If the child has 3 "small problems", it implies that it is smart and productive, and parents should not rush to correct them first

Bring up a particularly "worry-free" baby, do you like it?

I think that the vast majority of parents who are exhausted by the torture of bringing babies will definitely answer without hesitation, like!

I once saw a "worry-free" baby.

The child was more than 3 years old, and his grandmother took him to play in the community. Grandma walked ahead, and he followed. Look forward, never look left or right.

When I saw the children playing, I didn't dare to go up directly and say that they were playing together, but looked at my grandmother. After grandma agreed, she went to play some simple, and completely unplayable projects that might bump into and bump into herself.

Such a child, although it is worry-free to bring up, but this kind of character, can he adapt to society when he grows up?

In fact, really smart, healthy, and highly intelligent children are not at all worry-free to bring up, and even often make you feel bored.

They often have the following 3 small problems, if we correct them too harshly, it is likely that he will become the above kind of "worry-free" child, and when we grow up, we will regret it too late.

If the child has 3 "small problems", it implies that it is smart and productive, and parents should not rush to correct them first.

One: Keep talking with your mouth

There are some children who are particularly able to speak with small mouths.

For example, he will ask you a bunch of questions, why is it hot? Why is it cold? Why do chickens grow wings?

Some questions will have their own thinking: I love bananas, monkeys love bananas, will I become a monkey?

He will also tell you about his daily experiences, where he went to play, who he played with, and who he didn't like. Like whom. Let you who are tired of a day, it is not to listen, and it is not to listen not to listen.

But in fact, a child who likes to talk, although sometimes annoying, means that his brain is very well developed, frequent expression, will allow him to master more vocabulary, and he needs to build his own worldview, he needs to let his questions be answered.

The child likes to talk, indicating that he is usually emotionally stable. A child whose emotions often go up and down will not like to talk, they may say a little when they are in a good mood, but when they are in a bad mood, they are more likely to not say a word.

Emotional stability indicates that the child is in a family that can tolerate and respect all his emotions. Children raised by such families are often more optimistic and courageous, and more likely to have a future career.

Two: energetic pranks

Some children, especially energetic, have not yet recovered from the fatigue of bringing a baby, and new discoveries will make you angry:

The newly bought lipstick is broken, and the wall is an irregular line of lipstick painting;

I didn't buy a toy for two days, but it was dismantled to pieces, and no one could put it together;

Your newly bought clothes are reluctant to wear, and the child cuts a big hole;

The bans you give in the morning will be broken by you one in the afternoon...

This kind of child has nothing to do with words like "obedient" and "well-behaved". If you can endure not beating them every day, you are already a very good-tempered parent.

Just this unconscious child, if you don't repair it well, what should I do if I break into trouble in the future?

In fact, we don't have to worry at all, such children, our best way to educate is to guide and guide them to learn to follow the rules.

And a child being naughty is actually a sign of cleverness.

They have a lot of imagination and creativity, and many forms of mischief are unimaginable to us adults. They are active, socially competent, always meet new people quickly, and have a strong presence in the group. They are adaptable and are always the first to keep up no matter how the situation changes.

Such a child will not have many psychological problems. No matter how negative emotions are, they can be vented quickly, new and old things are rapidly metabolized in children's minds, and they are always optimistic and curious about the world.

When they grow up, such children can quickly adapt to society, they are creative, social, cheerful and generous, but also dare to take risks, will not back down in the face of challenges, most of them also have good leadership skills, such children, especially easy to make a career.

Three: Indulge in your own world and ignore people

Smart children, often have another characteristic, that is, suddenly immersed in their own small world, you are not easy to interrupt. Maybe one second he was chattering with you, and the next second, he was suddenly attracted by something and played seriously.

Such a child is easily attracted by the things he is interested in (except for electronic devices), and then immerses himself in his own world without distraction, as if everything outside does not exist.

For example, some puzzle games such as drawing, clay pinching, and building blocks, they can easily enter a state of "flow".

He will show a strong sense of concentration, which means that he can concentrate better and faster, and his brain processes information very efficiently.

In the future learning, such children tend to be more focused, and the learning efficiency is naturally higher.

One of the most important traits of successful people is the ability to stay focused on one thing for a long time.

The "flow" experience felt in concentration not only doubles the efficiency when doing things, but also the person who stays focused can also experience special happiness from it.

This kind of "positive feedback" will make a person mentally strong and exude a unique temperament, which is one of the reasons why a person is most attractive when he is serious about doing something.

Many of those children who are smart and have a promising future are not "worry-free" children from an early age. If we just want to be lazy and find a way to make them "worry-free", it will undoubtedly cut off the "wings" of the child's future flight.

When he was about to fly, he always fell to the ground, don't blame him for not flying, think about whether he once cut off his wings?

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