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In the book "Late Mature People", he once said:
No matter how high the mountain, there are also birds flying over; No matter how dense the net is, there are also fish to drill through!
This sentence, placed on people who are hurt by feelings after intimate relationships, can be called an epiphany self-redemption!
In this changeable moment of love, it is really common for anyone to come and go. It's too heavy to watch, but it's a consumption that is only about yourself!
It's just that you love a wrong person, just stop the loss in time when you find the mistake, and don't let the rest of your life be slumped!
The occurrence of intimate relationships is nothing new! The specific reason has already been explained many times in the previous content, and it will not be repeated here!
This article only talks about the current social chaos:
You think that the matter of husband and wife has become a fact, and that men and women are "husband and wife" who are sure for the rest of their lives, then you must not have opened your eyes to the present!
Messed up! The names of husband and wife can be heard everywhere. But these husbands and wives have made too many people afraid of marriage and relationship with their changeable feelings!
For the occurrence of intimate relationships, some women disagree that this is better if they are not well-behaved, and it doesn't matter.
But some women, but only once failed in their relationship, have been hurtfully overgeneralized:
Man, not a single good thing!
In fact, men and women are both good and bad! It's just that when we are in contact, with more rational observation and feeling, we can naturally distinguish between true feelings and false intentions.
Treat each other sincerely, cherish it with all your might. Hypocrisy, stop the loss in time!
The best guide to the relationship between men and women is that "it's not wrong to fall in love when you're young, and it's okay to give up anything when you're mature."
After the intimate relationship is established, observe the details, and you will know if you are also recognized in love! Watch it every day, gradually become a "mature" person, and avoid love brains!
After intimacy: men, 3 reactions embody that there are other women besides you!
1: After intimacy, you are more passive than before
There is a kind of woman who seems affectionate, but in fact can be described as "brainless" immaturity!
So that such women are passive in the face of men who make their hearts move, and their intimate relationships are even more passive!
Deep into the difference, it is nothing more than before the formation of intimate relationships, men still occasionally have the initiative, after intimate relationships, women are completely scratch-off to lose more and earn less!
If a man really identifies you, he will be responsible for his actions. Even though it is something you will, he will also know your affection and give you an accurate answer:
Identify you, plan your future, and possess you! Otherwise, it won't be easy to get close to you!
If a man has not been very enthusiastic about you before, and after the intimate relationship, he has never taken the initiative to contact you, and even responds to your initiative is selective, please remember:
You won't have a future because you're just a spare tire at best! Even, you don't even count as a spare tire!
Even if a person is really urged by bad people to mature late, it is better than not ripe all the time!
Therefore, do not choose to paralyze yourself when you need to mature. Your immature performance will not only hurt yourself, but also make the person who took you wrong at all look down on you even more!
2: After intimacy, begin to express material support with you countless times
Look at the "famous" "pan" plan in real life, those women who are treated like "pigs" to be used with a heart, which one is not too immature to help others form a scam?
You think that the establishment of an intimate relationship between yourself and a man is affectionate, but in fact, the man grabs your mind and only moves your wallet!
The occurrence of intimate relationships, for a healthy relationship, is the sweetness of the fusion of mind and body, and the mutual joy that is recognized for the rest of life. It is the unswerving wordless commitment of this life after close contact between hearts!
However, for the wrong blind identification of relationships, it is nothing more than hormonal needs, which satisfy each other. It is nothing more than a woman without a line of defense, providing a foolish fool to the inferior to take advantage and open the door of convenience!
In the book "Late Mature People", the most appropriate expression of being ripened by inferior people is probably like this:
When others are smart and clever, you are stupid and stupid, when others have exhausted your scheming, you will open your soul, counting the past days, as if they have been lived in vain!
Perhaps, the man you are facing is not a "plate" hand, but when the man you are facing uses intimacy to open the big mouth you need for money, you should also know:
At this time, no matter how immature it is, not only will the feelings be lost, but the money will also be gone forever! And the man who opened his mouth to ask for money, precisely because he didn't regard you as the rest of his life, there will definitely be other women in his life!
Sole? Stop dreaming! Be a mature person!
3: After intimacy, you either look for him and disappear, or he can only contact him within the specified time
Even if there is no intimacy, men always contact you within a set time, or the messages you send are often lost. When it comes time to get a response, the cookie-cutter "busy" as an excuse ...
After intimacy occurs, men are more restrictive about your connection ...
Remember:
Such a man is not married, but also has a girlfriend. Or, besides you, there are other unrelated objects around him who are in constant contact...
A man who loves you squarely won't be busy all the time!
At the very least, his favor will make you feel real, not leave you with no choice but trust!
The man who believes that you will take more care of your mood and emotions because he possesses you, and will not leave the countless helpless and panic days caused by lack of security to bear by yourself!
After intimacy, a man gives you a reasonable sense of security that hides how much he loves you.
So, stop dreaming about yourself and be a mature person!
Life is not an experience in vain.
Every experience is an understanding. Every experience is a maturity!
Summarize the past and understand the direction of the road for the rest of your life.
No matter what kind of relationship you are hurt by, you should remember: life is your own, if you don't be a hero to protect yourself, you will only be constantly hurt!
Everyone has negative emotions, and when you are willing to put negative emotions aside, you can not be bound by it. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!
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