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In the world of music, there is a much-loved singer, her name is Xu Jiaying. She has a song called "Riding a White Horse", and one of the lyrics quotes the classic singing voice of Taiwanese folk opera. The lyrics are as follows:
I rode a white horse to walk three levels,
I changed my plain clothes and returned to the Central Plains.
Leave Xiliang unattended,
I only think about Wang Baochuan.
This song describes the story of a king Xue Pinggui who gave up the throne and returned to his hometown to find his wife Wang Baojun. Xue Pinggui is portrayed as an affectionate figure who desperately abandons the affairs of the Western Liang Kingdom in order to find Wang Baochuan. The story is enviable, but reality is often more brutal than the story.
Wang Baochuan's story first originated in folk dramas, and was later adapted into many versions such as TV series and novels. However, no matter how the version changes, the core of the story revolves around Xiangfu Qianjin Wang Baochuan and the poor boy Xue Pinggui. In that era, parents and matchmakers decided marriage, but Wang Baochuan firmly believed in the existence of love. In her opinion, wealthy princes are hypocritical, and what she is looking for is Ruyi Langjun who really touches the soul. By coincidence, she met Xue Pinggui, a middle-of-the-road but knowledgeable young man.
This encounter convinced Wang Baochuan that she had found her destined lover, and she made up her mind to marry only Xue Pinggui. However, when she confessed her feelings to her father, he was furious and refused her request. In Wang Baochuan's eyes, whether it is a stern father or a persuasive mother and sister, they have become stumbling blocks on her road to pursuing true love. She is determined to marry Xue Pinggui, even if she has to break off relations with Xiangfu.
In order to marry the person he wanted, Wang Baochuan abandoned his past identity and luxurious life and was willing to become Xue Pinggui's wife. Xue Pinggui left shortly afterwards to join the army, while Wang Baochuan remained in the humble residence they shared. On hard days, she even dug wild vegetables on the hillside to make ends meet.
Her sister and mother repeatedly persuaded her to return to Xiangfu, but she firmly refused. Eighteen years like a day, Wang Baochuan transformed from a young girl into a sister-in-law digging vegetables. During this time, she became a "sister-in-law digging vegetables", a term that I did not coin, but from the excerpt from "Wujia Po" in "Red-Maned Fierce Horse", describing that when Xue Pinggui saw Wang Baochuan again eighteen years later, she was digging vegetables.
From the moment she decided to marry Xue Pinggui, Wang Baochuan gave up everything before her, including the status of Xiangfu, the luxurious life, and the respect and praise of others. The only thing she has is her love with Xue Pinggui. She pursues this love with a redemptive mentality and becomes a female beggar full of love. However, the ending of the story was not as she expected, Xue Pinggui had already flown with the princess of the Western Liang Kingdom, and only after eighteen years did he remember that he also had a wife in the Central Plains.
Wang Baochuan lost her life and gave everything, but in the end she failed to get the true love she longed for. This story makes people deeply puzzled by the so-called "love brain".
But instead of blaming Xue Pinggui for being a scumbag, people blame Wang Baochuan more. She played a good hand of cards and became a desperate "female beggar", a phrase that became a hot topic on the Internet. People seem to think that "love brains" are undesirable, that it will not only cost people everything, but may also end up being let down.
However, such stories are not uncommon. Some people give up everything for love, and once they fall in love, they lose their minds and even self-esteem.
American psychologist Eric Byrne believes that people's destinies are largely influenced by their life scripts. This life script is written from childhood, including good people and people
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