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What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

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With the progress and development of the times, polygamy has long been outlawed, and now it is what we call monogamy. However, there are exceptions to everything, and in Japan, a man and two women form a family. For this man's life, there are many friends who want to know.

In a variety show in Japan, the man received an invitation from the program group and exposed the details of the life of a polygamous family to the outside world for the first time under the inquiry of the program host, and complained that it was unrealistic to have rain and dew.

So, how did the fate of the three begin? Next, let's learn about the daily life of a polyandrous family in the man's narrative!

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

1. Confession fan Yuko was rejected

The protagonist of our story is named Kake Nishiyama, who, according to himself, has multiple identities, both as a mysterious spirit teacher and a calligrapher. He makes a living by selling chicken soup for the soul in artistic typeface to people in need of comfort. During this time, Nishiyama Kake met a husband who had a wife, later his wife Hiroko.

Hiroko is four years older than Nishiyama Kak, and she was married before she met Nishiyama Kak. However, Yuko's husband treats her badly, and the two have had many quarrels over the trivial matters of life. Whenever Yuko is distressed, she will take out the chicken soup for the soul written by Nishiyama Kake as a way to comfort her unhappy marriage.

For a long time, Yuko can't help but have a strange feeling for Nishiyama Jiake, and the single Nishiyama Kak has the same feeling for this fan. Although the two have never met, they have become close friends in spirit.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

In June 2008, Nishiyama Kake couldn't hold back his desire for love, so he tried to meet Yuko in order to pour out his love for Yuko, and Yuko was also happy to see Nishiyama Kake meet himself, thinking that he could finally meet his "idol" again. However, this date is not as rosy as Yuko imagined.

At first, at the beginning of the meeting, the two happily talked about their views on art and life. And Nishiyama Kake found that the Yuko in front of him was not only charming and sexy, but also had many points of view that coincided with him, so his liking for Yuko doubled, and he couldn't help but tell Yuko about his love for her and begged Yuko to accept her.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

However, Yuko had been married for many years at that time, and had a son, belonging to a husband with a wife, although his relationship with her husband was not happy, and he had not yet reached the situation of divorce. Therefore, due to her sense of responsibility to the family, Hiroko rejected Nishiyama Kake's courtship on the spot. The two broke up unhappily.

After the confession was rejected, Nishiyama Jia was very frustrated, thinking of his beloved woman into the arms of others, and his heart was resentful for a while, and he urgently needed a new emotion to replace this bad memory. And another heroine in our story also appeared - Yukari.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

Second, the calligraphy exhibition meets Yukari

Like Yukako, Yukari's love life is also very unsmooth, her previous boyfriend is addicted to gambling and can't extricate herself, while Yukari, who loves her boyfriend deeply, has repeatedly advised him to quit gambling and start over with himself.

But Yukari's boyfriend is easy to change his nature, saying that he would quit gambling, but behind his back he still secretly went out to gamble, and he didn't come back all night. After a few times, the heartbroken Yukari felt that she could not save her boyfriend, so she chose to leave in dismay.

During this period, when Nishiyama was holding his own calligraphy exhibition nearby, Yukari, who needed to relieve her distress, was impressed after seeing one of Nishiyama Kak's works.

Just when he was intoxicated with the artistic enjoyment brought by the art of calligraphy, Nishiyama Jiake's words brought back to the fuel tank: "Hello, I am Nishiyama Gark, the author of this work." Looking at the gentle man in front of him, Yukari's heart couldn't help but feel a heartbeat, and that longing for the opposite sex occupied his heart again.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

For a period of time after this, Yukari would participate in Nishiyama Jiak's activities for various reasons, and Nishiyama Kake seemed to have a different feeling for the girl in front of him. After coming and going, the two took the opportunity to break this layer of window paper and confirm the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

However, the amorous Kake Nishiyama did not cherish Yukari by nature, but got together with Yukari's friends. When Yukari learned about it, he was angry and determined to stay away from his boyfriend Nishiyama Kake, and after Nishiyama Kake saw Yukari ruthlessly leaving, his love for Yukari reoccupied his heart.

As a result, Nishiyama Kake stalked Yukari every day, often creating various romantic means for Yukari to reawaken Yukari's feelings for herself. And Yukari herself was also at ease with Nishiyama Kak, and the two reconciled again and got married naturally.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

However, before that, another "uninvited guest" Hiroko came to Nishiyama Kak's side and tried to take Nishiyama Kak back from Kasato.

Third, confess cheating on his wife's girlfriend

It turned out that when Yuko was ready to devote herself to Nishiyama Kake since her divorce, she found that her sweetheart had already become a husband. However, Yuko did not give up for this, but went to Nishiyama's company for an interview, and successfully became Nishiyama Kake's assistant.

During this period, when Yukari learned that Yuko had an unhappy marriage before, she couldn't help but feel sympathy, thinking that it was very difficult for Yuko to carry children alone, so in life, Yukari often helped Yuko for various reasons, and Yuko was also grateful, and the two became good sisters.

For Nishiyama Jiake, Yuko is also concerned, not only the more affectionate, but also do her best to treat Nishiyama Jiake's affairs as her own, and has always been serious and responsible in terms of work.

After seeing Yuko, Nishiyama Kake couldn't help but be overjoyed, often staying in the office to chat with Yuko, although he was also at ease with Yuko in his heart, but because of his married status, he did not do anything out of the ordinary.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

However, even during his honeymoon with Yukari, Nishiyama Kak found that he was actually thinking of Yuko in his heart, and Nishiyama Kak knew in his heart that this feeling for Yuko was lingering, so Nishiyama Kak often struggled for this, thinking that he was married, what should he do now?

However, after Yukari became pregnant, Nishiyama Kak found that his feelings for Yuko could not be contained, and Yuko, who often got along with Nishiyama Jiake, was the same, and after the two tested each other, finally in December 2018, Yuko boldly confessed her friendship to Nishiyama Kake.

Time has passed, and the roles of the two in the relationship have changed dramatically, but Nishiyama Kake did not reject Hiroko, but chose to accept Yuko's feelings for him in a married state.

When Yukari found out, she was very surprised, as far as she was concerned, during her relationship with Yuko, she had regarded Yuko as her sister, and she had a very deep trust in Yuko. However, now that her "sister" actually says that she is in love with her husband, Yukari naturally has resistance in her heart.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

Helplessly he was already pregnant with Nishiyama Kake's child, considering that the two did not choose to deceive themselves, but chose to be honest with each other, Yukari couldn't weigh it for a while, and finally after thinking about it, he actually absurdly expressed his willingness to accept Yuko.

4. Two women and one man in the same group of families

In order not to constitute bigamy, Nishiyama Kake divorced Yukari, married Yuko and divorced again. Seeing this, some friends may ask, why did Nishiyama Kake marry Yuko and then divorce?

Later, Nishiyama Kake broke the news in the program group that he mainly had two considerations, one is the embodiment of the equality between Yuko and Yukari, and the other is based on economic considerations, because the Japanese state has certain subsidies for single mothers.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

After completing the relevant procedures, the three of them lived together according to the plan. However, this kind of polygamous family is not recognized by Japanese society, even if the three have made up their minds to face it together, whether it is neighbors or strangers who know about the three people, the Nishiyama family will point fingers. In the face of the incomprehension of outsiders, Nishiyama Jia and his two wives decided to explore and face together, and the three had no reputation, all relying on feelings to maintain each other.

In order to facilitate their lives, the three moved directly from the city to the suburbs. At first, the time when the three lived together was not harmonious, and although Yukari and Hiroko had reached a reconciliation, in real life, the two would still be jealous because of Nishiyama Kak. And Yuko has said many times that she wants to leave the family, but after the bitter persuasion of the two, she finally chose to stay.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

In the 9 years since they moved to the suburbs, Nishiyama and Yukari have two children together, three children with Hiroko, and one child born to Yuko and her ex-husband. The family of 9 lived together, and during this time, the children also became the center of the lives of the two ladies.

So, in daily life, what is the Nishiyama Jiak family like?

According to Nishiyama Kake, Hiroko usually cooks for the family in the early morning, while Yukari washes, dresses, and transports the children to nearby schools. When she returns, Yukari and Yuko clean up the house together.

So, what is West Mountain Garker mainly responsible for? Nishiyama opened a studio nearby, also responsible for opening a calligraphy exhibition, in a word, responsible for earning money to support his family.

What is it like to be a polygamous family? The Japanese man exposed the specific details, and the rain and dew were unrealistic

Because it was far from the suburbs, it was not convenient for the three to buy vegetables and cook, so the three planted a field in the back mountain to provide for themselves. For nine years, Nishiyama lived with his two wives, and although there were some quarrels and anchors, life was relatively smooth.

Epilogue:

In short, no matter how beautiful the love between the three is described by Xishan Jiake, it is disrespectful to both women. Most people still don't understand the deeds of Nishiyama Garker, so what do you think? #秋日生活打卡季#

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