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Lin Yongjian quarreled with his wife: the beginning of an apology
Introduction:
On the road to marriage, quarrels are inevitable.
Sometimes, unspoken, blurted out words can hurt the other party and even put the marriage relationship in jeopardy. Lin Yongjian's quarrel with his wife is a typical example. At that time, he blurted out a sentence when he was out of control: "You ugly look, I was blind to marry you."
This article will explore the contradictions behind the excessive words of a fight, and inspire us to reflect and grow in marriage through an apology.
Conflict and stress in marriage
Marriage is a mechanism for two people to live together, and each mechanism has its own friction points and contradictions. Conflicts between husband and wife often stem from daily chores, work pressure, family role distribution, children's education, and so on.
These contradictions inevitably lead to mood swings and conflicts.
Loss of control of emotions during fights
When couples are in a heated argument, emotions tend to get out of control. Under the high spirit, it is difficult for us to remain rational and good at expressing our opinions. Blurted out words are often impulsive, but can lead to serious consequences. Lin's words caused great harm to his wife, which was also an important turning point in their marriage.
The contradictions and confusion behind the words
The reason why Lin Yongjian said such hurtful words may have deeper contradictions and confusion behind it. Various problems in marriage, the balance between work and family, the relationship with relatives and friends, etc., may cause him to have inner conflicts. However, he chose to vent his emotions with aggressive language instead of communicating with his wife in a more mature way.
Apology: A fresh start
After realizing his mistake, Lin Yongjian realized that he needed to apologize to his wife for his fierce words and find a new beginning. Apologizing is an important way to repair a broken relationship, not only expressing a determination to repent, but also giving the other person a sense of hope to rebuild trust. Lin Yongjian showed his respect for his wife and the importance he attached to marriage through a sincere apology.
Growth and reflection on marriage
Lam's quarrels and apologies have given him and his wife a new understanding and reflection on marriage. They recognize that marriage should not be just a verbal commitment, but a joint effort between both parties. In the process of apologizing, they re-examined their behavior and used this as an opportunity to further strengthen the communication and understanding between the couple.
Epilogue:
Quarrels in marriage are inevitable, but excessive rhetoric in quarrels can be avoided.
The experience of Lin Yongjian and his wife tells us that no matter what emotions and pressures we face, we should learn to control our emotions and be good at expressing and listening. Marriage requires not only passion and romance, but also mutual understanding and respect. Only through reflection and growth can we go further in the journey of marriage.
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