#Record My 2023#Distant Fragrance and Near Smell: My Life Insights!
When I was growing up, I always believed in one truth: between relatives, the more contact, the more contradictions, just like the truth of "far fragrant and near smelly". In a certain corner of my life, there is a vivid example that profoundly confirms this truth.
I remember when I was a child, I had a very close relationship with my grandparents. They love me very much, and every time I go to their home, I can feel a strong sense of affection. At that time, I loved cooking with my grandmother and cleaning the yard, and their smiles and warm words always made me feel extremely happy. At that time, I had a strong sense of dependence on my grandparents, and they were the most important reliance in my life.
However, as I grew up, the family environment changed. My parents are busy with work and I often have to take care of myself. And my grandparents' home has also become a little strange because of the distance and the passage of time. Every time I go to their home, although I still have the same warm hospitality, I always feel less intimate and warm as when I was a child. I began to realize that the principle of "smell from afar" seemed to apply between relatives.
As time passed, the contradictions between me and my grandparents began to gradually appear. Sometimes it is because of the uneven distribution of household chores, sometimes because of different living habits, and there is more and more friction between us. I began to wonder, is this the price of family affection? Why is it that the closer the person, the easier it is to have contradictions?
However, after a period of reflection and self-growth, I gradually understood the true meaning of "far fragrant and smelly". This is not just a truth, but a vivid lesson that life has taught me. Between close people, we often ignore each other's needs and feelings because of familiarity, and even stress due to excessive love. However, the appropriate distance and space allow us to see each other's strengths and understand each other's difficulties, thus making family affection more precious and deep.
This process taught me how to handle relationships between relatives. I began to try to put myself in each other's shoes, respect each other's differences, and learn appropriate distance and tolerance. I also cherish and thank those relatives who grew up with me even more, they left a deep mark on my growth path.
Looking back on this experience, I deeply feel that the truth of "far and near smell" is not only a portrayal of relatives, but also a kind of wisdom in life. It reminds us that on the road of life, we need to learn to maintain the appropriate distance and respect between those close to us, so that the flower of affection blooms more beautiful colors at the appropriate distance.
Through this experience, I also understood the true meaning of family affection: it is not only a blood relationship, but also a process of mutual understanding and tolerance. Only on the basis of understanding and respect can we truly feel the warmth and power of family affection. And this experience also made me cherish my relatives and friends around me more, and made me understand the importance of interpersonal relationships.
In general, the life experience of "far and near smell" made me deeply realize the importance of family affection and the importance of interpersonal relationships. It is not only a valuable asset in my personal growth, but also the motivation and wisdom for me to continue to move forward on the road of life in the future. I believe that in the future, I will cherish my relatives and friends more, and let family affection and interpersonal relationships become the most precious wealth in my life.
