Oral description: Mr. Chu
Author: Xiaoya
I am 26 years old and about to get married, and now my parents are discussing my marriage with my future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Yesterday, my parents invited the woman's parents to dinner again, and the two sat together and discussed buying us a wedding house.
My parents sincerely asked my in-laws what they thought, and the future husband said: "I am such a daughter, I regard her as a pearl in the palm of my hand, I have never let her suffer since she was a child, and I don't want her to live too hard after marriage." In this way, let's give them two small ones to buy a house in full, it doesn't need to be too big, just about 1 million. When the child grows up and the little couple wants to change to a big house, they sell it for a down payment and repay the loan themselves. ”
My mother readily agreed, my fiancée smiled and said that she was already optimistic about the house, the price was about 1 million, their family would pay half of the payment, my mother was very satisfied, and immediately made a promise: "Okay, good, you have the final say, which place to look at, the rest will be left to us." Our family paid half of the room payment, and the decoration was also packaged, and the names of your little two were written. ”
The old man was very satisfied, and also agreed to marry furniture and appliances, the two sides talked happily, and I couldn't interject at all except for a few words from beginning to end, and soon, I was thrown out by my mother to watch a movie with my fiancée.
On the way to the movie, my fiancée asked me: "I have always been curious about a question, judging from the situation when we talk about marriage, your mother is a very reasonable person, and almost all of our family's requests are very cheerful." I calculated that you would spend 800,000 yuan to marry me into the door! ”
Indeed, the house payment is 500,000 yuan, the decoration is estimated to be 100,000 yuan, my parents gave my fiancée 100,000 bride price, buy three gold, take wedding photos, hold banquets, honeymoon travel together may also be 100,000.
My fiancée asked me curiously: "Your mother is so reasonable, she can spend 800,000 yuan to marry me into the door, why do you want to beat the mandarin duck and break up you and your ex-girlfriend?" Could it be that your ex-girlfriend's lion opened his mouth and asked for a lot of bride money, so that your parents couldn't accept it? ”
I shook my head and told her that my ex-girlfriend had made it clear that she didn't want bride money or a marriage room, and my words made her gossip even heavier. In desperation, I had to tell her what happened, after all, she was about to become my wife, and I didn't want her to be suspicious.
My ex-girlfriend and I are college classmates, and the two of us established a relationship in the first semester of our freshman year and experienced a wonderful campus romance.
After graduating from college, I proposed to my ex-girlfriend, but my ex-girlfriend did not agree: "Brother Jun, I told you that the situation in my family is not good, they have worked hard to train me to become a talent, let me go to college, I can't marry a woman as soon as I graduate, and I don't give back to my mother's family." I know you won't stop me from honoring them, but after marriage, I will be your wife, the mother of your children, and the daughter-in-law of your family, and if I care too much about my mother's family, your parents will be unhappy. I want to work hard for a few more years, give my family some money to ease their burden, and then focus on running my small family. ”
I think my ex-girlfriend has a point, thinking that she is a good girl who is filial, reasonable, and clean, and agreed to her request.
Speaking of this, the fiancée nodded: "is a good girl, and will become a good wife in the future, so why didn't you marry her?" Why the hell didn't your mother agree? ”
Last year, after my 25th birthday, my mom asked me bluntly, "Son, do you have a girlfriend?" You'd better be honest with me, or I'll let you go on a blind date, don't blame me." ”
I told my mom about my relationship with my ex-girlfriend, and said a lot of good things about my ex-girlfriend in front of her, hoping to get my parents' approval, my mom didn't say anything, let me take my ex-girlfriend back to show her.
Before I could bring my ex-girlfriend home, something happened at my ex-girlfriend's house. That day, we were having dinner and chatting about going to see my parents during the Mid-Autumn Festival, when suddenly my ex-girlfriend's mobile phone rang, and she answered the phone.
"What? Impossible, impossible! Mom, are you lying to me? No way. ”
She broke down and cried, hung up the phone, collapsed to the ground, and shouted "Daddy, Daddy." ”
I panicked, quickly hugged her, comforted her for a long time, helped her take a leave, and accompanied her back to her hometown. After I went back, I learned that her father, who was working hard outside, suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage due to continuous overtime, lack of sleep, and overwork. When her ex-girlfriend's mom called, her dad couldn't hold on.
By the time her ex-girlfriend arrived at the hospital, her father had closed his eyes and passed away, failing to see his beloved daughter for the last time or raising his 13-year-old son.
The fiancée sensitively grasped the key word: "13-year-old son? Is her brother only 13 years old? I count, 12 years younger than her? ”
I nodded and explained why, according to my ex-girlfriend, she had a younger brother, three years younger than her, but this brother died of illness at the age of six.
Her parents didn't plan to regenerate, but they couldn't accept the pleas of her grandfather, who had no offspring, and gave birth to her little brother. Her mother also couldn't go out to work because of her advanced age, so she had to take her baby at home.
The fiancée sighed: "Her grandfather is really confused, if the family conditions are very good, it is another matter to be able to afford to raise them, but their family conditions are not good, and they have to give birth, doesn't this harm her?" I understand why your mother is against this affair. Her father died, her mother was not in good health and could not go out to work, who supported her 13-year-old brother? Isn't that her? When she gets married, it's the two of you, you probably don't care? ”
As my fiancée expected, when my ex-girlfriend's father went to the soil, my ex-girlfriend found me and said to me with red eyes: "Brother Jun, can I ask you for something?" I can not ask for the bride price, but ask you to agree that I will continue to give my mother money after marriage until my brother graduates from college. My dad is gone, my mom can't work and earn some pocket money, if I don't care about them, what will my brother do? ”
Hearing my ex-girlfriend's request, I felt extremely headache, on the one hand, I really liked her, wanted to marry her, and understood her bitterness, on the other hand, I knew very well that my parents would not agree, and besides, I didn't want to raise a brother-in-law!
After I went back, I told my parents about the situation at the house of my ex-girlfriend, tested their meaning, and as I expected, my mother did not agree with this affair: "Although I also sympathize with her and think she is a good girl, I don't want my son to carry such a heavy pressure." The purpose of marriage is to be happy, not to carry heavy pressure. ”
My parents refused to let go, firmly opposed me marrying her, and in the end, I had to tell my ex-girlfriend what my parents meant.
My ex-girlfriend was silent for a long time and told me: "It's okay, Brother Jun, I understand their thoughts, I don't blame you." It is our fate, in the future, we will be separated, you have to take care! ”
I hung up the phone and couldn't cry, seeing that my ex-girlfriend had blocked me ruthlessly, and I had to block her and completely cut off the relationship. At the beginning of this year, I met my fiancée at the same time as a relative.
After listening to my story, my fiancée sighed and put her hands together in a prayer, saying that she sincerely hoped that my ex-girlfriend would have a happy life and hoped that she would meet the right partner as soon as possible.
I also wish her happiness, I am sorry for her, I failed her, and I hope she can meet the right good person.
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