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Wen | Hao Han
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He has helped couples in the show solve problems countless times, and is affectionately known by the audience as "China's first lighter".
But the "doctor is difficult to treat" and "master with emotional problems" in variety shows, his love life is a mess in reality.
Wang Weinian was married twice, and each time he ran away from home. Children also belong to the wife.
Even the intervention of his friend Zhu Jun to solve his marriage problems was unsuccessful.
But why is Wang Weinian, who is so good at analyzing other people's marital feelings, become a layman in his love life?
The first law
Wang Weinian was born and raised in Shanxi, and has developed a strong interest in opera since childhood.
When Wang Weinian was 11 years old, he attracted the attention of the local county society with his handsome appearance.
When Wang Weinian received the invitation to join the group, he was very excited. When he agreed, he also informed his parents.
Fortunately, his parents, both artists, agreed with their son's decision to join the troupe;
Wang Weinian was asked not to waste his studies.
In this way, Wang Weinian officially became a drama actor and performed everywhere with the troupe.
Although this play takes up a lot of study time, Wang Weinian always remembers the words of his parents.
Not only was I not late in my homework, but my exam results were consistently at the top of my class.
Wang Weinian was successfully admitted to Shanxi Drama School at the age of 14 with excellent grades.
At that time, it didn't make sense for children to go to play lessons;
But Wang Weinian's parents never interfered in any of his decisions and unconditionally supported his every choice.
The support of her parents allowed Wang Weinian to focus on her studies without distraction;
Nine years of professional study have allowed him to accumulate rich acting experience.
In 1982, after graduation, Wang Weinian was directly assigned to the Shanxi Jin Theater.
At the age of 24, he played the role of "Yang Qilang" in his first film and television work "Yang Family General".
After that, he starred in two TV series: "The Legend of Di Renjie's Judgment Case" and "Guan Gong".
Although Wang Weinian has a successful career, his age has quietly reached the 25-year-old mark.
Even if he wasn't worried, his parents would naturally be worried.
With the help of her parents, Wang Weinian met a local girl in Shanxi.
Otherwise, the two have known each other since childhood, and it is not the first time.
Wang Weinian and the girl's parents have been friends for many years. She knows everything about herself, and the two are people from the same family, which is a perfect match.
At that time, the "words of the parents ordering the groom" were taken seriously, and the marriage of the two was put on the table.
After marriage, the couple lived a normal life, and soon their first child was born.
But the only thing that annoys the wife is that the husband is busy with work and rarely takes care of the family.
When her husband Wang Weinian gave birth in the hospital, he couldn't be by her side because of work, so his wife began to blame him.
Since then, he has been immersed in work for many years, neglecting to spend time with his wife and children at home.
Finally, when the son was 12 years old, the long-depressed wife decided to settle the divorce.
Wang Weinian respected his wife's decision and left all his property to the mother and son as compensation.
After the marriage broke down, Wang Weinian decided to devote all his energy to work.
After starring in the TV series "Guan Gong", he transferred to the behind-the-scenes work of the TV station and was rarely active in front of the screen.
It is precisely because of this that many years later, in 1994, Wang Weinian met his second lover "Xiao Xiangyu".
The ten-year relationship ended in a bad relationship
Xiao Xiangyu, who inherited the inheritance of his grandmother Chang Xiangyu, has shown extraordinary talent for opera since he was a child.
Through her grandmother's careful cultivation and her own efforts, Xiao Xiangyu soon became the leader of the Henan Yu Opera Troupe.
In 1994, Xiao Xiangyu worked at Shanxi TV Station;
Faced with such an opera master, the TV station could not find anyone to host the reception for a while.
Just when everyone was embarrassed, someone suddenly thought of Wang Weinian, who had a dramatic background.
In this way, Wang Weinian was appointed to be in charge of Xiao Xiangyu's reception.
Because of the same hobbies, they had a good chat the first time they met, and when they mentioned opera, they talked endlessly.
Wang Weinian suddenly fell in love with the woman in front of him and looked at her intently.
Xiao Xiangyu firmly believed that she could inherit Yu Opera, and spent all her hard-earned money in the last year of 1994.
Founded "Xiaoxiangyu Hope Art School" in Shanxi.
It is a completely free art school that only accepts abandoned children and orphans.
Although the idea was good, the landing of the school was not easy.
All the troubles suddenly hit Xiao Xiangyu;
Although she is working hard in many ways, the strength of one person is really limited.
I don't know Shanxi, which affected Xiao Xiangyu's mood, and she was sullen all day.
When Wang Wei heard the news, he immediately obeyed and sided with Xiao Xiangyu.
He mobilized all the contacts around him to help Xiao Xiangyu apply for school qualifications.
At first, due to financial constraints, when the children practiced, Xiao Xiangyu did not even have a decent mirror. To this end, Wang Weinian went directly to the factory and ordered more than 20 mirrors for the school.
Experience after experience made Xiao Xiangyu understand that Wang Weinian was a very reliable person.
It wasn't until 2000 that they finally ended their six-year relationship and officially became husband and wife.
After marriage, the two devoted all their energy to building a school;
The people who joined forces were simply a "match made in heaven" in the eyes of outsiders.
But the promising marriage lasted only four years before it finally ended.
Six years of love, four years of marriage, ten years of relationships finally broke up, and everyone was shocked.
The separation from Xiao Xiangyu once became an obstacle in Wang Weinian's heart;
When his friend Wang Fang asked about this with concern, Wang Weinian was very upset.
Since then, they have all been quiet together and have never brought up the topic of affection in front of him again.
But many years later, Mr. Wang publicly responded to his experiences at the heart of the program.
After such a big change in ideology, how did Wang Weinian let go of himself?
The truth about divorce
On a talk show, I was confronted with some tough questions from the host;
Wang Weinian changed his usual silence. He seemed relaxed and occasionally talked to himself.
After he and Xiao Xiangyu co-founded the school, they also paid more attention to the school.
Out of concern for his wife, Wang Weinian personally took over all the affairs of the academy.
He also deliberately moved his residence to the school, as the students said:
"Whether in the morning or at night, as long as you knock on Teacher Wang's door, there will definitely be someone inside."
In contrast, Xiao Xiangyu, as the principal, can give it a go.
My husband feeds six people at school and has nothing to do at home.
It is indeed rare for other women to receive such care from their husbands.
But Xiao Xiangyu has a strong personality and cannot accept the husband and wife being the masters of the family alone.
The two also have their own views on the future direction of the school, and there are often disputes.
Faced with escalating conflicts, they decided to part amicably and then part ways.
Wang Weinian also said in the program: "I blindly longed for a double harvest of family and career, but ignored the details of marriage. ”
Perhaps, this is a typical representative of "difficulties can be shared, joy cannot be shared".
In the program, Wang Weinian's good friend Wang Fang also mentioned that after the divorce, he often drove on Beijing's Third Ring Road;
So he drove aimlessly, and he cried as the car drove.
It didn't stop until the tank was empty.
Wang Weinian took advantage of this to laugh at himself: "Tears are as long as three rings."
When asked how to forgive, Wang Weinian also shared his views publicly. He remembers when he was sick, there was no one around him, and he felt pain.
At this time, he called Xiao Xiangyu to inquire. The tone of the conversation was that of an old friend, which touched him a lot.
After this call, Wang Weinian's so-called reluctance and resentment disappeared at this moment, and he was completely relieved.
However, Wang Weinian was not overwhelmed by emotional setbacks and has been active on the screen in recent years;
In 2008, at the invitation of Wang Fang, he appeared on Beijing Satellite TV to record the talk show "Who is Talking".
Later, he gradually got involved in the film and television industry and made guest appearances in many film and television dramas.
In 2012, the emotional program "Big King and Little King" was born, hosted by Wang Fang;
Wang Weinian thus won the title of "China's first lighter".
And the phrase misunderstood by netizens that "without Zhu Jun's intervention, there would be no divorce" is just Wang Weinian's unintentional joke.
Facing the crying Xiao Xiangyu, Zhu Jun's most common sentence was: "Please understand him more."
But the more Wang Weinian was spoken, the more angry Xiao Xiangyu became, which led to a sentence that was later misunderstood by netizens.
conclusion
Wang Weinian is 64 years old and unmarried, but has many children and grandchildren.
After the divorce that year, the wife not only did not smear the image of her father in front of her son.
Instead, he wanted his son to understand his father better.
So when the son grows up, he naturally wants to be close to his father.
In 2012, after Wang Weinian's mother died, he adopted his father.
Life was easy and happy.
Maybe you avoid the trivialities of life and enjoy the joy of four generations in the same household;
For Wang Weinian, this is also a great blessing in life.
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