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preface
Li Chengru is an actor who has also won many awards and has been recognized by the audience, but offstage, Li Chengru is a scumbag who "abandons his wife and son".
Now people in their old age, have a serious illness, there is not even a person to take care of, only then did they remember that they had a son, to which netizens sharply commented on him: deserve! Self-seeking!
So, why is Li Chengru so desperate?
Li Chengru has been suppressing his son, leaving him without dignity
Li Dahai and his mother Li Shirong originally lived in a small house of 18 square meters, living a hard life, in order to reduce his mother's burden, he dropped out of high school in his second year of high school to work and earn money.
He once served plates in cafes and also worked in sales in shopping malls, earning only 800 yuan a month, leaving early and returning late every day, and when he worked outside, Li Dahai was worried about his mother, what to do if he was sick at home alone and had no one to take care of.
At the same time, Li Dahai's father Li Chengru lived a different life, Li Chengru once failed in business, and later re-established himself in the entertainment industry, starred in many well-known TV series, and accumulated a certain amount of wealth.
Later, he returned to the business world, did business with a unique vision, and became a billionaire with assets of more than 100 million, Li Chengru bought a mansion, drove a famous car, and was surrounded by many celebrities and stars, which was a strong contrast with his biological son Li Dahai.
The father and son have not seen each other much, and their feelings have long been estranged, and Li Dahai has repeatedly wanted to ask Li Chengru to improve his life, but Li Chengru has a cold attitude and does not give any help.
When Li Dahai called Li Chengru for help, Li Chengru always did not answer or hang up, not taking his son's request seriously at all.
Once, Li Dahai wanted to lend money from Li Chengru to improve his mother's living conditions, but Li Chengru not only did not borrow money, but also insulted his son, letting his son earn money to support himself.
In addition, Li Chengru also publicly insulted Li Dahai many times for not having skills, and in a talent show, Li Chengru criticized Li Dahai for being "human-like dog-like", and if it were not for his parents, Li Dahai would not be qualified to stand on the stage.
This made Li Dahai, who was still a college student at the time, hold back tears on the spot, reluctantly saying that his father still loved him, Li Dahai broke down and cried after returning to the backstage, and the staff came to comfort him.
Another time, Li Dahai wanted to set up a recording studio and needed a piano, so he plucked up the courage to call Li Chengru and wanted to borrow a piano from Li Chengru's family.
But in the end, he was ruthlessly driven out of the door by Li Chengru, saying that the piano he bought could not be used by Li Dahai, and ridiculed Li Dahai for not having the ability to be a singer.
Li Dahai stood outside the door and kept begging Li Chengru, but Li Chengru had a tough attitude and refused to give in.
Years of suppression made Li Dahai realize that Li Chengru was not his "lifesaver" at all, there seemed to be no family affection between father and son, and Li Chengru's actions did not give Li Dahai the dignity he deserved at all.
This also became the reason why Li Dahai bluntly said in an interview later that Li Chengru was like he did not have a father, Li Dahai said that his feelings for his father in his heart were very shallow, and he would never go to Li Chengru to help him in the future.
However, after this, Li Chengru had a serious illness, because of the bad relationship with his son, there was not even a person around him to take care of him.
And at this time, he thought of his son Li Dahai, and he also realized what he had done to his son, so he made up his mind to make up for him...
In his later years, he longed to make up for his son with money
Li Chengru did not care enough about his son Li Dahai when he was a child, Li Dahai has been very interested in music since he was a child, and he can always run to the school's music classroom in his spare time and fumble for playing the piano.
But Li Chengru felt that his son should focus on his studies and did not support his interest in music, and repeatedly severely reprimanded Li Dahai and forbade him to go to the music classroom, Li Dahai was hurt by his father's attitude and gradually lost his enthusiasm for music.
Li Dahai chose to enter the entertainment industry when he grew up, but Li Chengru did not understand his choice, Li Chengru thought that his acting career was too unstable and not as solid as he was an engineer.
Li Dahai can only work hard in the entertainment industry alone, Li Chengru not only does not give any help, but also often persuades him to change careers, which makes Li Dahai always dissatisfied with his father.
Years later, Li Chengru, who was in his 60s, was deteriorating, suffering from diabetes complicated by cardiovascular disease, and he had to go in and out of the hospital frequently for treatment, which made him realize his aging and weakness.
Li Chengru began to reflect on that he might become a lonely old man in his old age, and a pang of melancholy and fear surged in his heart.
At this time, he suddenly realized that his estrangement from his son was his own mistake, and his son was his only relative, but now he was far away from him because of a misunderstanding, thinking of this, Li Chengru took the initiative to contact Li Dahai and tried to give him a luxury car to apologize.
But Li Dahai was still very wary of him, for fear that this was just a trap for Li Chengru, and finally after Li Chengru repeatedly assured that there was no other purpose, Li Dahai reluctantly asked for a 200,000 practical car, and did not ask for those more expensive and luxurious models.
Li Chengru knew that his son was still guarding against himself, but he was not discouraged, and began to call Li Dahai frequently to greet Li Dahai's work and life, and frequently introduced some good job opportunities to him.
Over time, Li Dahai also slowly opened his heart and let Li Chengru re-enter his life.
Whenever Li Dahai has a performance, Li Chengru will book tickets in advance, and then drive him to the scene, and Li Chengru will also listen carefully to Li Dahai's performance comments and give his own suggestions.
In order to make up for past mistakes, Li Chengru bought Li Dahai a brand new grand piano and encouraged him to practice more music.
Li Dahai looked at the shining grand piano, his heart was mixed, he knew that this was his father's compensation for his missed adolescent musical dream, Li Dahai did not obsessed with the past, but regained his love for music.
Every weekend, father and son will play piano music together at home, which is their rare parent-child time, these actions make Li Dahai feel the long-lost father's love, and slowly heal the emotional trauma of the past.
Although years of misunderstanding could not be completely resolved in a short period of time, Li Dahai understood Li Chengru's intentions and no longer guarded against his good intentions.
And Li Chengru also let go of the past obsession, just want to compensate his son as much as possible, after the baptism of time, the relationship between father and son was finally slowly repaired, and Li Chengru also found solace in his old age.
But in fact, as early as many years ago, in the heart of his son Li Dahai, Li Chengru has always been a father figure who "abandoned his wife and abandoned son"!
So, why did Li Chengru abandon Li Dahai's mother and son when he was young?
Li Chengru abandoned his wife and son
Li Chengru was very poor in his youth, and after the death of his parents, he had to live on begging, and during college, he met his first wife, Li Shirong.
Li Shirong was already an outstanding art troupe leader at that time, and she took a fancy to Li Chengru, a poor boy with no money and no power, and insisted on marrying him.
After marriage, the two lived in a small house of only 18 square meters, and his wife Li Shirong felt very happy.
In the late 80s and early 90s, Li Chengru started his business, first wholesale goods to earn the difference, and then he saw opportunities in the clothing industry.
Li Chengru observes fashion trends every day, asks workers to make samples, and is responsible for sales himself.
He opened a "special" clothing store on Xidan Street, using the "optional" sales model that was relatively rare at the time, and achieved great success.
Li Chengru soon accumulated hundreds of thousands of dollars in funds, and began to get involved in antiques, hotels, real estate and other fields, and made a name for himself in the Beijing business community.
However, after Li Chengru became developed, he became unsightly, no longer ran his business, and was idle all day, forgetting that his wife Li Shirong valued his character, not money.
In 1991, Li Chengru lost a lot overnight due to investment mistakes, and at this moment, his wife filed for divorce, and when Li Chengru signed the divorce, he had actually lost the honest and hardworking spirit of starting a business.
After leaving his wife, he lived alone in an empty compound, and under the façade of success was hidden the emptiness of his heart.
Without the help and encouragement of his wife Li Shirong, Li Chengru would not have had his later career success.
But when he profited, he forgot his wife's kindness and abandoned her ...
After Li Chengru experienced such a thing, he was actually very sad in his heart, because without his wife Li Shirong, he would not have achieved what he is today.
But when he wanted to look the other way around, his wife and son had already left him.
However, just a few years ago, Li Chengru took over another "acting" variety show, and he became famous again with his "mouth poison" on variety shows.
And with it, some old things were brought up...
On the show is the "king of mouth poison"
Mr. Li Chengru is known for his sharp and outspoken voice in many talent shows, he strictly requires the contestants, and often directly criticizes their performances on the show.
In the program "Actors Please Take Position", Guo Junchen performed the work of director Guo Jingming, and was sharply commented by Li Chengru such as "sitting on pins and needles", and almost cried on the spot.
In 2020, Li Chengru also publicly criticized Guo Jingming's actor selection criteria, and the two went head-to-head on the show, and Guo Jingming was criticized for "disrespecting people".
In the program "I am an Actor", Li Chengru denied the performance of Zhang Guoli and Li Yuchun, pointing out the problem of their repeated lines, which caused a dispute with Zhang Guoli.
Because as early as when Li Chengru and Zheng Shaoqiu cooperated, he criticized Zheng Shaoqiu's line skills for being very poor!
He also publicly criticized many TV series such as "The Legend of Zhen Huan" for being "made up", angering the crew and supporters.
Li Chengru is also strict with his own son, once criticized his son on the show for "not understanding shit and having no ability", and his outspoken attitude won the support of some netizens, but he also offended many insiders.
Some viewers questioned whether he, as an actor, was qualified to criticize other artists so harshly.
Li Chengru's supporters believe that he is good for the industry by facing up to problems and daring to speak the truth, but critics believe that his harsh and hurtful rhetoric and lack of empathy may discourage young actors.
The milder opinion is that he should give affirmation and encouragement in addition to criticism, and not blindly deny.
Regardless of attitude, Li Chengru's sharp style in the show has become his personal label, and we need to deal with it in a balanced manner, maintaining the spirit of rational criticism and knowing how to evaluate others based on compassion and understanding.
Only by attaching equal importance to passion and rationality can we promote the development of China's performing arts in the right direction.
epilogue
For Li Chengru now, nothing is more important than family affection, and after experiencing a serious illness, he also deeply realized the importance of family affection.
I just hope that their family can get along well in the future!