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The word cause and effect is the most familiar word of association!
Some people are always accustomed to understanding the word cause and effect with superstitious fallacies in past and present lives, in fact, cause and effect are the causes and consequences of reality.
In the "Law of Cause and Effect" in the book "Murphy's Law", the most classic opening sentence reads:
Plant happiness, reap happiness!
This sentence, used in marriage and romantic relationships, echoes the wrong marriage and wrong marriage, you will know why love can be casual, but the fundamental reason why marriage must be cautious!
Generally speaking, most people pay attention to women not to marry wrongly, but few people care about the consequences of men's wrong marriage! The cause of error will create the result of error!
When the cause of the error has been formed, what can be done is to do our best in the present moment and effectively reduce the probability of error in the greatest extent!
You know, blindly complaining and sighing about the past is meaningless, instead of being low and languishing, it is better to cherish the present active life and let the present become the reason for tomorrow's happiness!
As the saying goes, a man is a rake for money, and a woman's box for money! Men work hard to earn money to support their families, and women must not just look beautiful!
When you are in love, you and I are happy, but after marriage, two people must be in the same place, share happiness and suffering, and share fate, which is the perfect combination!
If a man marries a loser by mistake, the marriage leaks everywhere, and life will slide downhill! Here's a wake-up call for men:
Woman, if the characteristics of "losers" are obvious, don't let her manage the money!
1: Good and bad work, timely pleasure
As the old saying goes, marry a wife and marry a virtuous person or not!
Xian, is the name of the woman behind countless successful men! And this sage includes the following aspects:
(1) Give men better positive advice;
(2) Assist men to guard the "rivers and mountains" that have been laid down;
(3) emotional stability;
(4) sharing hardships with men;
(5) Be diligent and thrifty!
Some women, these points are not occupied, but also show good and bad work, timely pleasure to the fullest!
One might say, then why would a man marry such a woman in the first place? After marrying, and asking for this and that, is it not picking bones in the egg?
In fact, two people in love may not really understand each other! What's more, under the action of hormones, a woman's clever mouth and the advantages amplified by men, did not think that the woman she married was a moth!
If, in the face of such a woman, a man dares to give her his money, then wait for the bamboo basket to be empty! And, when the man has no ability to make money, the woman leaves as soon as possible.
Even, if you don't leave, you will make a big noise for three days and a small quarrel for two days to belittle and dislike men!
In the book Murphy's Law, there is a sentence in the "Schwartz Assertion" that says:
Luck and misfortune are up to you!
So, men you must remember:
Your responsibility to a woman who is good and bad does not necessarily mean giving her all the money to squander! Instead, learn to control and guide positively, so that she can clear her identity and share hardships with you.
2: Excessive vanity
At any time, do not marry with a vain woman! No matter how beautiful she is born and how attractive she is to you, you must know:
As long as she is a vanity, just talk about love, and you must be cautious when you get married!
What do vain women do? Nothing more than the following:
(1) Pursue big names;
(2) Clothing, food, housing and transportation, seeking "exquisite" in all aspects, and comparing with a strong heart;
(3) Be extravagant;
(4) Unlimited consumption;
(5) Asking for ungrateful unthanks!
Between men and women, the most direct cause and effect is that the person who loves you will not leave you because you have no money, and the person who loves your money will not stay because he loves you!
True feelings are an attitude, a manifestation, a character. Only people who are full of true feelings can touch the hearts of others!
However, an excessively vain woman has only material desires in her heart, and she will not be able to keep your money bag for you because you love her and care about her.
On the contrary, such a woman will only constantly ask greedily, and take it for granted!
When you meet such a woman, and you dare to put your hard-earned money in her hands, then you are risking "both people and money"!
Vanity, when used well, is positive motivation. On the contrary, it is a clear sign that a person is driven by artificial desires and highlights the evil deeds of human nature!
3: Blindly follow the trend of investment
In real life, some women are like their brains are broken, listening to various financial products or some profitable investment projects of relatives and friends around them.
Finally, after concealing the man's "squandering" of the family's savings, he still said without knowing the mistake:
I'm not for this home yet?
In fact, if such a woman has a little understanding, she will know that for the sake of this family, she should discuss frankly with the man next to her, instead of blindly making claims on her own!
It's not because you don't earn the money, you don't have dominance.
The premise is, did you clear your identity before you dominated? Marriage is for two people, and naturally when making any decision and choice, it needs to be discussed by two people before deciding!
However, in the name of kindness, the consequences of stabbing the sky out of a hole, I can't afford it...
This kind of brainless woman can't say that she is evil, but she definitely can't fool around anymore. At the very least, the control of the family's economy and property can no longer be taken care of by her, otherwise there will be greater disasters caused by her.
In the book Murphy's Law, "The Mustang Ending" writes:
Not getting angry is a practice!
So men are advised to:
If you marry a "loser", don't be angry, and solving problems reasonably is pure! She doesn't know how to run a household, don't you just need her housekeeper?
Love is the purgatory of man in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve positive results!
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