Huang Lei, a heavyweight in the Chinese entertainment industry, has not only achieved great success in his acting career, but also showed his unique wisdom and vision in educating his children. He spent tens of millions of real money just to train his daughter Huang Duoduo to be "someone else's child". This child of someone else's family is not only a comparison of family backgrounds, but also outstanding in personal qualities, talents and morals.
Huang Lei's cultivation of Huang Duoduo was not achieved overnight. He spent a lot of energy and time on education, and even spared no expense to create a high-quality living environment for his daughter. Huang Lei understands that a good environment and education are crucial for children's growth. Therefore, he chose the central villa area in Beijing's Shunyi district as his home, just to be able to be neighbors with the famous violinist Lu Siqing. Lu Siqing is not only a musical genius, but his son is also an excellent music student, and he and Huang Duoduo became childhood sweethearts.
Huang Lei's cultivation of his daughter was not all smooth sailing. He first sent Huang Duoduo to the private Huijia International School, which has a tuition fee of 200,000 yuan a year, and it costs millions just to complete primary education. However, this money is just a piece of cake for Huang Lei. He further sent his daughter to Beijing Shunyi International School, which teaches in English, with an annual tuition fee of 300,000 yuan and extremely strict admission requirements. The school claims that it only accepts foreign students, and that parents must also be foreigners. In order to meet these conditions, Huang Lei and his wife worked hard to let Huang Duoduo study in an all-English educational environment.
Huang Duoduo's excellent performance is inseparable from Huang Lei's educational philosophy. Huang Lei always insists on treating children as an independent individual and putting them in a relatively equal position. He will not make decisions for his daughter, but respects her right to choose. In "Where Are You Going, Dad", Lu Yi's daughter Belle wants to bring Huang Duoduo's puppy home, but Duoduo does not agree. Belle ran to ask Duoduo's father Huang Lei for a puppy, but Huang Lei did not "make his own opinion" for his daughter, but asked Belle to ask Duoduo for permission. This approach not only retains a lot of choice, but also gives enough respect to the daughter.
In addition to respecting his daughter's right to choose, Huang Lei also pays attention to cultivating her daughter's independence and sense of responsibility. He encourages his daughter to take the initiative to take care of her younger siblings, and before going out, he will ask her father which pair of shoes she wants to wear and help him clean them. And when Huang Lei came back from a tiring day, he would take the initiative to help his father wash his feet. These details all show Huang Duoduo's sensible and responsible side.
Of course, for the cultivation of Huang Duoduo, Huang Lei is not blindly laissez-faire. In one episode, Duoduo broke down and cried because he was dissatisfied with the dilapidated condition of the house. Huang Lei did not comfort her immediately, but asked her to calm down first and deal with her emotions by herself. Although this approach may seem harsh, it has taught Duoduo how to deal with setbacks and difficulties.
Huang Lei's "hard-core education" not only made Huang Duoduo an excellent child, but also made other parents reflect on their own education methods. His educational philosophy makes us realize that raising an excellent child is not something that can be done simply by spending money and resources. Rather, it requires the wisdom, patience and love of parents, as well as respect and understanding for the individual child.
In general, Huang Duoduo, the "child of other people's family" cultivated by Huang Lei, is not only the superiority of his family background and outstanding talent, but also the all-round development of personal quality, morality and sense of responsibility. Her growth path is not only the best interpretation of the parent's educational philosophy, but also provides a role model for other parents to learn from.