Recently, Hong Kong media reported that the famous actor Huang Rihua successfully proposed to his goddess 55-year-old Kwan Baohui, and the two finally came together.
However, someone asked, didn't he publicly say at the original funeral that he would not marry again?
Why did you suddenly change your mind?
According to reports, Huang Rihua and Kwan Baohui have known each other for a long time.
After Huang Rihua was widowed, Kwan Baohui also gave him care and warmth in all aspects of life.
After Huang Rihua's widowed shadow came out, the hearts of the two became closer, and frequent dating trips were photographed by the media.
Kwan Po Wai is also a popular female artist in Hong Kong, and is loved by the audience with her excellent acting skills and kind and lovely image.
Now, if the two can really be together, countless netizens still expressed their blessings, after all, the Sri Lankan people have passed away, the days must go forward, and life must always start to find new happiness.
But some netizens questioned that it is not impossible to marry again, but at the beginning, Huang Rihua affectionately promised that "only keep that memory in his life", and vowed to be buried in a tomb with his wife, thereby harvesting a large number of iron powder, why, now after three years, he can't pretend to be now?
Could it be that the so-called good man who loves his wife is actually a negative man?
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Huang Rihua, this name will definitely not be unfamiliar to the audience of the 70s, 80s and 90s.
He is known as one of the "Wireless Five Tiger Generals", is an actor loved by the public, and is an idol worshipped by countless people.
But the beginning of his life is full of ups and downs.
In his childhood memories, when he was a child, he was not pampered and cared for by his parents like other children.
His father, who was drunk and violent for a long time, was very indifferent to him, not only that, but his father also pestered other women outside for many years.
His mother, in order to have a complete family, endured everything silently, went out early and returned late every day to make money, and lacked time to take care of Huang Rihua.
When one day, my mother found that my father's perennial debts outside had not been broken, and finally she couldn't bear it anymore and left this indifferent home.
Leaving Huang Rihua alone, facing his alcoholic and irritable father and this cold house.
After high school, Huang Rihua embarked on his own life journey, once playing football was his passion, but fate did not lead him in this direction, but led him in the direction of acting.
With hard work and persistence, Huang Rihua was admitted to the wireless actor class and stood out, successfully signing a wireless contract.
In the training class, he met Liang Jiehua, who was one year older than him, both of them were newcomers to the industry, so they had a lot of common language with each other, and gradually the two became familiar with each other and took more care of both sides.
After a long time of getting along, Huang Rihua liked Liang Jiehua, and the two were naturally together, but because their careers were just starting, the relationship was kept secret and not made public.
However, Huang Rihua's luck is really good, in 1980, Huang Rihua played a cold and cruel killer in the police and bandit film "Passerby", the role was extremely contrasting, successfully attracted the audience's attention, and became famous in one fell swoop.
He soon moved from a trick to a supporting role, from a supporting role to a starring role.
In 1982, Huang Rihua played the role of virtual bamboo in the martial arts drama "Dragon Babu", and his popularity increased greatly after the show became popular.
The broadcast of the TV series "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" has allowed Huang Rihua to directly stand in the position of "first brother" on the wireless, and is called the "Wireless Five Tiger Generals" together with Tony Leung and Andy Lau.
When his career was in full swing, no one expected that Huang Rihua decided to make his relationship public at this time, and the sudden official announcement caused dissatisfaction among fans, many fans took off their fans, and some fans felt that Liang Jiehua was not worthy of Huang Rihua.
But these public opinions did not affect the relationship between the two.
But there are also some vignettes behind the sweetness.
In a chat, Liang Jiehua said that he did not like Huang Rihua and the actresses of the same crew getting too close, but Huang Rihua felt that it was due to work and there was no communication at all in private.
After arguing back and forth, the two separated.
After the breakup, Huang Rihua and Gong Cien had a brief relationship.
However, due to the unsuitable personalities of the two, they separated after a while.
As the saying goes, fate will always make you meet the person you are most suitable for and most obsessed with.
Sure enough, he and Liang Jiehua met again under a shooting and got back together.
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The two reconciled and entered marriage in 1988.
The wedding scene was very grand, and many popular stars came to congratulate him, which shows Huang Rihua's good popularity in the circle.
After marriage, Huang Rihua continued his day-to-day acting career, while Liang Jiehua took care of his family, quit the entertainment industry, and became an insurance agent.
The happy days of the two lasted for a long time, and whenever Huang Rihua came home from work, he could always see hot meals on the dinner table and his wife who was busy in the kitchen.
The happiness of a long stream of water is always so enviable.
However, who would have thought that such happiness would stop in 2013.
At that time, the two were celebrating their wedding anniversary, and Liang Jiehua suddenly had a nosebleed and his face turned pale.
Huang Rihua hurriedly sent his wife to the hospital, only to learn that Liang Jiehua had leukemia.
The sudden heavy blow made Huang Rihua stay in place, and he couldn't listen to what the doctor said next.
In the next 7 years of treatment, Huang Rihua reduced filming, accompanied his wife step by step, carefully took care of her living and diet, and conditioned her body.
Every time Liang Jiehua saw the hair falling off from the pillow, she would cry bitterly, and Huang Rihua whispered comfort beside her.
At that time, Huang Rihua was thinking that if he could recover his wife, it would not matter if he could live for ten or twenty years.
He often talked about the previous relationship between the two by her side, about their daughter, hoping to reinvigorate his wife.
In order to pay for expensive medical expenses, Huang Rihua thought for a long time and decided to take time out of filming to earn money.
But he is no longer young, and his 7-year semi-retired career has long since seen him film.
In desperation, he can only participate in various business activities.
Everyone thinks that he has no bottom line and takes on any job, but only he knows that every amount of money he earns is his wife's life-saving money.
In 2020, during the bone marrow transplant, Liang Jiehua suffered a rejection reaction, and every organ in the body was in danger of failure.
Finally, on May 26, Huang Rihua lost his everlasting wife.
This hard-won happiness was all taken away by God at once.
At the funeral, Huang Rihua ignored the image of the man, was grief-stricken and cried heartbreakingly, and he swore to his relatives and friends that he would not marry again, and he would only have one love in his life.
The longing for his beloved wife was difficult day and night, and for a while Huang Rihua was basically closed, and his home was full of photos of Liang Jiehua.
The daughter persuaded her father to look forward and take her father out to relax, but Huang Rihua was difficult to let go after all.
It wasn't until his old friends took turns to come to the door and take him on a trip together, and gradually, with the help of his daughter's friends, Huang Rihua felt the meaning of life again.
He began to come out of his grief and try a new life.
He knew that his wife was on top and must wish him and his daughter well.
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Three years ago, Liang Jiehua passed away.
Three years later, Huang Rihua was photographed walking hand in hand with Guan Baohui.
Some people feel that after three years, Huang Rihua has also fulfilled his responsibilities to his deceased wife, and he should pursue new happiness.
Some people feel that Huang Rihua broke his promise, didn't he say that he would only love one person in his life? How did you turn your head and hold hands with other women?
It is a topical debate about fidelity in love and new life choices.
Being born as human beings, achieving happiness is our common pursuit.
In fact, Huang Rihua chose to start a new happy life, and we, as outsiders, should not make judgments at the moment, so we feel that he is a negative man.
It can only be said that he was too determined to speak at the beginning, and made a death oath without leaving room for himself, of course, it can be understood, after all, he was in such a grief-stricken situation.
However, indeed, if he had not said this, even if he was now rumored to have another new love, he would not be accused by some netizens.
Because everyone has indeed seen his kindness and dedication to the original match.
At the peak of his career, he chose to recognize love, reduced filming, and retired wholeheartedly to take care of his wife for 7 years, for the sake of his children and his wife's living medical expenses, he took on various business activities under everyone's doubts.
I have to say that he has fulfilled his responsibilities as a good husband and father.
And now that the Swedes are gone, the living should indeed move forward.
No one's life is stagnant, and Huang Rihua's life is the same.
So, as outsiders, what we can do is respect rather than denigrate again.