Dear Son,
Hello!
Seeing that your height has increased by leaps and bounds, and you have quietly surpassed your mother and approached me, as a father, I am overjoyed! Son, you have grown from a babbling child to a vigorous teenager!
It seems like you've grown so big in just a few days! Twelve years ago, the year was over, and the joy of becoming a father for the first time was still vivid! Your first cry brought tears to my eyes! I'm clumsily holding you, overwhelmed with joy! Newborn babies are ugly, but in the eyes of parents, you are the most beautiful angel! When your mom asked me to name you, I didn't hesitate to call you - Cong Cong! Mom and Dad are not smart, but they want you to be smart, well-behaved and cute. In the days that followed, your cry became the most beautiful music! As a first-time father, I don't know how to serve my children, and I am often smeared with feces and urine by you! But I'm happy! People say that children's feces and urine don't smell, but I really didn't smell the smell of you at that time.
Grow with small trees
Since I can't take care of the children, your mother and I let you catch a cold while holding you in the sun to breathe, and began the subsequent journey of running to the hospital for more than a year to see you! The nurse's sister's needle pierced you and hurt in the hearts of your parents! Once, it took seven stitches to get the needle! You cry loudly, Mom cries quietly, Dad tears quietly.
We ran all over the small city of Linyi's large and small hospitals. In the People's Hospital, there are too many people who get injections, so I brave the cold at 5 o'clock in the morning and ride to the hospital to line up first, so that when we arrive at the hospital, we can directly give you injections. But you still have a cold almost every month, so we decided to go to Jinan to see a doctor. On the way to Jinan, I was anxious to see that you were one year old and breathing unevenly! Happily, at the provincial hospital, you are slowly getting better! You can't walk yet, so you stand up and shake it with your hands on the guardrail of the hospital bed!
One day, you stood up and staggered two steps forward! So, I helped you learn to walk. Once, twice, I quietly let go of my grip from behind, and you took five or six steps forward! You'll be able to walk! I'm anxious to share the good news with your grandparents!
One and a half years old, it should be weaned. Your mother can't be ruthless, so I gritted my teeth and let your mother and son not meet. When you wake up, look for your mother, and I'll give you milk powder and watch cartoons with you. In those two days, my mother couldn't help but want to come over to feed you several times, but I was "ruthless" to stop her! Isn't the heart of a father like a knife? However, you are already over a year old and must be weaned!
Fly among the green waters and green mountains
Mom is the kindergarten principal, and you have a large group of children around you since you were a child. You are cute and cute, you are the joy of teachers and children, you have never been pampered and arrogant, and you are the king. You are kind-natured, docile, and like your little rabbit, you are a good child. Give you something to eat, you know to stuff it in your parents' mouths when you're a few months old. You are an only child, and everything is eaten by you, but you always let Mom and Dad eat first. You have been in the world for 12 years, and our family has been polite for 12 years. When you go to the supermarket to buy something, you always pick one or two items that are not expensive. Mom and Dad let you go and buy, but you don't buy much, you always say that it is not easy for Mom and Dad to make money. When you were a child, you always said that when you grow up, you will go to a good university, find a good job, and buy a villa for your parents to live in.
They all say that you can drink milk at a young age, and you start drinking it at four or five months and have been drinking it until now. Drink milk, body bar, my mother and I look at the sweetness of your milk, and our hearts are happy. Child, your chubby smiling face is the greatest happiness of Mom and Dad!
You are honest, gentle, and have a lot of friends. Before you were five years old, you were very clingy to your father, and even when I went out to buy groceries and deliver garbage, I wanted me to take you with me. In elementary school, you continue to be a good child. Sometimes, my mom and I think you seem a little cowardly. You like to read, you like to study, and you don't like to show your head. Until the third grade of primary school, you have always positioned yourself as four or five places in the class, and you have basically maintained this level of learning.
It's fourth grade, we've moved, you're starting to go to school on your own, we're no longer picking you up. At that time, I tried to give you more time and space, and also consciously cultivate your autonomy. In hindsight, it was too relaxing for you at that time. My work has also been adjusted, everything needs to start all over again, and I pay less attention to your studies. By the end of the fifth grade, although I paid more attention to your studies, you had already developed the bad habit of procrastinating on homework and not paying attention to your studies. I started to correct you, but it was not thorough, and with the severity of the epidemic, your learning slowly pulled down. I'm a little anxious, and sometimes I'm a little impatient with you. You are still young, you have poor self-control, and you are simple and rude to be a father. Your mother is even more anxious and doesn't understand how a good child and a good student like you seems to have suddenly become a "problem child". But I know it will take time to get you back on the right track.
Warm others with love
In junior high school, in order to isolate you from your former playmates, we chose a middle school far away from them. New environment, new classmates, new teachers, we hope you have a new look. But judging from the first month of school, although you have changed from the fifth or sixth grade of primary school, it is still far from enough. You are still a little procrastinating, not paying attention to your studies, and often doing everything possible to play with your mobile phone! Kid, this won't work! The results of several quizzes have exposed your learning attitude and learning status!
Child, junior high school has just begun, from now on, correct the learning attitude, tighten the rhythm, plan the time, study hard, there is still time! Compared to the average child, you are not smart, but you are not stupid either. Mom and Dad have the ability, energy, and time to help you adapt to junior high school as soon as possible. We are also reflecting, reviewing, learning, using scientific education methods, and being patient enough to grow with you!
Kid, do you remember? Dad once used five or six days to help you improve your grades by more than 20! Dad once guided your essay and won the second prize in the municipal essay competition! Dad once spent half a year to make you jump from the bottom few grades to the top two in the grade! Believe in Dad, believe in yourself, and we will work together to improve your academic performance from the bottom of the class to the top of the class. We don't pull out the seedlings to help them grow, we don't rush for quick success, we take a few months to move forward step by step. We don't aim for high rankings, we just ask you to gradually move into the top 10 of your class! We not only help you from learning, but also from ideological education, the formation of good behavior habits, the cultivation of self-confidence and other aspects. Famous teachers guide, role models, reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles of catalysis, "Zengzi's Family Motto", "Fu Lei's Family Letters", "Growth Classics", we do everything we can, just to let you bathe in the sunshine and rain and thrive!
Fill the cardamom years with struggle
Child, learning is not a happy journey, learning is a hike! You must understand that if you lie flat at the age when you should endure hardship, your youth will be wasted in inaction! Every bit of bitterness you suffer now will reap ten times the sweetness and happiness in the future! Far from it, examples abound around me. Your cousin is strong, he has been playing for a few years, he didn't get admitted to college, he went to a technical school, and now he works in a small factory, his income is only enough to maintain food and clothing, and it is impossible to buy a car and a house. Liu Yingge, the son of your mother's best friend, graduated from 985 and joined Huawei, with an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan just after graduation. Your cousin Zhu Jiuyang, the family has money, he studied to hang his son, he scored 200 points in the college entrance examination, although he bought a house and got married under the protection of his parents, but what can he do, change a unit in a month or two, three or four thousand a month, he doesn't spend enough, he was kicked out of the house by his wife, and he looks pitiful!
Child, not only do you need to work hard, but also mom and dad, dad is moving from a well-known writer to a famous writer on the road of writing, and mom's hard pen calligraphy has gradually become professional. Children, a brand-new environment, the blessing of famous principals and famous teachers, let us start all over again, study hard, ignite youth, and fill the cardamom years with struggle! For your own future, for the rise of China, write a life answer sheet without regrets!
Your friend, your dad Inker
October 9