Zheng Yulan, 45 years old, after marrying her first love, suffered a lot of hardship and domestic violence, and later, under the persuasion of her girlfriend, she decisively divorced.
Here's her statement:
After I married my junior high school classmate Ma Haibin, he went to Shanghai to work, and there were in-laws and mothers-in-law at home, and I had to do heavy farm work every day. Sometimes my mother-in-law still disliked me for doing things too slowly, and occasionally I would lose my temper, and once, my girlfriend called and asked me to accompany her to the county to buy clothes.
I put down my farm work and accompanied my girlfriend to the county to buy clothes, and I didn't rush home until 18 p.m., when my mother-in-law reprimanded me sharply, saying that I was lazy in doing farm work and spending more actively, but in fact, I only bought a pair of shoes and spent only 21 yuan.
After that, my mother-in-law quarreled with me several times, each time it was a trivial matter, and later, I couldn't bear it anymore and called Ma Haibin to complain, but Ma Haibin not only did not forgive me, but accused me, saying that I was disrespectful to my mother-in-law, and said that if my mother-in-law was not good, we could divorce.
Later, I chose to end the marriage.
After the divorce, I returned to my mother's house with my nine-year-old son. My parents treated me very well and advised me to be optimistic about everything. My son went to elementary school in the village, and I went to a restaurant in the town to wash dishes and chopsticks, and although the work was hard, I had to persevere for my son's future.
Restaurant chef Wu Zhigang, he is from a neighboring town, three years older than me, widowed for many years, in the usual work, Wu Zhigang cares about me everywhere, once, there was a table of guests drinking, when a man spoke rudely, and pretended to be drunk, moved on me, Wu Zhigang heard the quarrel, quickly came out to check, the man saw Wu Zhigang persuaded, couldn't help but punch over, the defenseless Wu Zhigang was knocked to the ground.
At this time, five people beat him at the same time, which scared me to stay where I was, and Wu Zhigang struggled to fight with this gang.
Later, Wu Zhigang was sent to the hospital to bandage his wounds, and although the injuries were not serious, they fought to protect me, which touched me very much.
The next day, I confessed to Wu Zhigang that I wanted to start a family with him.
Wu Zhigang immediately agreed, so we only invited relatives and friends to dinner, and simply registered our marriage.
After remarrying, we quit our jobs at the restaurant.
I opened my own breakfast restaurant, because Wu Zhigang has good craftsmanship and our dishes are good and cheap, so the business is quite hot!
Now, I'm pregnant again. The current mother-in-law is especially nice to me! As long as I like to eat the dishes, my mother-in-law will do everything possible to buy them back and buy me fresh fruits every day. The mother-in-law said that nutrition needs to be strengthened during pregnancy, and more vitamins are needed.
Conclusion:
Zheng Yulan is lucky, although the first marriage was not satisfactory, but she bravely pursued perfection, and after hard work, finally found the perfect other half. Here, I sincerely wish Zheng Yulan's family happiness and well-being! Happy forever!!