The 84-year-old man levied 800,000 yuan, all of which was given to his younger son, who would have thought, the other three children were not only not angry, but also very happy, saying: "As long as the father is happy." But later, the old man was angry with the younger son and went to the hospital, and the eldest son never left to take care of his father
This is both heartwarming and infuriating.
84-year-old Lao Li has 2 sons and 2 daughters, Lao Li has a decent job when he was young, but his wife is an ordinary rural woman, so Lao Li always has a sense of superiority in front of his wife, and he has a strong personality, whether it is in front of his wife or children, he always says the same, as long as he decides, no one can raise objections.
Sometimes he will be rude to his children.,In short, it's a particularly difficult person to get along with.。 But he is only kind to his youngest son, because his youngest son Ah Ming has a sweet mouth, and he is not afraid of him, and he often makes him happy.
Therefore, after Ah Ming got married, the old couple lived with their youngest son, and Lao Li's monthly pension of nearly 5,000 yuan was also used to supplement the family.
After the death of his wife, Lao Li levied 800,000 yuan, it stands to reason that each child should share a little of this money, but Lao Li said to the other three children that he will be sent to the end of his younger son's pension in the future, and all the money is given to him, hoping that the other three children can sign the renunciation inheritance agreement.
My father has a bad temper, and it is a good thing not to be angry with him, and they don't care if they have any money or not. Compared with those families who are fighting for money, they can handle this matter calmly, which is really impressive.
Everyone passed a few years without incident, and the other children visited their father during the New Year's holidays.
Unexpectedly, on this day, the eldest brother suddenly received a call from his cousin in the countryside: "Eldest brother, your father is hospitalized, you should come back, Ah Ming said that he doesn't care, I have taken care of him in the hospital for the past two days." ”
The eldest brother was blindsided when he heard this, why did his father move back to the countryside? Isn't my brother on good terms with his father, why don't you ignore him now?
The eldest brother hurriedly called Ah Ming, but Ah Ming looked aggrieved, saying that his father had a bad temper and quarreled with him all day long, because his father wanted to go back to the countryside to live, and he had to go to work, how could he quit his job and go to the countryside to take care of him.
Even if you can't go back, you can't ignore my father's illness and hospitalization now!
At this time, Ah Ming actually said that he had supported his father alone for so many years all these years, why did everyone look for him for anything, and the eldest brother was dumbfounded when he heard it, didn't your father's 800,000 yuan be given to you?
Unexpectedly, Ah Ming denied that he had so much money, and after calculating it, he only took 150,000 yuan from his father at most, what is he eating, drinking, and getting sick at such an age, how much money can he have left?
Isn't that a scoundrel? At present, the eldest brother has no time to talk to him about this, first went to the hospital, the father saw him crying like a child, beat his chest and said: "Your brother is really unconscionable, he spent all my money, and wanted me to hand over the salary card to him for safekeeping, I didn't want to, he lost his temper at me every day, and sometimes beat me, thinking that I was an old man, I had no choice, and I just wanted to be quiet when I returned to the countryside." ”
After the eldest son settled his father, he called a reporter to discuss the matter.
Amin has a tough attitude, I have taken care of him alone for so many years, and now I have to take turns to support him, and my father is not my alone.
In this case, the eldest brother proposed that the 800,000 be redistributed,
Ah Ming made an account with his brother, saying that he could have received 300,000 yuan, and took care of his father for 20 years, even if he had 20,000 yuan a year for nanny fees, he would have to pay 400,000 yuan, so he could only take out another 100,000 yuan at most.
In fact, before Lao Li did not levy it, he saved more than 100,000 yuan, plus he still has a monthly pension, but now he only has 5,000 yuan left on his card, and the old man does not play cards, and his personal expenses are up to 2,000 yuan a month, and the rest of the money is not spent by his son.
Amin said that he was just annoyed and angry, and drove away on his motorcycle.
Before leaving, he left a sentence: I have done my best, you can do whatever you want.
The eldest brother sighed and said: He is "borrowing chickens to lay eggs, unloading the mill and killing donkeys"
When his father was young, not only his retirement salary could be used for him to spend, but also to help him work, he was kind to his father, but now the old man is not in good health, and he has to go to the hospital every once in a while, and he begins to earn money again.
Lao Li fell to such a point, and he also had to bear a lot of responsibility.
What should he do now?
Fortunately, the eldest son is still more reasonable, saying that no matter what, he will treat his father first, and he will not talk to his younger brother about money
Court. As a child, even if you don't inherit your father's property, you must do your duty, if I deal with him, others will only say that I am not filial. ”
As a parent, try to make a bowl of water even, don't chill the hearts of your children, don't care about one or the other, this will only outweigh the losses.
On the surface, the eldest son did suffer a loss, but he won the respect of others.
Filial piety is an instinct and has nothing to do with money.
