Title: 26-year-old woman on a blind date, 290,000 bride price when she meets, buy a car house for her brother, man: don't face
In recent years, blind dates have become a common avenue of love. Sometimes, however, the story behind a blind date can spark widespread controversy and attention. Recently, a story titled "26-year-old woman on a blind date, meeting for 290,000 bride price, buying a car house for her brother, man: no face" has sparked heated discussions on the Internet.
The 26-year-old woman, whom we call Xiaoli, is an ordinary working woman. Her life seems ordinary, but a blind date experience caused quite a few waves.
Xiaoli's blind date is a young man named Xiaoming, and the two met through family introductions. When they first met, Xiaoli did not expect much from Xiaoming, but just hoped to find a suitable partner through blind dates. However, to her surprise, Xiaoming made a shocking demand when they first met - asking Xiaoli's family to pay a bride price of 290,000 yuan.
This amount is undoubtedly a huge expense for Xiaoli's family. Xiaoli's family is not wealthy, and her family may need to raise funds for a while to pay the bride price. What is even more infuriating is that Xiao Ming's demand for this bride price is not only to marry Xiao Li, but also to include a car and a house, and these valuable gifts are all for Xiao Ming's younger brother.
When Xiaoli heard this request, she was very shocked and angry. She felt it was unreasonable and immoral and should not turn the marriage into a transaction. She said she was willing to establish an equal partnership with Bob, but she was not willing to bear such financial pressure because of her marriage. She firmly refused Bob's request and decided to continue looking for a suitable partner.
The story sparked widespread discussion on social media. Many people supported Xiaoli's decision and thought she was right. They believe that marriage should be based on mutual respect and equality, and should not be a tool for money transactions. Some also criticized Xiaoming's behavior, arguing that he was not only shameless, but also irresponsible to Xiaoli and her family.
However, there are also some people who question Xiaoli. They believe that although Xiaoming's requirements may be too harsh, Xiaoli should also take into account the other party's family background and cultural differences. In some places, the bride price is a traditional practice, and although modern society is gradually changing this concept, there are still some people who adhere to the tradition. These people believe that whether Xiaoli should accept Xiaoming's request should take into account various factors, including each other's feelings and family values.
In any case, the discussion sparked by this story highlights some important issues in blind dates and marriages. Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also involves the collision of family, culture and values. In the face of similar situations, both parties need to maintain communication and understanding and find a suitable compromise. Ultimately, marriage should be based on love and respect, not a transaction of money and benefits. This story also reminds us that in blind dates and marriages, it is very important to stand up for your principles and dignity, and not compromise in order to meet each other's requirements.