#挑战30天在头条写日记#
When the woman's relatives got married, they liked the wine shabby, and the bride replied domineeringly: Did you give a gift?
This is a true story that happened to a couple in Chengdu. Their names are Li Ming and Zhang Yue, both 25 years old this year, both white-collar workers working in a company after graduating from college. They met and fell in love in 2019 and decided to get married in 2021. Their wedding took place over a weekend in September 2023 at a 3-star hotel. Their wedding was not extravagant, only a few relatives and friends, a total of about 100 people. Their wine is also not expensive, just some simple dishes and drinks for about 500 yuan per table.
The reason they do this is because they are all more frugal and sane people. They feel that marriage does not need to be too wasteful, as long as it can reflect their hearts and feelings. They feel that after marriage, there are still many expenses and pressures, such as buying a house, buying a car, raising children, etc. They feel that they should think more about themselves and each other, not for the eyes and evaluations of others.
At their wedding, something infuriating and embarrassing happened. It turned out that a distant relative of Zhang Yue, after drinking a few glasses of wine, began to make unreasonable accusations and complaints about Xijiu. He said that this happy wine was too shabby, without any grade and taste. He said the hotel was too shabby without any atmosphere and service. He said the groom was too petty to buy any jewelry and gifts for the bride. He said that this bride was so blind that she actually married such a poor boy.
These words made everyone present feel very uncomfortable and dissatisfied. Especially Zhang Yue, after hearing these words, she felt very angry and aggrieved. She felt that this relative was an ignorant and shameless person, without any courtesy and upbringing. She felt that this relative was a person who ate white food and found fault, without any gratitude and respect. She felt no need to endure such insults and cynicism.
Therefore, in the case of unbearable circumstances, Zhang Yue stood up and domineeringly replied to that relative. She said: "You said that our wine is shabby, are you going to give gifts? You say our hotel is dilapidated, have you stayed there? You call our groom stingy, do you know? You say our bride has no vision, do you? Did you come to our wedding just to eat, drink and have fun? Have you blessed us? Have you ever touched us? Have you ever respected us? What qualifications do you have to talk about it here? What qualifications do you have to dictate here? What qualifications do you have to spoil our joy and happiness here? ”
Zhang Yue's reply left the relative speechless, and everyone present applauded and cheered. They all felt that Zhang Yue was a brave and self-respecting woman, as well as a happy and beautiful bride. They all felt that the relative was a ridiculous and pathetic person, as well as an unwelcome and unworthy person. They all felt that this wedding was a successful and memorable wedding, as well as a warm and touching wedding.
This is our report, how about you? Do you think that when you get married, the woman's relatives like to drink shabby, and the bride domineeringly responds: Are you casual? What is the background, reason and impact of this incident? Do you think the bride's response is reasonable and appropriate? If it were you, what would you do? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to share your thoughts and opinions. Please also like and retweet to let more people participate in this topic. Thank you!
#挑战30天在头条写日记#