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Editor|Innocent
In April this year, Zhou Yemang, a well-known performance artist in the mainland and the actor of "Leopard's Head Lin Chong" in the old version of "Water Margin", suddenly posted a message on social platforms.
The content is obviously alluding to the fact that his ex-wife Xi Meijuan has been pouring dirty water on herself for more than ten years after cheating.
This message instantly put Xi Meijuan, an "old drama bone" who is "highly respected" and often plays the image of "loving mother", on the cusp.
After the careful review of netizens, it was found that the divorce turmoil of the two of them had actually ushered in a reversal after so many years.
For so many years, Xi Meijuan, who has always regarded herself as a victim, actually has "two faces"!
So, what kind of love and hate is there between Xi Meijuan and Zhou Yemang?
Because of the drama to become a dependent
Xi Meijuan, who was born in Shanghai in 1955, was born in her family as ordinary workers with honest duties, and none of them were engaged in artistic work.
However, Xi Meijuan is different, in her childhood, her biggest hobby was reading.
But even so, before graduating from high school, she never thought she would become an actress.
In 1973, Xi Meijuan, who had just graduated from high school, got a news.
Shanghai Theater Academy is recruiting students, and Xi Meijuan, who has always been praised by her classmates for her beauty, moved her mind and signed herself up.
Having never been exposed to acting, in order to prepare for the exam, she deliberately went to the cinema to watch a few movies to prepare for the exam.
In the end, she was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Film Academy with her outstanding artistic talent.
Here, Xi Meijuan felt the charm of theatrical performance for the first time, and after four years of systematic training and study, in 1977, Xi Meijuan was assigned to the Shanghai Art Theater.
During this period, Shanghai Renyi was in a period of rapid development.
In order to make up for the problem of young and yellow in the cast team, Shanghai Renyi is determined to cultivate a group of young actors.
At this time, Xi Meijuan, who had just entered the theater, got a chance.
She was arranged to appear in a series of key plays, which perfectly exercised her acting skills.
At this time, Zhou Yemang also graduated from Shanghai Theater Academy and entered Shanghai Renyi.
Unlike Xi Meijuan's family, Zhou Yemang's parents are both actors in Shanghai Renyi and have lived in the backstage of Renyi since childhood.
Because of the needs of the performance, he and Xi Meijuan became partners, and the two often rehearsed together.
Because Zhou Yemang has been familiar with theatrical performances since he was a child, he should be more mature in the shaping and performance of roles.
Xi Meijuan, who is still in the period of learning and experience accumulation, will often take the initiative to ask him for advice.
Gradually, the two young people developed a good impression of each other, and in 1985, the two officially confirmed their relationship when they collaborated on the drama "Chinese Dream".
Although the two at this time have developed into the entertainment industry, they are both playing some supporting roles, so they did not attract the attention of the audience.
After dating for a while, the two naturally entered into marriage.
After marriage, the two are still as sweet as when they were in love, and the newlywed couple is also full of longing for the future life, and both are looking forward to the birth of a new life.
However, not long after Xi Meijuan became pregnant, an accident caused a miscarriage.
This was a huge blow to Xi Meijuan, who was full of joy, so that she could not accept it for a long time, and could only bury herself in her work to escape the pain of losing her child.
Newlyweds are divorced and estranged
At this time, because of Zhou Yemang's excellent English foundation, Shanghai Renyi decided to send him to study abroad.
This was a very rare opportunity for him, so after repeated discussions with Xi Meijuan, he decided to go to Canada alone.
During his time abroad, because Zhou Yemang's salary was not high, it was difficult to maintain a daily life.
As a result, he had to work hard to earn money, wash dishes, look at parking lots, and even cut vegetables for people in Chinese restaurants.
In this way, two years later, Zhou Yemang finally graduated successfully and returned to China.
At this time, Xi Meijuan has already emerged in the entertainment industry.
She participated in many popular film and television works at that time, and won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress in 1990 for her outstanding acting skills.
After Zhou Yemang went abroad, Xi Meijuan lived alone.
Although her career is going smoothly, the loneliness and loneliness in her heart cannot be expelled by the busyness of her career.
After Zhou Yemang returned to China, both of them obviously felt estranged.
But in this case, both of them thought that they could make up for it by getting along for a long time in the future.
In 1994, the 39-year-old Xi Meijuan was pregnant again, and the arrival of the child made both of them very happy and rekindled their hopes for married life.
However, surprisingly, the year after Xi Meijuan gave birth to her child, they went through divorce procedures.
This made the audience very stunned, and the more popular Xi Meijuan made it easier for the audience to sympathize with her.
Many people have speculated that it was Zhou Yemang's cheating that led to the breakdown of their marriage.
After the divorce, Xi Meijuan lived alone with her children, never remarried, and also changed the child's surname to follow her surname Xi, which also aggravated the audience's speculation.
A few years after the divorce, Zhou Yemang developed feelings while filming with actor Wang Zhixia, and soon held a wedding.
Judging from his post-marriage life, Zhou Yemang is very gentle and considerate to this second wife, and is very affectionate.
This made the audience more sympathetic to Xi Meijuan's mother and son, and began to accuse Zhou Yemang of being a "scumbag", abandoning a child during pregnancy, and being a widow.
Initially, Zhou Yemang did not respond to the gossip.
However, 28 years after the divorce, Zhou Yemang finally couldn't bear it anymore and fought back against the accusations of netizens on the Internet.
Fu said that he no longer endured it because the rumors had seriously affected his life.
In July, Zhou Yemang issued another statement, saying that he had filed a lawsuit against the rumor-mongers.
He said the words and rumors were outright lies, and that he had endured these false reports for decades simply to protect the reputation of others.
Zhou Yemang even bluntly said in the comment area that some people treat life as acting, and people are in front of people and people behind them.
After that, some netizens indignantly suggested that Zhou Yemang go and do a paternity test with Xi Meijuan's child.
Zhou Yemang, on the other hand, replied that he was already going through the procedure.
Regarding Zhou Yemang's statement, Xi Meijuan did not respond.
Perhaps she felt that there was no need to explore these past things.
Now, all of her life is focused on her son.
And her son is also very competitive, and after graduating from college, he went to study abroad.
After returning to China in 2019, he also began to have his own business.
But no matter what form this turmoil will end, Xi Meijuan's image has plummeted.
Her reputation for being a respected old drama bone is also gone.
epilogue
Marriage is the life of two people, and it takes two people to work hard to manage and maintain.
If it is not maintained, letting go is also a virtue.
However, it is very undesirable to splash dirty water after divorce and cause the other party's work and life to be affected.
Perhaps as Sanmao said, life should be a grudge, too much calculation is in vain, it is better to go with the wind together.
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