With the widespread popularity of web chat apps, people are increasingly willing to communicate in the virtual world, and many are also looking for online companions. Due to the nature of online interactions, the other party becomes mysterious, and people tend to imagine each other perfectly.
A 50-year-old man surnamed Chen and a 46-year-old woman, Lin Na, chatted online for half a month, and both parties were satisfied and decided to meet. But after only one day together, in the evening, the man suddenly left in a hurry, claiming that the woman was terrible.
So what exactly made him feel so scared? The following is Brother Chen's experience:
My name is Chen Wei, I am 50 years old and I am a businessman. My wife died of illness three years ago, leaving me and my son alone. The son got married last year and started a family and moved out of the house. Due to my busy schedule, I don't have much contact with my son and daughter-in-law, so I often feel lonely.
In the two years since my wife's death, I have never forgotten her, and at the same time I am too busy buying and decorating my son's house without thinking about finding a partner again. It wasn't until my son got married that I started thinking about my personal life.
Because of my busy schedule, I didn't have time to go on blind dates, and I didn't really like it either, so I became interested in online chat. I met her, who was four years younger than me, called herself a community doctor, and had a college degree.
Listening to her self-introduction, I developed a strong affection for her, thinking that she must be a quality and cultivated person, so I am very serious about her feelings.
When she asked me about my occupation and education, I deliberately lied, claiming to be a worker who could have more than ten thousand a month, despite the salary being good. Since I knew her from the neighborhood, we were only 3 kilometers away.
After chatting for three days, I asked her to send photos. At first, she didn't want to, but I sent her my picture first. I chose a photo of my life that I thought was handsome, and unexpectedly, she immediately responded and sent her photo.
I scrutinized her pictures and she was indeed beautiful, looking young, about her early 40s, and I had a strong feeling for her and thought she was exactly my type.
I think she also has a crush on me because we have more and more topics in our conversation. Initially, I took the initiative to say hello, but then she also started reaching out to me.
After a week of chatting, we liked each other, and I offered to meet and chat, but she kept pushing back, saying that she was too busy at work.
I offered to wait for her time until she was free. After a week, she suddenly said that she was on vacation for a week and her daughter was not at home and suggested that we meet.
She explained that she only had these 7 days off a year and that her daughter happened to be away from home, which was a rare opportunity, so we decided to meet.
I am very happy that we chose to meet in a city far from home to make sure that we do not run into acquaintances and that we are safe. We plan to travel together for a week.
I prepared a travel guide and learned about the weather at the destination, because of the large temperature difference there, I reminded her to bring more clothes, especially long sleeves.
However, she said that she did not want to bring clothes, felt that it was too troublesome, and even did not want to carry luggage, but only wanted to carry a small package of cosmetics. I suggested that you can buy what you need at any time and she agreed.
So, we met and I saw her for the first time. She is even more beautiful than I expected, whether it is appearance, temperament, figure or dressing, it is in line with the type I like.
I like the way she speaks, her accent, and I feel really lucky. Then, we happily got in the car and headed to the tourist destination.
After a two-hour journey, we finally arrived at the tour location, it was already noon, and we first found a restaurant for lunch. When the waiter brought the menu, I asked her to order, and she also ordered several dishes without hesitation.
When those dishes were served, I was amazed, the table was full of food! I silently counted, there were 9 dishes! How is it possible for two people to finish 9 dishes?
Although I didn't want to show displeasure, I still felt a little dissatisfied in my heart, and about half of the dishes were barely moving, which I felt was very wasteful.
After eating, she asked me to accompany her to shopping, and I readily agreed. But when we entered the first mall, she bought a set of clothes worth 500 yuan, and I thought her shopping was over.
But then, she entered another mall, I looked at it, the clothes there were much more expensive than the previous one, she bought two sets, and after the discount, it cost a total of more than 5,000 yuan.
At this time, I still did not show displeasure, although I prepared 50,000 yuan of travel expenses in advance, but considering the speed of expenditure, I began to feel a little worried.
After buying the clothes, I thought we would go to the homestay and then go to dinner. However, she dragged me into a lingerie store. When I saw the price of underwear, I was shocked, a piece of underwear costs seven or eight hundred yuan, and some even cost one or two thousand yuan.
I had never been in a lingerie store before and I didn't understand the value of lingerie, so these high prices really made me unbelievable. While I was surprised by the prices, she had already chosen a piece of underwear worth 1500 yuan, and I had to pay.
However, the end of lingerie shopping is not all, and when we were on the way home, she suggested buying a pair of couple sneakers together to make walking and climbing mountains more comfortable during the trip. Since I usually wear formal clothes, her advice got my approval.
We entered a shoe store and she picked out two pairs of couple sneakers, although they look very beautiful, they are not cheap, one pair costs 999 yuan, and two pairs are discounted for 1900 yuan. This is the most expensive shoe I bought in my life.
On the way back, I started thinking about her consumption for the day. Suddenly, I thought of the "princess disease" she mentioned earlier. Maybe this is what she calls "princess disease"?
We returned to the B&B and I planned to drop my shopping stuff and go to dinner. But she suddenly offered to buy a car and insisted on buying it the next day so that we could travel more conveniently.
I thought she was just joking, so didn't pay much attention. But she has always insisted on buying a car, even searching for a model suitable for self-driving travel on her phone, again emphasizing that she will buy a car the next day.
At this point, I began to feel impatient, I understood that buying a car could cost hundreds of thousands or more, the two of us had just met, and it was outrageous that she asked me to buy a car.
That dinner, I had a very unpleasant meal. After returning to the homestay, she didn't seem to notice my dissatisfaction and continued to discuss the purchase of a car. I started to feel a little scared, worried that the next day she would force me to buy a car, which really scared me.
Eventually, I decided to leave overnight. I took advantage of her bathroom to quickly pack my bags and hurried away.
When I got home, I didn't delete her WeChat, thinking it was unnecessary. Although we didn't become husband and wife, we could still be friends. After a few days, we were not in touch with each other.
However, just when I thought it was all going to pass, one day, she called me and asked me to check WeChat, where there was a message from her.
In the message, I received a photo of what appeared to be a medical record of gastroenteritis. She suddenly said, "Can you transfer me 2,500 yuan?" I'm sick, shouldn't you take some responsibility? I was counting on you to help me the other day. ”
I asked rhetorically, "Why am I responsible?" We've broken up, and I'm not obligated at all. ”
She was silent and finally blocked me. What a human heart! Is this the so-called princess disease?
Looking back now, I am terrified. This woman is incredible. This experience made me lose interest in web chat.
I also feel that it is difficult to understand each other in the virtual world, so online dating must be very important.