From the moment we entered the university, there were many iconic things waiting for us to do, such as playing games, secretly traveling, and talking about a sweet love.
But there are also many single people around, and students who are not impatient ask questions, is it really a necessity for college life to fall in love? Do you have to fall in love in college without regrets?
Can't you talk about love without falling in love?
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S said that it is not interesting to talk about love, in her eyes, maybe to fall in love is to go and experience the things that have been experienced countless times with different people, to see a hand-in-hand movie, to walk slowly under the street lamp, to send flowers and gifts procedurally... She felt bored, she needed a boyfriend, or maybe she just needed someone to accompany her.
She said: "College is like this, adults don't need that kind of meaningless social interaction anymore, if you don't approach a person with some purpose, then you are destined to be two parallel lines, never intersecting." S said that she seemed to be very lonely, there should be a shadow of someone around her, as for who the owner of the shadow was, she did not care very much.
It's not that we're pretty, it's that we're twenty years old. Young people will always have, but we will not always be young. People seem to be born with love in the process of growing up, so why not leave the impulse and like of youth to the more worthy people. Don't mistake the street lamp for the moon, and don't take a whim as a liking.
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Xiao Xu's relationship ended faster than the rain of Qingming, and the roommate asked why I hadn't seen the two of them walking together recently? She said that she had just broken up her hands yesterday, and the boy's reason was that he just wanted to try the feeling of being in love. Xiao Xu's eyes swollen overnight, and the next morning still sent good morning on time. The boys ordered takeout, played games, and played basketball like no one else.
Xiao Xu said that he seemed to be the seasoning that he temporarily added to his life, he tasted the life with the taste of love, knew what it was like, and that was it.
The roommate said to Xiao Xu: Love is an elective course in life, we don't have to force it, some people may meet it very early, and some people may not meet it in their lifetime. You have to eat, drink, have fun, sleep well, pack up your mood, prepare to test your seven-seven-eight-eight certificates, defeat the hardships and difficulties on the road, and go to the top, proving that he missed you.
Learn to politely exit, stop at the right time, have self-esteem, do everything you can, and then disturb it is impolite, you know, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep. It's no big deal, no matter how you think, people who lose their hearts are even more at a loss. Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Love is not a compulsory course, but love yourself is.
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Yi Yi has not been in love for a long time, she said that the previous relationship has stayed up for a long time, and she can't get up to the next love. Yi Yi used boiling, she said that she did not want to fall in love, during that time she had understood that it was not suitable to be together, she added a shackle to herself, but she knew that long pain was not as good as short pain.
She wanted to come out on her own, let it go if it wasn't worth it, no one could go back to the past, but she could start over at any time. Although she said she didn't have the courage to do it again.
She didn't want anyone to disturb her life now, it was as calm as a lake, don't stir up its waves. Now, she's just right alone. Make a beautiful makeup, wear your favorite clothes, don't envy anyone, don't rely on anyone, try to become stronger, live as you like, and stand on the top of your mind and overlook.
Suddenly remembering when I was eighteen years old, I confidently and brazenly said, I was still young, the south wall hit it, love is more important than anything, love can cut through thorns and cross mountains and seas. Falling in love is blushing, to being responsible, understanding, respecting, and always being loyal. If there is, it is fortunate, and if not, it is normal. There are many people getting off the bus in the middle of the way, and you don't have to worry about it.
Shiren wrote a poem praising: "The drapery alone supports the envy of people, and pushes Lü Bicheng everywhere." Such a beautiful and talented woman as Lü Bicheng, who never married in her life, became the "first leftover daughter of the Republic of China". This is how she talked to her friends about her emotional feelings: there are not many men who can be satisfied in life, Liang Qichao has a family early, Wang Jingwei is too young, Wang Rongbao is a good person, and he is married, Zhang Xiao once introduced Zhu Zongyuan to me, but he is not confused, his eyebrows are white, and he is too unworthy.
My purpose is not how much money and how the door is, but in the position of literature, so it is rare to have a suitable partner, the east is not successful, the west is not successful, and there is a lost opportunity. Fortunately, he had a little savings on hand, did not worry about food and clothing, and could only entertain himself with literature.
In the matter of marriage, she always felt that there was no match around her, so she preferred to be alone and old. Lü Bicheng had never been married in his life, but so what? Born like the splendor of summer flowers, dead like the quiet beauty of autumn leaves. This is perhaps the most beautiful gesture of a woman.
Being in love is not a necessity in life
There are many people who get off the bus during the journey of life
There may be no one to accompany you to the end
Learn to love yourself
Don't fall in love
OK
Don't love yourself
No way
Source: Qing Xiaoxiao