In Chaohu Lake, Anhui, when Bao's mother was feeding the baby, the baby kept crying, and the upset father got up and kept patting the baby's head, cursing in his mouth, "Don't cry, cry again makes you s"!
The biological father pats the baby's head
The wife stood up and scolded her husband
Seeing this, the wife on the side quickly got up and patted her husband on the shoulder, and cursed to stop her husband's behavior.
Who expected that the husband did not repent, and actually pinched the child's throat with his hand, and the child cried even harder, but the father did not let go, and kept shouting "cry again, cry again, I will make you cry..."
Bao's mother was so angry that she lowered her head and took out her mobile phone, as if she chose to be out of sight, or she wanted to report the crime.
After more than ten seconds, Baoma's conscience was condemned, and she couldn't worry about the child, looked up to see that her husband still didn't let go, stopped her husband's behavior, and then wiped her tears and broke down and cried.
Some parents are really unqualified, no matter how hard and tired they are, for a year! At the age of one year, we can walk, the child will grow up slowly, no longer crying, since we chose to give birth to him, we must cherish the days of being sticky by the child!
The wife stops her husband's behavior
"The lips are purple, what should I do? She is only three months, why did God do this to me..."? This is a chat record between a new mother and others, and the words show despair and self-blame!
In Shanghai, a mother gave birth to a baby girl, because of the new mother, new mothers are inevitably busy taking care of the baby, in order to get better care of the baby, this mother often searches for parenting knowledge on the Internet.
By chance, Bao's mother found a paid parenting group, which had many mothers who had children like her, and there were experienced teachers in the group who guided how to raise children.
After staying in the group for a while, the mother felt that the childcare teacher inside was quite experienced, and she thought that she could exercise her daughter's sleeping habits, so she spent 3,000 yuan to join the parenting group.
After paying, the mother followed the teacher's advice, do not hold her when the baby cries, do not interfere with her, so as to exercise the child's lung capacity and help sleep.
The ignorant mother listened to the teacher's rumors and let her daughter, who was only three months old, practice her sleeping skills in the crib, during which the child kept crying and making it difficult to turn over, but the mother observed in the monitoring.
The child's foot is stuck in the guardrail
Half an hour passed, the child kept crying, hands and feet kicking, but the voice began to gradually become smaller, and the mother, who always paid attention to the child's movements outside the door, finally found that the child was a little wrong.
However, the mother did not immediately enter the room to check the child's condition, but continued to consult the teacher in the group with her mobile phone.
"My baby just fell asleep and suddenly rolled over, usually guiding her refusing, is this cry to help her turn over..., I am too anxious at the door, I am afraid that she will suddenly be stuffy."
I have to say that this mother has a really big heart, or she believes in the teacher's parenting experience.
At this time, in the monitoring, Bao's mother saw that the child's feet were stuck on the fence next to the bed due to kicking and kicking, but she did not immediately go back to the room to deal with it, and was still waiting at the door for the reply of the teacher in the group.
However, the parenting teacher did not have time to reply, but a group of mothers in the group saw the message first and replied that this was normal, saying that the baby was unlocked, and would sleep when tired of crying.
The ignorant mother chose to believe their words and let her child cry in the room, while the baby kept struggling in the room, his feet stuck on the guardrail and couldn't break free, crying and signaling to his mother for help.
"Wow... Wow... Wow", that heart-wrenching cry makes people's mood unable to calm down for a long time.
If at this time, the mother stepped forward to check on the child, instead of letting the child cry in the crib, the child would not have an accident, and the tragedy could have been avoided!
An hour passed, the baby's resistance became weaker and weaker, the crying became smaller and smaller, and the mother had been checking the monitoring throughout the process, and the mother in the group began to congratulate the new mother, saying that the baby had successfully fallen asleep.
After half an hour, the mother opened the door to check the child's condition, but found that the child's lips were purple and her nose was bleeding, and she was anxious to take photos to reflect the baby's situation to the group.
Unfortunately, this mother did not know the seriousness of the matter at all, did not call an ambulance immediately, but asked the group for help, the mother in the group was also at a loss, no one reminded her to send the baby to the hospital quickly, and the parenting teacher in the group did not appear from beginning to end.
After the incident, the regulatory authorities intervened in the investigation, and the business activities of the childcare institutions involved were stopped!
But it's all late! Presumably, this mother must regret that her ignorance indirectly caused her child to leave like this before she had time to take a good look at the world!
Originally, it was difficult for the three-month-old baby to turn over by herself, the biological mother actually exercised her to lie on her stomach, and the child's head up was not very smooth, and she had to pay attention to whether she was covered by the quilt when she slept, and she also worried about whether she would fall under the bed.
What a big heart! Just put the child in the room for two hours without going to see, is it three months and not three years old, what to exercise? , It's hard to bring, it's all the temper brought by the birth of the child, can't she grow up comfortably?
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