Why did Fu Seoul's husband want to divorce?
I have always liked Fu Seoul and her ability to speak, and she is a successful person who has truly achieved a good life with knowledge and lip service. Really, I have always envied and wanted to be like that, listening to her say her husband, her children, her family's chickens and dogs, I felt that her life was really interesting, and I also knew the person of Lao Liu from her mouth - Liu Yi, the man behind a successful woman, Fu Seoul's top husband.
Recently, the couple went on a variety show called < >, and instantly <再见爱人>rushed to the hot search, it turned out that the two who seemed to be Qin Se and Ming were also going to divorce, and the two on the show broke the news that they had actually divorced once at the node of the seven-year itch between the two, and this statement instantly stunned everyone. Because their personalities in front of the screen are only envious of the beautiful life partner image of the mandarin duck and the fairy, the public began to talk about the two of them at once. Here I also want to express my opinion shallowly, only representing my personal opinion~
First of all, what kind of person is Lao Liu? We can get a glimpse of some of Fu Seoul's characteristics from his speech.
1. A strong supporter and companion in difficult times. When Fu Seoul was still unknown, and even when he was running around for life, Lao Liu was Fu Seoul's companion in his difficult life, accompanying her to bear the pain of life~
2. A warm man who is restrained and does not express very much, but has been silently guarding. Most of the other half of a person like Fu Seoul who is good at words has to be a taciturn person, just imagine if both of them are people who can speak, they can't fight every day. Fu Seoul used three beautiful words to describe him: simple and kind, gentle and generous, and really gentleman.
3. Humorous salted fish. Fu Seoul complained in the show that Lao Liu is very salty fish, and everything is very salty, so that their son is a little salted fish, and at the wedding ceremony, he said: You are not necessarily happy when you marry me, and you are not necessarily happy when you marry someone else, so it is better to marry me...
These are all scattered old Liu in Fu Seoul's mouth, but this is enough to make us firmly believe that Lao Liu must be a good husband, so that Fu Seoul has enough time to take care of her career. We are very envious of their life mode inside and outside the male protagonist and female protagonist, and they all want to have the same husband. But the rumors of the divorce of the two suddenly swept the whole Internet, making people scratch their heads, making us doubt life again, true or false, false or false, is everything illusory? But as far as I am concerned, I am not surprised at all, or I have expected this day, unless this person is a saint without desire, otherwise this pattern of life will definitely go wrong, this is not a rock, this is my understanding of human nature, born as human beings, we carry the weakness of human nature. Why do they want to divorce? Listen to me slowly, don't rush ...
1. The social environment in which we live. The above-mentioned life model of male protagonists inside and outside the female protagonist seems to be no problem in itself, but putting it in Chinese society has become a problem. I have to admit that the equality between men and women that the Chinese people and even the whole world have been pursuing has not been fully realized until now, and China is a patriarchal society, which is not something you can justify, and the five-thousand-year-old feudal legacy obviously needs a longer period of change. In such a society, the male protagonist seriously hurts the dignity of men, maybe he didn't feel anything bad at first, but over time, the contempt and gossip from the people around him will break a man's psychological defenses, since ancient times people are fearful! This is not something that can be controlled by man, and it is impossible for Lao Liu to really not care about this, you have to think that he is an authentic Chinese man, and a silent Chinese man.
2. Lack of effective communication between husband and wife. We all know that Lao Liu is a taciturn person, so there may be a lot of words he can't or don't want to express, long-term accumulation will lead to resentment, and Fu Seoul is too strong, half of her material on the show is taken from Lao Liu, talking and talking inadvertently poked Lao Liu's heart, over time, everything changed the taste~
3. Change of economic status. In the past, they may not have a lot of money, the life of the two is dull, but now with Fu Seoul's popularity, they began to accumulate wealth, and most of the wealth is earned by Fu Seoul, a person has money, and it is a large amount of money, you say she is not fluttering, originally Fu Seoul is very strong, and with these blessings, her posture at home can be imagined. It may be better if Lao Liu can be good at expression, but Lao Liu is a person who is not good at expression, which will cause a crisis.
Finally, for the reasons stated by Lao Liu himself, picking up and dropping off children every day, life looping every day, not finding himself, and being dissatisfied with himself, this is all an excuse. Isn't the life he leads the daily life of thousands of housewives? Housewives live like this every day, and even most of the economic conditions are far inferior to him. So, in the final analysis, it is the chaos of the social status in which they live, and Chinese society generally gives women the task of taking care of their families and children, and men the task of struggling to provide for their families outside. I don't mean any sexism, I'm a woman myself, and I work to earn money. I just put aside myself and objectively judged this matter, don't like it and don't spray ha~