In the latest variety show "Goodbye Lover", after watching Fu Seoul Lao Liu get along in the car, this was discussed in the observation room.
Yin Yue spoke first, saying that Fu Seoul's reaction to Lao Liu's gift giving was a bit radical, because some of her behaviors in life, such as taking care of flowers and plants and ordering takeout for her children, made her feel that Lao Liu had no enthusiasm for life. Sun Yi then agreed, believing that Fu Seoul expected Liu to have more enthusiasm and purpose to live.
Jiang Yilei made another point, arguing that Fu Seoul did not really want Liu to take care of flowers or children, but hoped that he would have a passion for life.
Everyone agreed, feeling that Fu Seoul wanted Lao Liu to have more enthusiasm and goals in life.
Li Songwei believes that Fu Seoul's expectations may not be the same, and she may be trying to prove that Liu Lao has no enthusiasm for life, thus inferring that he does not love her.
Yin Yue further analyzed that Fu Seoul equated Lao Liu's behavior of not loving life with not loving her.
Hu Yanbin believes that the problem between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu is that they lack common values and behavior patterns, which prevents the two from having effective dialogue and confrontation.
Mr. Huang echoed that sentiment, adding that Mr. Fu could feel pain when the two failed to empathize. In life and work, there will be many things that you want to complain to your other half, but you don't get a response.
Li Songwei speculated that Lao Liu may have been angry, and this anger was internalized, and he did not show it.
Mr. Huang said that during their conversation in the car, Mr. Liu repeatedly avoided the topic, showing his exhaustion and exhaustion.
Jiang Yilei also observed that Lao Liu gave people a feeling of exhaustion, consuming every day, but did nothing.
Li Songwei pointed out that in the relationship between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu, they no longer give each other the feedback they want.
Jiang Yilei described their relationship as a mutual disappointment. Li Songwei further speculated that Lao Liu may have some negative emotions, which may be a vitality for their relationship.
Mr. Huang believes that their conversation in the car shows that the relationship between the two has become more cautious, and they are avoiding touching real problems.
Hu Yanbin said he strongly agreed with someone and thought the two of them were becoming more cautious together. Before that, Seoul sister first mentioned Tibet and said that she wanted to go there the most. This sentence shows that the Seoul sister has sensed Lao Liu's displeasure.
She then asked, since you want to go to Tibet, are you willing to accept my kindness? Then, Lao Liu said he didn't want to go. Seoul sister understood this, so she gave herself a step down and asked why. Lao Liu replied, Gao reversed, over.
Hwang agreed, believing that Fu was a smart man. Smart people don't ask questions directly, he will want to tempt, he will want to detour, and in case the sign is not right I can take it back decently, so that I never touch the real problem.
Li Songwei finally said that although they seem to be back to the way they started, he believes that their relationship has changed, because the state of the old Liu has clearly changed. Looking forward to the back, is it possible for Lao Liu's qi to come out in the back.
The discussion in the observation room became deeper and deeper, and everyone had a deeper understanding of the relationship between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu. Perhaps, there are indeed some problems in their relationship that will not be solved overnight. But everyone wants to see that they can find solutions to problems and improve their relationships.
Everyone began to think about how Fu Seoul and Lao Liu could communicate better and find empathy with each other. It was suggested that they may need to find common interests and topics in order to increase mutual understanding and understanding. Others suggest that they need to learn to listen and truly understand each other's needs and expectations, rather than just superficial communication.
In the process of discussion, everyone gradually realized that everyone's life has its own rhythm and way, and we cannot force others to live our way. Fu Seoul and Lao Liu's problem may not be a question of who is right and who is wrong, but that they need to find a way of life that suits each other.
In the end, everyone reached a consensus that no matter how the relationship between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu develops, they should respect each other and give each other enough space and time to understand and accept each other. Only in this way can their relationship improve and move towards a better future.
It is hoped that Lao Liu can recognize his own problems and regain his enthusiasm and vitality for life. At the same time, everyone should also recognize that everyone should face life positively, be enthusiastic, and minimize the generation of anxiety and negative energy. #Brilliant Pen Creation Challenge#