In 1997, Bingxin's eldest son took a young woman 40 years younger than him home for the night while his wife was away from China. Later, when he got the property, the eldest son actually entangled his cancer wife for 6 years, but Bingxin, as his mother, did not stop it. Later, after Bingxin's death, his grandson stood in front of the tombstone and wrote down 8 big characters: "Godson has no way, and is a fool of himself", and also rebuked Bingxin fiercely.
Bingxin was born in 1906 and is famous in the literary world for his work "Two Songs of Liangzhou".
Bingxin has been engaged in literary creation all her life, represented as "Rain Alley" and "Lotus Leaf Mother", etc., her mother image is warm and amiable, and is deeply loved by readers.
However, in real life, Bingxin, as a mother, failed to exert the same wisdom and love, did not love her children and strictly educate her mother like her own mother, which eventually led to family tragedy.
Bingxin left China to study in the United States at a young age, and it was in the United States that Bingxin and her husband gave birth to their first son, named Wu Ping.
Because he was busy with his studies, Bingxin entrusted his son to the old couple to raise.
The old couple doted on their grandson very much, and Wu Ping gave whatever he wanted, developing an arrogant and willful temper.
After returning to China, Bingxin was still busy writing and did not pay enough attention to her son's education.
Let his son's temper become more and more irritable, but he tolerates his son in every way because of his debt.
In 1948, in order to let his son receive a good education, Bingxin sent Wu Ping to study in Japan.
However, life in Japan did not make Wu Ping any better.
Instead, it makes his personality more capricious, indifferent to the concept of family, and Bingxin can't do anything about it.
In 1966, Wu Ping, who was already middle-aged, met Chen Lingxia, who was much younger than himself, and began a passionate pursuit at first sight.
At first, Chen Lingxia had a good impression of the steady and restrained Wu Ping.
Under the mediation of Bingxin, the two soon became husband and wife.
Soon after marriage, Chen Lingxia discovered Wu Ping's true face - selfish and willful, and did not care about the family.
In order to maintain this family, Chen Lingxia could only bear it silently.
In 1997, Chen Lingxia found out that she had cancer and needed to be hospitalized.
At this time, Wu Ping not only did not give care and support, but also openly took the woman home for the night when his wife was not at home.
Wu Ping and Chen Lingxia's son Wu Shan saw it in his eyes, and was very angry and disappointed with his father.
He went to his grandmother Bingxin, hoping that she could help his mother.
Unexpectedly, Bingxin not only did not persuade his son, but helped him entertain the mistress, which greatly reduced Wu Shan's impression of his grandmother.
After Bingxin's death in 1999, Wu Ping's behavior became even more brazen.
He not only controlled Chen Lingxia's savings, but also filed a lawsuit against his sick wife to divide his property.
Chen Lingxia was in pain and endured the entanglement of her husband.
In the end, the court ruled that Wu Ping had acquired the property, and Wu Shan was extremely angry at the verdict and full of resentment towards his grandmother.
In order to express his sorrow for his mother and his disappointment in his grandmother, he came to Bingxin's tomb.
Write down the eight big characters in red paint, "Godson has no way, and is a teacher in vain" to express his pain and condemnation.
Through this family tragedy, it is worth all parents to reflect on the importance of home education.
The writer's characters are not the same as reality, and Bingxin's image of her mother contrasts strongly with her mistakes as a mother.
I hope that all parents can learn lessons, care for their children, teach strictly, and avoid the recurrence of tragedies.
