preface
"Love it, let it go."
This is a sentence posted by Zhang Jiani on Weibo after facing her husband's cheating incident. This sentence seems free, but it hides a lot of helplessness and sadness. Discerning people can easily see that behind this sentence is the rupture and scarred of a relationship between a once high-profile "fairy couple".
Once, Zhang Jiani and Mai Chao were a shining couple in the entertainment industry, and their love story was told by countless people, as if it were a fairy tale in reality. However, this fairy tale ended up coming to a harrowing end.
But in fact, the dangerous "lying marriage" between the two has already written the ending of the "marriage change".
First, the extraordinary life that ordinary girl Zhang Jiani yearns for
In 1987, Zhang Jiani was born in an ordinary Chengdu family. Her parents were ordinary wage earners with a tight budget, but they attached great importance to their daughter's education. Since elementary school, seeing their daughter's passion for dance, the couple began to cut back on food and clothing, and invested their only savings in their daughter's dance studies.
In elementary school, Zhang Jiani's parents first let her learn ethnic dance, which is both fun and close to life for a girl in Chengdu. In junior high school, they asked Zhang Jiani to enroll in ballet. Ballet training is very strict and hard, but Zhang Jiani never complains, just devotes herself to training, hoping to become a good ballet dancer.
For her ballet dream, Zhang Jiani has made great efforts. She wakes up early every day to train and continues to practice drip movements after school. Her classmates were entertaining, but she repeated the ballet day after day, never giving up until her feet were blistered.
This hard training quickly paid off, and Zhang Jiani achieved great results in dance competitions both inside and outside the school, and was praised as the best in the dance class.
In 2003, Zhang Jiani was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy as he wished. For a girl from an ordinary family in Chengdu, it is not easy to be admitted to Beiying, which makes Zhang Jiani feel proud and proud.
In Hokage, she continued to study hard at performance and participated in club dance activities. The four years of college are a happy period of study and dream chasing for Zhang Jiani, and it has also laid a solid foundation for her future acting career.
Second, the "offensive" of buying super finally won Zhang Jiani's heart
In 2006, Zhang Jiani starred in the role of "Ziling" in the TV series "Another Curtain of Dreams" shortly after graduating from Beiying. This lively and cute character who persistently pursues dreams is loved by the audience, and Zhang Jiani became famous in one fell swoop and embarked on the road of acting.
Just when "Another Curtain of Dreams" was on the air, the rich boy Mai Chao saw Zhang Jiani's "Ziling" on TV, and was immediately attracted by her sweet smile and sunny temperament. Mai Chao knew "Ziling" with one mind, so he asked around for information about Zhang Jiani, and finally met her in person in a bar through a friend.
At that time, Zhang Jiani was already a well-known actor, all his attention was on developing his career, and he didn't care much about feelings, so he was a little interested in buying super.
But Mai Chao was not discouraged and continued to find ways to express his intentions. Zhang Jiani went out to work and film, and bought Chao to call to express his thoughts and concerns; Zhang Jiani moved to a new house and took the initiative to help her carry daily necessities; Zhang Jiani celebrated her birthday and bought Chao to send a gift carefully prepared...
Under the expression of Chao Chao's sincere affection, Zhang Jiani's cold attitude gradually melted. The two began to date normally, buying a sports car and often driving a sports car to visit Zhang Jiani's crew. Zhang Jiani was also gradually infected by the enthusiasm of buying super and saw the mature and steady charm in him.
Gradually, their relationship became closer and closer, and eventually Mai Chao proposed to Zhang Jiani, hoping to spend the rest of his life with her. At that time, Zhang Jiani was also intoxicated with this sweet happiness and accepted the marriage proposal happily.
Third, behind the sweetness hides Zhang Jiani's unease
The relationship between Mai Chao and Zhang Jiani has progressed all the way, and soon entered the palace of marriage. But their marriage was shrouded in uncertainty from the beginning.
Mai Chao proposed to Zhang Jiani without authorization without his parents, and obtained a marriage certificate privately. His parents, especially his mother, have always been strongly opposed to their son marrying a girl in the entertainment industry, hoping to buy a super woman who can marry the right family.
Although the two obtained the legal title of husband and wife, they never held a wedding. Zhang Jiani became part of the Chao family, but could not enjoy the status it deserved. The in-laws only called her Miss Zhang, never her daughter-in-law. Zhang Jiani is always difficult to integrate in the days of buying a super home, and her mother-in-law is estranged from her, and she can only live carefully.
At first, Zhang Jiani would also express his difficulties to Buy Chao, hoping that he could discuss with his family to give him a name. But the overshoot always prevaricates for various reasons, saying that the in-laws need time to accept this fact. Zhang Jiani understood that he was also embarrassed, so he had to try to win the approval of his in-laws through his own efforts.
Despite all the obstacles, the married life of the two is still full of sweetness. Zhang Jiani temporarily put her career in second place, planning to focus on being a competent mother first. In 2016 and 2017, she gave birth to two sons. Zhang Jiani devoted herself to the role of wife and mother, and took care of the house in an orderly manner.
At this time, they also began to show the happy life of the family in public. In the interview, Mai Chao praised Zhang Jiani as the most perfect wife, and his love for her is more precious than treasure.
Zhang Jiani also posted photos of their family on social media to express their happiness. The circle of friends is full of photos of them going out and playing. The seemingly sweet and happy life is about to hide the potential crisis of marriage.
But Zhang Jiani always had doubts about this marriage in her heart. The superficial happy life cannot hide the fact that the in-laws have never fully recognized her. She worries about whether this "marriage of lies" that did not become a wedding is really solid, and whether it can withstand the test of wind and rain.
Fourth, her husband's betrayal made Zhang Jiani determined to divorce
In November 2022, what Zhang Jiani was most worried about happened. Some netizens photographed buying Chao and a strange beauty entering and leaving the hotel, and the woman left the next morning. The photo clearly shows the fact that the duo spent the night. Zhang Jiani finally became convinced that this superficially sweet marriage was just a false illusion of self-deception and existence in name only.
In the face of her husband's betrayal, Zhang Jiani was not as angry or sad as others imagined. She calmly deleted the photo with Buy Chao on her social account, and then wrote the eight words "Love it, you can put it down" on Weibo to express her attitude. Faced with the breakdown of this marriage, she chose tolerance and openness.
In fact, the signs of marriage have been planted many years ago. Her parents never fully accepted her, and their marriage was like duckweed floating in the air. Buying Chao to choose to betray is only the ultimate manifestation of the fragility of this marriage. Zhang Jiani understands that life has to go on, and she can't let herself be in pain for too long.
So, Zhang Jiani decisively began to prepare for a divorce by agreement. She hired a lawyer to discuss property division and child custody with Mechao. The two sides quickly reached a consensus that Maichao did not embarrass her again. Such a seemingly "match made in heaven" marriage broke down and came to an end.
Fifth, regain his career, Zhang Jiani rejuvenates his former brilliance
After ending this marriage, Zhang Jiani regained her passion for acting. She took on an inspirational romantic drama that shaped women in the modern workplace and threw herself into the role. On the set, Zhang Jiani showed unprecedented focus and dedication, striving to achieve the best in every detail. As soon as the show was broadcast, it received a huge response.
The image in the play is different from the characters created by Zhang Jiani in the past, she exudes mature charm while not losing youthful vitality. Some commentators believe that Zhang Jiani has regained the star of the year.
After finishing the shooting, Zhang Jiani participated in several haute couture shows and fashion weeks non-stop. On the catwalk, she looked radiant and walked calmly, and she couldn't see that she had just experienced the blow of divorce.
Zhang Jiani, who left her marriage, seems to have returned to the girl who focused on acting back then. She rediscovered her passion, and no longer pinned all her happiness on love. Zhang Jiani has become the helmsman of her own life and decided to create a wonderful life for herself.
epilogue
A successful marriage needs to be cherished by both parties. Love is easy to die, and only mutual respect and responsibility can withstand the wind and frost of the years. No matter what kind of sadness you encounter, you must bravely move forward and rediscover your passions and dreams. I believe that Zhang Jiani will continue to move forward with a more exciting life.