There are good and evil sides in human nature, and self-discipline and regulation of words and deeds are the basis for building trust between people.
However, in real life, we often witness some incomprehensible bad behavior, which makes people wonder, why do many people know that they should restrain their behavior, but they never fail to do it. Recently, a heated "grandson pressing stool bottom incident" has become the focus of people's attention. According to reports, after sitting down on a restaurant seat, a mother-in-law ignored her grandson behind her and shook her stool to the ground, crushing her grandson underneath.
Afterwards, she not only did not have unnecessary concern and apologies, but also said with a mocking face: "Children are so timid and do not understand the rules." "The revelation of this incident has triggered widespread anger and condemnation, and people cannot help but lament that there is such evil and indifference in human nature.
In this case, we can see the background and characteristics of some mothers-in-law. It is understood that this mother-in-law comes from a relatively wealthy family and has been pampered and pampered since childhood.
Throughout her career, she has mainly worked as a housewife without excessive social interaction and work pressure. She has a cheerful personality and likes to pursue pleasure and comfort.
Such background and characteristics have influenced her attention and understanding of the feelings of others to some extent. However, it is clearly one-sided to attribute this incident only to the mother-in-law's personal problems.
In society, many people know the importance of self-discipline and regulating words and deeds, but they still choose to go against common sense and harm others. Behind this phenomenon, there are deeper problems.
Good and evil coexist in human nature, and bullying the soft and fearing the hard is a weakness of human nature, which makes some people compromise and retreat in the face of the strong, but have malice towards the weak. To better explore this issue, we can also see another case where not paying attention to the care of children can lead to tragedy.
In this case, a mother-in-law indulged herself in disregard of her grandson's safety because she pursued her hobbies, which eventually led to the tragedy of her grandson's drowning. This incident reminds us once again that we cannot simply pursue personal pleasure while neglecting our responsibilities and obligations with others.
Many people know the truth and understand that it is right to discipline their behavior, but they are unable to do it. This is not just a matter of individual will, but the weakness of human nature that is at work.
Bullying the weak or indulging oneself makes people feel a sense of control and superiority, which satisfies a certain desire in human nature to a certain extent. However, we cannot stop at accusations and accusations.
Effective communication and mutual understanding are key to problem solving. Whether it is a mother-in-law relationship or other interpersonal relationships, we need to respect and understand each other and listen to each other's voices attentively.
Only through effective communication can we find the root of the problem and solve the contradictions and frictions that plague us. In short, there are two sides of good and evil in human nature, and self-discipline and regulation of words and deeds are the cornerstone of building trust between people.
However, many people have difficulty restraining their behavior when faced with their weaknesses. Through the "Sun Tzu Pressing the Stool Bottom Incident" and other cases, we have seen the evil of bullying the soft and fearing the hard in human nature.
In order to avoid tragedy, we need more effective communication, as well as mutual understanding and love in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only in this way can we establish true family harmony and inject more warmth and trust into interpersonal relationships.