Jiang Dehua, an inconspicuous woman in life, has a strong soul and a benevolent heart. She is the kind of person who works silently and does not expect anything in return, and the role of a mother and wife is perfectly combined in her. Jiang Dehua married Lao Ding, a step that seemed to change her fate, but also brought her the happiest time in her life.
Jiang Dehua gave birth to their daughter, a little angel who was as delicate and considerate as her, named Ding Xiaoxian. This name seems to be the best note on her warm soul, and her existence has become the brightest star in the lives of Jiang Dehua and Lao Ding.
Jiang Dehua is not from a wealthy family, she grew up in the countryside since she was a child, and her hard-working personality has been vividly brought into play in the family. After years of hard work, she and Lao Ding finally found a place to live, and their family became happy and warm. Jiang Dehua's skillful hands and maternal love have made this home the focus of envy of the neighbors. Whether cooking, sewing or home décor, she has shown exceptional talent.
However, the good times did not last long, and Jiang's decision changed everything. She married Lao Ding, a decision that brought her happiness, but also put the Jiang family in trouble. After Jiang Dehua left, the Jiang family's life fell into chaos because of the loss of her skillful hands and care.
Jiang Dehua is old, Lao Ding has also died, and she has returned to her sister-in-law's house. However, it is regrettable that Ding Xiaoyan did not accompany and take care of her as expected. This makes people wonder, why did Ding Xiaoyan fail to fulfill his responsibility to accompany and support his mother?
First of all, Ding Xiaoyan may be an adult, working or starting a family, and unable to support Teckwah. In modern society, children's responsibilities are not only to support their parents, but also to their own lives and families. Ding may be under too much pressure to take care of his mother and his family at the same time.
Secondly, Ding Xiaoyan may lack responsibility and responsibility, because she has always been pampered. It is an old proverb that the most pampered children are usually not the most filial but also often proven to be true. In Ding's upbringing, she may have been spoiled and thus failed to develop a sense of responsibility to her mother.
The play may also set up a Ding Xiao sample to highlight Teckwah's dedication and her mother's return to Teckwah. Jiang Dehua's dedication is selfless, she has given everything for her family, but perhaps she has not received the reward she deserves. This made Ding Xiaoyan feel that her mother did not need her support, perhaps she thought that her sister-in-law was better able to accompany Jiang Dehua, because they matched their age and had more common memories.
In the end, Teckwah returned to his mother's home to retire and did not need Ding Xiaoxian's support, which may be the best ending. There is a deep relationship between brothers and sisters-in-law, and they will support each other and accompany Jiang Dehua through his old age. Ding Xiaoyan may be more comfortable living in other cities, and she can have more space to pursue her interests and hobbies without having to bear too many responsibilities.
Teck Kong's story is one full of warmth and reflection. She is a silently dedicated mother who has worked hard for her family all her life, and although in the end she did not receive the return she expected, her tenacity and maternal love will remain in our memory forever.
Jiang Dehua's life taught us that family affection is selfless, but we should also learn to be grateful and reciprocate. A mother's love cannot be measured in words, and it is our duty to do our best to reciprocate it when they need it. At the same time, we should also cherish family affection and not let loved ones feel lonely and helpless when they need help.
In Jiang Dehua's story, we see the greatness and complexity of family affection. She is an ordinary woman, but her life story is full of warmth and lessons. Her life, like that bright star, although inconspicuous, will always shine in the depths of our hearts.