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Normal people have a "little temper", and most people will lose their temper when they encounter something unpleasant. Everyone knows very well that tantrums mostly hurt the body and miss big things, and they often regret it afterwards.
So, what should I do if I lose my temper beforehand? The People's Daily Daily Digest gives the answer.
Don't lose your temper first when things happen, but sort out your head first.
♥ First of all, lose your temper beforehand, right?
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Headline searches show that tantrums are the act of "venting dissatisfaction because things are not going well." Whether this behavior is right or not, the benevolent sees the good, and the wise see the wise. Some things do not lose a little temper, but it is really not conducive to solving, and when you lose your temper, things are taken seriously, but they are solved.
Some experts believe that "tantrums are an art" and "tantrums are an ability".... I don't disagree with these views, but they are somewhat one-sided. You can seriously think about the things that are solved by tantrums, can they not be solved or not solved well without losing their temper? Apparently not. The development of things has its own laws, and your temper cannot influence its final outcome.
[Heart] Besides, is it okay to lose your temper beforehand?
Tantrums do no harm to people and things, which has long been proven by countless examples in real society. I once saw such a thing on the Internet, Ms. Wang and her husband were very discordant, quarreling over a little thing at every turn, losing their temper and sulking, resulting in the breakdown of the marriage. Later, she became more depressed, then developed neck discomfort, and was finally diagnosed with thyroid cancer, regretting it.
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Educating their children well is the most important cause for parents. But how many parents can face their children calmly? Especially when the child causes trouble in school, the academic performance is not satisfactory, the love of the parents is not understood, and so on, the parents are even more angry, the light reprimand the child, the heavy one beats and scolds the child. Hu Shi once said: "The most hateful thing in the world is an angry face." "Imagine how a child feels when he sees your face distorted by anger! The outcome of the subsequent things will not be much better.
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What is more, some people have gone down the path of crime because they lose their temper. On one occasion, when the unit organized party members and cadres to carry out warning education in a certain prison, some prisoners became angry because of tantrums, anger and hatred, and because of hatred caused incidents of negligence and injury to others, causing their wives to be separated, their families to be destroyed, and their regrets were too late.
[Heart] Finally, what should I do in case of an accident?
The things we encounter in our work and life are more complicated, and because people's personalities and temperaments are different, it is not realistic to be completely fair and just. This requires us not to lose our temper first, but to sort out our heads first.
Indeed, when we encounter difficult or unpleasant things, people with poor psychological quality will be upset, irrational emotions will prevail, and it is easier to be carried away by emotions. As the saying goes, impulsivity is the devil, and in the end it can lead to irreparable mistakes.
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Therefore, we must learn to calm down, simplify complex things, calm ourselves, clear our heads, identify the crux, come up with ideas, and make rational judgments and decisions.