#挑战30天在头条写日记#
I want to complain about the parent-teacher meeting of Erbao Kindergarten yesterday.
I entered the park at 4:50 and finished at 7:55, and I arrived home at exactly eight o'clock.
The three-hour parent-teacher conference made me have a headache, dizziness, and eyes, looking at the doorknob, my hands just couldn't get by, and I was so dizzy that I couldn't stand steadily. It's really old, my physical condition is not good, and I just want to lie down when I go home.
Ya's classmate has depression, and this is the third child among her classmates to have depression.
The first child with a disease, on the first day she and my girlfriend became classmates, we were impressed with her. Because her self-introduction is very personal: my name is so-and-so, I am a good student, I study well, have good personality, good morality, good sports, good art...
We were looking forward to her first monthly exam, and the results were not particularly good. Later, I heard that she went to the private sector, and when she came back, there were more traces of cutting her wrists on her arms, because of the process of chatting on the Internet, she was raped online. But until she committed suicide, her parents did not control her mobile phone, and she continued to fight those who abused her online.
The second person diagnosed with depression is also a girl, because they are looking for a partner, parents are very supportive, and they will say to their children, "Has my son-in-law held hands with you?" As a result, a lot of things happened, the whole class knew it, and the parents still foolishly thought that the child was measured.
In fact, what proportion can a fourteen- or five-year-old child have? If girls do not do well, they become "experiments" for adolescent boys to satisfy their curiosity.
The third child diagnosed with depression was a boy. It can be said that the temperament character, in the eyes of everyone, is a very good child. When he had conflicts with classmates at school before, he would not be angry, others scolded him, he did not talk back, and sometimes he would laugh at himself "skin".
His mother, an elementary school teacher, managed him in a particularly peculiar way. There is a metal "nail rake" in the house, and this child is often "raked", with blood marks on his arms.
When the child met his mother like this, he ran away from home. But no matter how late you leave home, you will still go to school the next day. His mother is also amazing, as long as the child leaves the house, even if it is only a five-minute walk, and then comes home, she will not be angry, as if what just happened has not happened.
The father of this child hardly cares about things at home, but he said a sentence to the child, which I remember vividly: "She is your mother, and you should return your life to her."
Therefore, I discussed this issue with Ya, this child, seems to have a good temper, but the heart is not sunny, but the father is a completely uninvolved character at home, resulting in him encountering things will only escape, in the future he has a family, if his wife and mother have conflicts, he is likely to sit idly by, or even walk away.
During the summer vacation, his current girlfriend and ex-girlfriend met by chance, and the ex-girlfriend was still saying strange things, and his reaction at that time was to flee the "scene", and his girlfriend broke up with him.
As soon as the semester started, the child quarreled with the teacher in order to protect his girlfriend. I thought, was my judgment of this child wrong?
Within ten days, depression was diagnosed and a "pneumothorax" was caused. His symptoms were very irritable, and then his chest was tight and he couldn't breathe.
The "hard-to-head" conflict with his mother also began, and he did not run away from home, that is, he made trouble and was just positive.
His mother, still so magical, waited for him to go to sleep, turned off his alarm clock, and made him late for school the next day.
He proposed that he wanted to have surgery and wanted to take a break from school, but his mother did not agree and told the child that he could not take leave, and after the college entrance examination, I would operate on you.
In the child's words, the hospital prescribed medicine and did not give him food, but went to invite a Taoist priest, and she herself hid in the school dormitory and did not often go home.
She does this to the child, it seems that she has an occupational disease of an elementary school teacher.
At present, elementary school teachers are really the best in the entire student life of children. Because children are still young, strict teachers are more likely to make children fearful and obedient. But, is this correct?
Maybe I'm not in my place, standing and talking without back pain. I think elementary schools should be more patient, rather than directly forcing children to be afraid of her.
In fact, hearing that the classmates around Ya had such a disease, I felt quite uncomfortable. My child, who has not been well protected by me since childhood, has been treated unfairly at school herself. When I get home, I will tell her that the real world is more cruel than this....
So, Ya's endurance, okay.
However, the experiences of these children are enough to make me reflect. In the third year of high school, Ya can still be regarded as working hard, and I have requirements for my grades, so I don't want to be demanding of my children anymore. Accompany her, take less than a year to finish, any university is good, I support her to choose her favorite major and do her favorite work.
It's good to be able to support yourself, not to be rich and noble, just to be happy.