Venus: The road to tenacity, colorful life preface After Venus changed sex, many reporters asked Venus, "After the gender change, will you still be moved by the bath with women?" To this, Jin Xing sneered and replied: "Moved? I didn't have the slightest interest in women before the surgery! However, Venus's answer did not silence the reporter, because the reporter found out that Venus had been married to a woman! In 1988, Jin Xing won a scholarship from the Asian Cultural Association, becoming the first Chinese dancer to receive this scholarship. This is a huge honor because Venus can go to the United States to study dance on a scholarship. When he arrived in the United States, Venus followed the well-known American dancer Murray M. Louis studied dance and performed his teacher's masterpiece "Shaking" in New York.
Venus broke Murray Louis's style and interpreted "Shattery" into a style that belongs to Venus, giving the audience a different sense of experience and making Venus famous in the United States. However, Venus was not proud, still modestly studied dance with Murray Lewis, and followed him to participate in various activities of the American Dance Association, and at one event, Venus met his wife Ken Pauline.
Kenpauline and her boyfriend Eric are also students who came to the United States to learn to dance, and they are about the same age as Venus, so the three of them have a good chat when they meet. Venus did not make any friends in the United States except for studying dance, so he often felt lonely and did not have a sense of belonging in the United States, until he met Ken Pauline and Eric, and the situation became better.
At that time, Venus rented a house alone, Kenpauline and her boyfriend couldn't rent a suitable house because of the shortage of money, and Venus immediately invited the two to live in his house after learning about it, and the room fee would definitely be cheaper than outside. In this way, Ken Pauline and her boyfriend lived in Venus' house and began to live together as a three, but the United States has a large expense, even if Ken Pauline and her boyfriend save money every month, the money left is still pitiful. In order to help his friends, Venus came up with a brilliant "plan".
Venus joked with Ken Pauline, saying, "If we get married, my house will be free for you to live in, and I can get a green card, the best of both worlds." However, this joke moved Kenpauline and her boyfriend, who thought that although Venus's words were a joke, they were the best solution that could be achieved and were good for all three, so Kenpauline and her boyfriend agreed to Venus to play jokes.
So Venus and Kenpauline registered their marriage in the United States, and Eric was also a witness to their marriage. The reason why Eric is so confident about Venus is also because in their long-term relationship, he found that although Venus is a man, Venus has a female heart, and the most important thing is that Venus does not like women, and he has no interest in women.
In this way, Venus got married, and after marriage, Venus successfully got a green card, and Kenpauline and her boyfriend no longer worried about the house. After getting the green card, Jin Xing briefly developed in the United States for a few years, and in 1993 Jin Xing decided to return to China to develop, because the Chinese dance industry was not developing so well at that time, Jin Xing wanted to return to China to work, and also because he had a major decision in his life to tell his parents.
Becoming a woman Venus has been different from other little boys since he was a child, he does not like to play cars, football, but likes to play games with girls, and for this he also likes to dance. In the process of learning to dance, Venus's talent is displayed, his comprehension of dance is very strong, the coordination of movements is also very high, and he is a natural dancer. Seeing this, Venus's parents decided to devote themselves to training Venus to learn to dance.
Venus did not disappoint his parents, his dance was the best one in the class, but every day with girls, Venus slowly began to doubt his gender. He also wants to be a real girl, he doesn't like naughty boys, when he was a child, Venus even often dreamed that he could wake up and become a girl, if there was thunder, Venus would also think, can he become a girl after lightning strikes him? At this time, Venus had already regarded himself as a girl, and he felt that the difference between him and the girl was only the physical difference, and there was no difference in anything else. However, at that time, Venus did not dare to tell his parents although he had ideas, and could only think silently in his heart, but this idea was a seed, and it became a towering tree in Venus's heart because of the increase of time.
Finally, when Venus was 28 years old, Venus decided to explain his thoughts to his parents and to go for surgery. Jin Xing originally thought that his parents would strongly oppose it, because such a practice was completely unheard of in China at that time, but what Jin Xing did not expect was that his parents did not object, and unexpectedly supported Jin Xing, and even said that the children in the family were girls, and there were any boys. After receiving support from his parents, Venus underwent surgery at Fragrant Hills Hospital.
For Xiangshan Hospital, Venus's operation is also the first case, which has never been done before, so the doctor hopes that Jinxing can think clearly, Jinxing thinks clearly, and he has been waiting for this moment for more than ten years. Now is to hand over his life to God, if successful Venus will have no regrets, if there is no unsuccessful accident, Venus will not regret, let God arrange his fate.
The operation is complicated, Venus has to do four operations, each operation is actually a fight against death, because each operation is very important and cannot make a mistake. During the operation, Venus lost 30 pounds and suffered a lot of sins, and after the third operation, Venus has become a woman, but Venus plans to do the fourth operation in order to become a real woman, and she does not want to become an incomplete woman.
After four difficult surgeries, Venus succeeded, and she became a woman. But is the surgery really that smooth? Of course not, during the operation, Venus's lower leg had an accident that led to nerve necrosis, and the lower leg lost its intuition and incapacitation. Jin Xing was not sad after she knew it, she just gritted her teeth to train, fell and got up, such a difficult operation was successful, as long as the calf is carefully restored, I don't believe that it can't be recovered.
I have to admit that Venus's perseverance is very strong, Venus's calves do have intuition and action ability in rehabilitation, and another miracle has happened to Venus. After recovery, Venus continues her career, still shines in the dance industry, even if there are some gossip, she never cares, no one or anything can be an obstacle to Venus, because Venus has achieved her biggest dream in life, and now she has the courage to face all storms.
After Venus's current situation recovered, Venus did not forget her old profession and continued to develop in the field of dance, during which she also negotiated a divorce with Kenpaulin, because Kenpauline was pregnant with Eric's child, and Kenpauline wanted to marry Eric and asked Venus to discuss divorce. Venus readily agreed and presided over the wedding of Kenpauline and Eric, three friends who were lifelong partners.
After that, Venus also met her love, she met her husband Hans on the plane, and the two talked happily and left contact information for each other. In the exchange of feelings more and more deep, Venus also held a wedding in 2005, and adopted three children, a family of five lives very happily, the children did not have opinions about Venus because of the special of Venus, but also especially love and care for Venus.
In addition to the development of the dance field, Jin Xing also hosted the Jin Xing Show, the show is famous for "dare to say", is a show that everyone loves to watch, and Jin Xing has also become a golden sister with a particularly positive view in everyone's eyes.
Now that Venus's three children are also older, they have all developed in their respective fields, and although the family of five has not spent as much time together as before, they will often go home to meet or travel together. Sometimes the family gathering Venus is busy and has no time to attend, they will also put the photo of Venus into the group photo, so that Venus can also be regarded as participating in the family party, and the whole family is also a lot.
Conclusion Venus is also very courageous in choosing this most difficult path, she is not afraid of gossip and failure of surgery, she just wants to live for herself once, which is worthy of all of us' admiration, because not everyone has that kind of courage.
The experience of Venus is actually a manifestation of a benign development of society, the inclusiveness of society is high, everyone's cognitive ability of gender is also improved, and they can understand and accept those who dare to choose to realize themselves. Moreover, in the society, the traditional concept to judge a person's behavior is gradually decreasing, the development of society is diverse, human development also has, so we can not look at others with colored eyes, we must learn to respect everyone.