Every festive season must urge marriage, but why do people get married? Is the phone not fun or the TV not good? Unexpectedly, the movie of the predecessor four turned this issue directly to the surface.
In the Chinese social concept, there seems to be a social clock, which stipulates that at the age of 18 to go to college, 22 to enter graduate school, and at 28 to get married, it seems that if you are one step late, you will step into the abyss. But has anyone ever thought about why people have to get married when they are old? What is the meaning of marriage? People's Daily once gave a full score answer, marriage is not to drag each other down, but to give each other encouragement in life, to have personal discussion when encountering things, to comfort each other when tired, to have someone to eat with when coming home from work, to suffer grievances outside, and to go home with a warm hug. Life is so long, if there is someone who knows and accompanies you through this life, how beautiful, love is to eat, drink and have fun, and marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Of course, in this process, some people will not be able to accept the responsibilities on their shoulders and the changes in their lives, such as Yu Fei, who found the true meaning of marriage in a long-term run-in, and some people, like Meng Yun, even if they were lucky to meet their soulmate Liu Liu in the process of blind date, they were still entangled in the meaning of marriage, resulting in fear of change, unwilling to step out of their comfort zone, and the question of why people should get married.
In fact, the starring actor in the film gives a new answer, marriage is like a self-consistent process, in the final analysis, it is still the process of getting along with yourself. But I believe that whether to get married or not is a happy choice. We don't have to make a choice easily for the sake of the environment or the instigation of others, but we don't have to hesitate, as long as we find someone who resonates with the same frequency, why is it not a kind of happiness?