"As long as I am by my son's side, even if he comes home late every day, I feel happy."
"I'm going to let my son eat what I cook for the rest of my life."
"Every time I send my son, I cry, and my greatest wish is to be with my son all the time."
"I know every relationship of my son, but I don't like it, I want to find a daughter-in-law who can take care of my son to my heart."
These words sound suffocating.
Similarly, Zhu Yuchen, who was meticulously cared for by his mother, was also very suffocated.
He once became an instant hit with "struggle", and he should have become a first-line actor.
But no matter which crew you go to, your mother will follow.
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This made the director also feel scared and didn't dare to use him for filming.
caused him to become an actor who no one cared about.
He was supposed to have a good marriage.
But because his mother didn't like it, three relationships broke down, and no one dared to marry so far.
He was still single in his forties, had low self-esteem and was depressed and did not dare to go out, so he ran to the kennel and cried bitterly after drinking.
But his mother wept bitterly when she saw it, and still did not repent of herself.
His good life has been ruined, and he has accepted his fate.
"I feel very sorry for my brother because he is very busy with work, and when he comes home, he has no free time of his own, and he has to face my mother's endless care."
Zhu Yuchen's sister said.
When Zhu Yuchen was just born, she found that her mother was too nervous.
I take care of my younger brother carefully every day, and I only have my younger brother in my eyes.
This made her feel partial, but soon she felt that her brother was too pitiful and felt too sorry for him.
Yes, motherly love is great, but some motherly love is suffocating.
When Zhu Yuchen was a child, what meals, snacks, and water were all arranged by his mother.
Even when you go out to play, what time to go and what time to come back, who to play with and who not to play with, my mother will also have rules.
When he was in school, he was sent to the best primary school by his mother, and Zhu Yuchen's mother would calculate the time from school to home.
For example, if he needs to walk for ten minutes to get home, he will be criticized for being a minute late.
When I got home, I had to review the day's study life with my mother, whether the teacher criticized him, and whether his classmates bullied him.
I asked carefully how many times I drank water and how much I drank at one time.
Maybe he has been cared for like this since he was a child, and Zhu Yuchen is used to it.
But he also became introverted and cowardly, and did not even dare to resist.
It wasn't that he hadn't tried to stay away from his mother, but they all failed.
In 1998, Zhu Yuchen was admitted to Chinese opera.
He likes acting, and he is very happy to be admitted to Chinese opera, and he is even happier that he can be independent and can breathe free air away from his mother.
But he didn't expect his mother to follow, so he faced an extremely embarrassing scene when he first entered school.
"As soon as I entered the dormitory, Zhu Yuchen wanted to make the bed, and my aunt hurriedly said son, don't worry about me."
"After everything was cleaned up, his mother asked us one by one if we were snoring, for fear that our snoring would affect Zhu Yuchen's rest."
When his mother asked his classmates, Zhu Yuchen's face instantly turned red, but he didn't dare to resist and couldn't say anything to ask his mother not to ask.
After Zhu Yuchen's mother cleaned up, she looked up and saw the creeper by the window.
"This creeper will attract insects, what should I do if I bite my son, can I scald it to death with boiling water?"
After thinking about it, she went to get boiling water, so frightened that Zhu Yuchen hurriedly stopped it, saying that she would be expelled from school, and his mother gave up.
After settling into her son's accommodation, his mom rented a house near the school.
"I just want to be closer to my son, even if he doesn't come home every day, I can feel at ease."
So Zhu Yuchen lives in the school, and she lives next to the school.
Make three meals a day and send them to Zhu Yuchen, and tell him subtly not to touch this and that.
Later, he forced his son not to stay in the house and live with her.
This can be regarded as Zhu Yuchen becoming a "mom boy" in the eyes of his classmates, and he has been ridiculed for several years.
After graduating from Chinese opera, Zhu Yuchen was appreciated by director Zhao Baogang and starred in "Struggle".
After the broadcast of this drama, the ratings continued to rise, and the leading actors such as Article, Tong Dawei and Zhu Yuchen all became popular.
He also won the appreciation of director Zhao Baogang and starred in "Who Calls the Shots in My Youth".
then maintained the rhythm of one play a year, starring in works such as "Swinging de Marriage Contract" and "The N Power of Home".
His acting skills are very good, and he is also low-key, and he is very strict in selecting works.
It stands to reason that it will become popular, but I didn't expect it to be reduced to no drama to film.
And all because of his mother.
Back then, Zhu Yuchen joined the group to film, and Zhu Yuchen's mother would definitely follow.
Every time, I carry a large bag and a small bag, which has everything for food and clothing.
Whenever Zhu Yuchen finished a scene, she would quickly step forward and hand over the water and towels.
The entertainer was supposed to be in shape, and there were many things that could not be eaten.
But Zhu Yuchen's mother didn't listen, even if the assistant told Zhu Yuchen countless times that she couldn't eat it.
She still went her own way.
And he got up at half past four to boil pear water for his son, for fear that his son would cough.
In addition, she also interfered with Zhu Yuchen's filming.
Once, Zhu Yuchen had a scene of being beaten, and the degree of beating was not large.
But Zhu Yuchen's mother was distressed and burst into tears.
She knelt and begged Zhu Yuchen not to take this kind of scene again.
And she felt that her son couldn't stay up late, which was not good for his health.
Therefore, I found the director three times and asked the other party not to arrange for Zhu Yuchen to stay up late.
But filming is uncontrollable on time, and some scenes must also be completed at night.
But she doesn't care at all, if the director arranges for Zhu Yuchen to stay up late to film, she will keep interfering.
Because of her interference, Zhu Yuchen was also directly removed from the crew.
Slowly, everyone in the circle knows that Zhu Yuchen has such a mother.
There are many directors who appreciate his acting skills but are deterred by her mother.
caused him to slowly run out of scenes to film.
In addition to interfering with her son's career, she also pays special attention to her son's feelings.
"I must find a daughter-in-law who can take care of my son and meet my heart."
Because of her thoughts, Zhu Yuchen's three relationships were fruitless.
For the first time, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei fell in love.
The two are alumni, Tang Wei who Zhu Yuchen took the initiative to pursue.
After the two of them got together, he focused most of his energy on Tang Wei.
This made Zhu Yuchen's mother quickly realize that something was wrong, so she asked her son.
After learning that he was in love, he was not happy for Zhu Yuchen, but had some worries.
So she asked Zhu Yuchen to take Tang Wei home.
But at first sight, his mother didn't like it.
"A woman should be a good wife and mother."
She felt that Tang Wei was dressed too fashionably, and he was not a stable person.
When it was time to eat, she was all kinds of picky about Tang Wei.
After this meeting, Tang Wei immediately proposed to break up.
The first relationship ended helplessly.
Later, he met Huo Siyan again.
Zhu Yuchen's mother approves of this relationship.
Because she felt that Huo Siyan was dignified and gentle, she would definitely be able to take care of her son.
Unexpectedly, during a meal, she handed the empty bowl to Huo Siyan, meaning that she should go and serve Zhu Yuchen a meal.
But Huo Siyan is just a little girl, and she is also a pet at home.
At that time, she was a little confused, which made Zhu Yuchen's mother very dissatisfied.
"His mother may not care how happy her son is with the person she loves in the future, she just marries a new mother for Zhu Yuchen, I am not suitable."
One sentence hit Zhu Yuchen's mother's thoughts, and in the face of such a mother-in-law, Huo Siyan chose to let go without any hesitation.
Two relationships in a row have been stirred, and Zhu Yuchen may still have a trace of luck.
He fell in love with Jiang Yan again.
Jiang Yan is lively and cheerful, and the whole person is very sunny.
And Zhu Yuchen just lacks this kind of cheerfulness, he likes to be with Jiang Yan very much.
And he longs for this relationship to be approved by his mother.
So I took Jiang Yan back home.
"At first glance, I thought she couldn't do it."
Zhu Yuchen's mother said.
Because Jiang Yan wore a long T
Two big white legs leaked.
She felt that Jiang Yan was a woman who was not in the room, so she objected.
Jiang Yan is also very good, with a bold and independent personality.
When you see that the other party doesn't like it, you won't stick to it.
Once again, the relationship ended without a hitch.
The end of three relationships made Zhu Yuchen dare not fall in love again.
But he also longed to have a lover with him.
In a variety show, when it came to this topic, after Zhu Yuchen drank wine, he went into the kennel and hugged the dog and cried.
While crying and shouting: Why no one wants to be with me.
At that time, many people were sad when they saw this clip.
Why is there no one to accompany him?
It's because of his cowardice, his timidity, and his dependence on his mother.
After so many years and three relationships, as long as he is willing to insist, it will not be such a result.
Whether it is Tang Wei or Huo Siyan or Jiang Yan.
They were able to leave happily, not only because of their independent personalities, but also because they saw Zhu Yuchen's cowardice.
also saw that he would not choose them firmly.
For example, Tang Wei was called to her home by her mother and accused her of not taking care of Zhu Yuchen.
Who can bear such a reprimand for a little girl to be reprimanded before she even entered the door.
And her boyfriend didn't say a word.
For example, Huo Siyan was asked by Zhu Yuchen's mother to serve a meal, even if Zhu Yuchen took the initiative to stand up and serve the meal, but he didn't say a word.
For example, Jiang Yan was told by her mother that she was too naked, and he also did nothing.
This made them see the contradictions between the mother-in-law and the future husband after marriage.
So they don't look back.
And Zhu Yuchen kept saying that he hoped that his mother would give him a little freedom.
But he did not take action, only persuaded but did not insist.
Therefore, he and his mother are responsible for creating today's ending.
Some people say that her son is in his forties and has never been married, does Zhu Yuchen's mother regret managing too much?
She has no regrets and will not repent.
She used to call him Ye Te, which means wife.
It can be seen from this title that Zhu Yuchen's mother's thinking has been distorted, and her future focus is only on her son, who has replaced his wife.
So it is intolerable to have another woman, by the side of the son.
Now Zhu Yuchen is fat and swollen, and there is no invitation to the scene, and his career is completely ruined, and his marriage is gone.
It's a pity.
I still remember that Li Jing once said: You have such a good relationship with your son, I am worried that he will find the other half, and you will not allow her.
Sure enough, it became a prophecy.
And Zhu Yuchen's mother's sentence: Whoever marries into our family will be blessed.
I guess no one can bear this blessing.
After all, no one can get up at four o'clock to boil pear water for Zhu Yuchen.
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Do you have such people around you who are controlled by parents?
Why do you think they don't dare to resist?
If you resist, will you have a different life?
Zhu Yuchen has come to this day, is it half because of himself?
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