When my colleague suddenly passed away at the age of 52, I suddenly woke up, stopped tangling in everything, and chose to reconcile with myself.
The passing of my colleague Li Ling a month ago was a huge shock and warning to me. Li Ling, 51 years old this year, has been retired for one year, and she should have lived a stable old age and enjoyed the rest of her hard work. However, a sudden cerebral hemorrhage took her life away and gave me a deeper understanding of the fragility and impermanence of life.
At the funeral, facing Li Ling's body, I felt the impermanence and fragility of life. In her wife's choked statements, I heard the dreams and fond memories of the past they had pursued together. They had planned to adopt a child together, take the child around the world, and enjoy their old age. However, the trick of fate made this beautiful plan ruthlessly interrupted, and Li Ling's departure made his wife painful.
From that moment on, I began to reflect on my lifestyle and values. Each of us struggles, argues, fights, and constantly strives for power, status, money, but once we lose our lives, all this will be lost. Li Ling's sudden death made me understand that life is like a magical and short journey, and we cannot lock ourselves firmly in the quagmire of disturbed life for some trivial matters.
This experience made me understand that dwelling on some senseless struggle will only lead me into endless pain and anxiety. I no longer waste time and energy arguing with others, no longer dwell on the pain and regret of the past. Instead, I began to reconcile with myself spiritually. I learned tolerance and understanding, letting go of jealousy and resentment toward others. I began to focus on my heart and cultivation, pursuing true inner peace and serenity.
I began to enjoy the sunshine every day and feel the beauty and magic of nature. I cherish the time I spend with my loved ones and know how to understand and listen to their hearts. I also pay more attention to my physical and mental health, and maintain inner balance and health through exercise and meditation.
Li Ling's departure taught me a valuable lesson to re-examine the value and meaning of life. I no longer pin my happiness on material and external pursuits, but grasp the present moment as much as possible, reconcile with myself, and pursue my inner peace and satisfaction.
I understood the shortness and preciousness of life, and the meaninglessness of dwelling on trifles and fights. I chose to let go of the baggage of the past and choose to reconcile with myself. No matter what difficulties and setbacks I encounter in life, I will face them with a positive and optimistic attitude, learn to learn from them, and continue to grow and improve.
Li Ling's death made me understand more that life is short and precious, and we should cherish time, reconcile with ourselves, and chase true happiness and joy in the limited years. Since that day, I have said goodbye to entanglements and chosen a positive attitude towards life, hoping to live my life to the fullest. #人生#
