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Once, I also fell into the quagmire of an extramarital affair, which lasted for two whole years. Let's be honest and unabashed, I hid it from everyone at that time, even my father-in-law and mother-in-law. They certainly don't want their grandchild to be a single parent. So, my in-laws and I built a strong front, on the one hand, we had to hold our ground in terms of money, and on the other hand, we carefully took care of myself and my children. I frequently asked my husband for money to make sure that Mistress was unprofitable. After all, juniors tend to value financial interests. We approached all this rationally and calmly, and such a strategy was very successful.
I know color, don't I? Food and fun help to keep his heart, in addition, there is the crystallization of our love - the baby. At first, it may have been impulsive to cheat, but then I found that home flowers are more fragrant than wild flowers, so I successfully saved my marriage and family. Although I understood that he was still constantly talking, this no longer affected my inner peace. I even hope that he will continue to do so, because I am no longer willing to take any commitments and no more responsibility. Strangely, after adopting this mentality, we became very harmonious together.
Smart women take smart ways to deal with problems. Although there is pain in my heart, I can understand it, but when you are honest with your husband, your husband will also self-reflect and converge a little. From then on, he would be more cautious in doing things, thinking about the whole family. As a matter of course, I stopped participating in household chores, not because I was afraid, but because I didn't want to participate, I treated him as a permanent worker in the family, and as long as he took money home every month, I didn't care about anything else.
The reason is simple, not because I can't get out, but because we have a child, a child who needs a complete family. Children of single-parent families face endless hardships, a period of unspeakable pain. Your choice is right! Even with a divorce, you will still be hurt and will have to endure loneliness. Finding another one is not guaranteed to be better than him. Before marriage, we keep our eyes open, but once we get married, we choose to close our eyes. Men cheat, women may have luck, he understands women's weaknesses, may become more unscrupulous, and even more juniors. No matter how hard you try, the spirit and economy of the family will be lost. It seems normal for men to like the new and dislike the old, they may like the new but also not give up the old.
One hundred times of infidelity seems to be a universal principle. Although you bravely expressed your opinion, can you forgive the man who hurt you? Is he truly repentant? I have a friend whose husband already has a second family outside and has a son, which she also knows, but chooses to pretend not to know and continue to live her life. No matter which party cheats, it is difficult to repair, and the cracks and shadows in the marriage will stay with you for a lifetime. It seems that it seems difficult for men to forgive their wives for cheating, but for some reason, some women can forgive their husbands for their betrayal, which is confusing. Maybe it's more disgusting because men cheat.
I found out that he was cheating when I was one month pregnant, and although this discovery was cruel, I decided to terminate the pregnancy. Even though life isn't going well right now, and I'm reluctant, I don't have a better choice. Men tend to like the new and dislike the old, have a family and children, cheating is only a momentary impulse, they may return to the family. For lovers, after all, they are just lovers, and they can be abandoned at any time when they are tired of playing. I understand that despite your husband's cheating, at least you still have a complete family with children with fathers. It's just that he will pay for the happiness of the moment.
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