Regarding the birth of a child, she said: "No regrets, but regrets!" ”
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Author|Wan Muzi
Some time ago, the live photo of the dancers in Yang Liping's latest performance was large-scale, which caused heated discussions on the Internet.
Coupled with the previous "Yin and Yang Double Cultivation" photo, it is also considered that the performance scale is extremely large.
Netizens also disagree with the so-called "extremely large scale", and believe that art should also have a certain bottom line.
Some netizens said that over the years, they have become more and more unable to understand the dance of Yang Liping's dance troupe.
It seems that it is going further and further away from the simple and beautiful "peacock dance" at the beginning.
Once, Yang Liping made her famous at home and abroad with a flexible "peacock dance".
However, behind this glamorous beauty, there is a bitterness that many people do not understand.
In order to better perform the dance, she did not hesitate to diet, her legs were as thin as "bamboo poles", and she even cut off several ribs.
She does not eat the world's fireworks, as if she has embarked on a "road of cultivating immortals".
Even the famous director Feng Xiaogang once commented: "She is not a person but an immortal!" ”
Looking back on her legendary life, we find that she has the potential to become a "fairy" since she was a child!
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The road to the "Princess Peacock"
In 1958, Yang Liping was born in Yunnan, where the natural scenery is picturesque.
Her parents divorced when she was young, but that didn't make her life dull.
On the contrary, childhood is full of colorful memories.
She often stands in the sun and dances her own unique "dance".
When she was 11 years old, her family was struggling financially, with three younger siblings to take care of.
In order to support her family, her mother wanted to sell her to others as a child bride.
At that time, this was the helpless choice of most people, although she wanted to resist, but she could not resist the arrangement of fate.
Fortunately, at this time, the appearance of a person changed the trajectory of her life.
He is the head of a dance troupe in Xishuangbanna and is looking for good dancers.
It just so happened that he took a fancy to Yang Liping's dancing talent, invited her to join the dance troupe to learn dance, and provided a monthly subsidy of 30 yuan.
At that time, 30 yuan was not a small amount for a family.
When her mother learned the news, she agreed to let her join the dance company without much thought.
Yang Liping spent 8 years in the Xishuangbanna Song and Dance Troupe, and her representative work "Peacock Princess" won the first prize of Yunnan Province's performance that year.
In 1986, she created a dance piece called "Spirit of the Sparrow", with which she quickly became popular.
Moreover, she has also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala twice in a row and is also known as the "Peacock Princess".
Climb the Spring Festival Gala and become famous overnight.
Since then, when people mention "Peacock Dance", they only think of "Peacock Princess" Yang Liping.
02
For dance, but also for love
Some people say that Yang Liping gave up love for dancing and even gave up having children.
But I think it's because of love that she lets go.
In 1988, Yang Liping married her first husband.
He is also a dancer.
But after marriage, Yang Liping still loved and devoted herself to her dance career, and the relationship between the two was estranged, the conflict escalated, and eventually they broke up due to a difference in philosophy.
In 1995, she met Liu Chunqing, a wealthy Taiwanese businessman, and she was determined at a glance.
The two quickly obtained their licenses and began a sweet and warm life.
But in marriage, in addition to the two, there are also families.
After seven years of marriage, Liu Chunqing's parents saw that they had no children yet, so they gave birth.
But at that time, Liu Chunqing was 52 years old, and in the face of his parents' "blackmail", he chose to respect his wife.
Yang Liping thought left and right and decided to have a child for her love.
But fate played a joke on them and made a multiple-choice question.
The perennial dieting body makes Yang Liping have a very low body fat rate, and if the two want to have a child, they must gain weight.
Gaining weight means giving up her dance career.
Although her husband Liu Chunqing fully respects Yang Liping's choice, Yang Liping does not want to delay Liu Chunqing.
So, she said to Liu Chunqing: "Let's divorce." ”
She loves her husband, but she also loves her dance career, so in order to fulfill whether her children can have a complete family with children.
The only thing she can do is divorce and complete Liu Chunqing.
Although the two did not have a piece of paper, their love did not change, and Liu Chunqing still silently helped Yang Liping behind her back.
He will give her all his funds for her "Yunnan Image" to tide over the difficulties.
will also bow down for her "Sun Island" to pull sponsorship for her to solve investment problems.
The two did not have any emotional agreement for the rest of their lives, but they still silently worked for each other's good.
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Is it a "madman", or a "genius"?
Regarding the child's question, a friend around her asked her: "Do you regret it?" ”
"No regrets, but there are regrets," she said. ”
Many people do not understand Yang Liping's approach, as a woman, she gave up marriage and childbirth for dance.
Yang Liping has her own opinion:
"My sustenance object is dance, maybe a flower is my daughter, a tree is my son, such a natural joy. Some people live for inheritance, some for enjoyment, some for experience, and some for spectators. ”
Different insights, different lifestyles.
The most admirable thing about her is that she has been herself all her life, not swayed by the words of others.
Some people like to pursue what they like, some people like to enjoy the atmosphere of children and grandchildren, and everyone has the right to choose their own life.
She is a "madman" and even more so a "genius".
In this life, he danced the "peacock dance" to the extreme and lived as a real dancer.
She has gains and losses, but the world is like this, everything cannot be perfect, regret is the norm.
Now 64 years old, she is still dancing and still doing what she loves.
No matter what the outside world said about her imperfect life, she fought back with silence.
Woolf said, "You don't have to be in a hurry, you don't have to shine, you don't have to be someone else, you just have to be yourself." ”
The sun is big, some people will say, so warm!
Some people will say, too dazzling!
You see, the sun can't be liked by everyone, you just have to be yourself.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China career planner, BSC senior career planner, American Shubo School career planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological consultant, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform signed author, mother of two children.