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Li Bihua: Don't be a stepping stone to carry men

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Night in Jiahua City slowly falls, and the bustle of the streets and alleys gradually quiets down. In this silent moment, let us discuss the wisdom and tenacity shown by women in love and career choices in ancient and modern times.

Li Bihua: Don't be a stepping stone to carry men

In ancient times, we listened to Li Bihua's words in "The Legend of the Green Snake", and her warning presented women with a cup of moist and silent poisoned wine, reminding them not to easily be a stepping stone to the success of a man's career. Historically, many women have ended up suffering from carrying men, and some have even given up their lives for it. In order to improve Jia Baoyu's status, Jia Mu in the dream of the Red Chamber did not hesitate to push Daiyu into the fire pit. Yang Yuhuan during the reign of Zhenguan, for the sake of the prosperous Yang family's career, turned himself into a good story in history. These women, while paying for love, often lose their lives and dignity. This is just like the story of the modern Ma Yili and the article, the former article emerged under the promotion of Ma Yili, but eventually became an abandoned party. But Ma Yili, because of her tenacious character, has always enjoyed a brilliant career. This story is a reminder that women should pursue their careers and independence, rather than play the role of victims of men's success.

Li Bihua: Don't be a stepping stone to carry men

Now, we are focusing on the divorce case between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu. When they had no wealth, lived in a big house, and drove a luxury car, Lao Liu did not file for divorce. And when Fu Seoul brought them wealth and a luxurious life, Lao Liu became dissatisfied with his marriage and wanted to pursue freedom. This allows us to see the selfishness and dissatisfaction of human nature, as well as the needs and desires of men at different ages. With money and status, some men often seek more and aspire to have more women and lifestyles. This case shows us that men sometimes turn away from marriage in their pursuit of self-esteem and fulfillment, even if it means hurt and separation.

Li Bihua: Don't be a stepping stone to carry men

In reality, there are also many examples of Aunt Zhao, who once silently supported her husband's career and selflessly paid for him. However, after her husband became famous, she became an outcast. This situation reflects the reality of many women who give up their pursuits for their families and careers, only to find themselves achieving nothing. It's a profound lesson that reminds us that women should focus on their own achievements and independence, and not position themselves as the invisible heroes behind men's success.

In marriage, too many women end up neglecting their own development because of family responsibilities. However, women today have realized that it is better to carry themselves than men. They understand that only by achieving themselves can they truly achieve happiness and dignity. In love and marriage, equality and mutual respect are essential. Women should have their own careers and independence, and not fall victim to men's success.

Finally, both men and women should understand that true love and marriage are based on equality and mutual support. If a person only knows how to take and is not willing to give, then the relationship will eventually break down. For women, don't give everything for men easily, but choose those who deserve to grow together. In love, you must know how to protect yourself and not become a tool for others to use. Only in this way can we move towards a happier life.

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