change from a man to a woman.
But it's nothing to Venus.
After a perilous operation, Venus gets her wish and becomes a woman, although she gets a new lease of life.
But her dancing career almost came to an end.
Because of a small mistake in the operation, she was almost paralyzed in bed and could not dance for the rest of her life.
But Venus, who has super perseverance, overcame many difficulties;
After a difficult recovery, she finally reappeared on stage after half a year and began her debut after transformation.
The comeback has been controversial
Venus, who finally overcame many difficulties and got back on her feet;
Not only to endure physical pain, but also to change your own dance style;
With a new identity, she perfectly displayed her favorite dance, and the hardships involved can be imagined.
But compared with the hard work of the body, the more difficult hurdle should be public opinion from the outside world.
When Venus appears on stage in a whole new light;
Although many people are happy for her, more people express their incomprehension of her;
There are even many people who use some insulting words to evaluate her dance.
There are also some media who want to use her transgender identity to win the attention of the audience, and take the opportunity to hype and create topics.
In the face of these malicious media opinions, Jin Xing did not choose to euphemistically elaborate, but directly and confronted.
When a reporter asked her:
"You used to be a man, but now you are a woman, when you take a bath with a woman, will you act?"
This reporter's question is obviously a trap, if one of them is not noticed, it is easy to catch people and create topics.
I saw Venus answer without thinking:
"Before I became a woman, I didn't have any feelings for women, but now that I'm a woman, it's impossible to have any thoughts about women?"
"But didn't you have a previous marriage?" The reporter continued to ask.
"That's fake, it's not like that between me and her at all, we haven't had a relationship!"
Such a direct answer made the reporter thoroughly feel the domineering of Venus, and also answered some questions from the outside world.
It turns out that the marriage before Venus is fake!
A love life like no other
Indeed, according to Venus herself, she has been gender conscious since she was 6 years old;
She felt that there was a girl living in her body, but she was limited by the boy's body.
When he grew up, Venus did not have the ignorance and throbbing of youth towards the women around him.
On the contrary, when she sees some boys, she feels like her heart is racing;
This made her completely understand that she likes boys.
Therefore, before undergoing surgery, she had not been in a relationship with any woman.
So why did she marry an American girl?
It happened during the time when Venus was sent abroad to study.
The girl's name is Kempolen and she is the girlfriend of Venus's classmate, and Kemporin and her boyfriend ran away from home due to family opposition and lived in a rented house on their own.
But the two young men soon became stretched thin, and when they saw that they could not afford to pay the rent;
Venus proposes that they can live in their own vacant rooms without paying rent;
But only if Kempolen marries Venus.
Since he doesn't like women, why do he want Pauline to marry him "while others are in danger"?
It turned out that it was very difficult to apply for a green card in the United States at that time.
But if you marry an American, the situation is different, so in order to get a U.S. green card smoothly;
Jin Xing came up with this proposal for a "fake marriage".
Venus's proposal was not opposed by Kempolin and her boyfriend;
Soon, in the presence of her boyfriend, Venus and Kenpolin got married.
After marriage, the three of them lived together in the house of Venus, and the well water did not interfere with the river water.
Later, Venus returned to China to be busy with her career, and Kempolin continued her life in the United States, and the two kept in touch but did not interfere with each other's lives;
If it weren't for the fact that Kemporin was pregnant ten years later, she needed to give the child in her womb a normal family;
called Venus to ask for a divorce, and Venus almost forgot that he had a wife who had been married for many years.
The current state of Venus's feelings
After becoming a woman, Venus has been favored by many men, including many "rich and handsome";
But none of them could stabilize Venus until a German man appeared.
The man's name is Hans and he is Venus' current partner.
When the two first meet on a train to Germany, Hans falls in love with Venus at first sight and goes crazy for her.
Hans met Venus's criteria for choosing a mate, and Venus had no reason to refuse in the face of his pursuit.
However, the frank Venus did not hide anything about her past, and she told Hans about her situation as soon as possible.
After some struggle, the man who loved her deeply still firmly chose to be with her, and the two also got married abroad.
However, later for some special reasons for the children adopted by Venus, Venus and Hans went through divorce procedures.
However, the two divorced and did not leave home, and still lived together;
A marriage letter did not change the relationship between the two, and they and their children always lived together.
It was a girl's heart, but a man's body.
After the shock, be brave and be yourself.
This is Venus's own choice, it is her freedom, and others have no right to interfere and interrogate, right?
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