Some time ago, a very unexpected incident occurred in Zigong, Sichuan. A 23-year-old woman entered the elevator with a large dog without a bra, causing a series of controversies and conflicts. This small contradiction eventually developed into an unimaginable situation.
In the process of the matter being wildly spread on the Internet, shocking news came out: the woman actually wrote a suicide note, swallowed sleeping pills in the police station, and attempted suicide! Fortunately, she was taken to the hospital in time for rescue and eventually escaped from life-threatening conditions.
The development of this incident is strange. At first, it was only because he didn't wear a bra and carried a big dog into the elevator, which caused dissatisfaction and controversy among others. Perhaps because of the power of the network, the whole incident spread unknowingly and became a topic of great concern. What was originally just a choice of individual behavior has been amplified into the focus of public opinion.
The young woman's friend spoke up on September 7, revealing even more startling news. She actually wrote a suicide note and decided to end her life in the police station. This is undoubtedly shocking and heartbreaking. How much pressure and torture did she have to suffer to make such a desperate choice?
Cause of the incident
It happened at 6:30 p.m. on August 26, when there was a couple inside the elevator. Unexpectedly, when Ms. Yu was traveling in the elevator with her dog, the dog's tail accidentally swept the leg of another passenger, causing some unpleasantness. The other party angrily scolded her dog, and Ms. Yu responded with the same tone in order to protect her pet and face. As a result, the situation became more and more intense, and eventually turned into a dogfight.
However, what is even more incredible is that because Ms. Yu's clothes are designed without shoulders, this fight actually caused her chest to be exposed in front of everyone. Embarrassed and ashamed, she immediately called the police and hoped that the other party would be severely punished and justice would be done for her dignity and rights. However, unexpectedly, the police sentenced the two sides to beat each other and offered to mediate between the two parties.
In other words, as long as Ms. Yu agrees to mediate, both parties will have the opportunity to resolve the incident through negotiation.
However, Ms. Yu's attitude at that time was hesitant. She said the fight could be resolved through mediation, but she could not forgive her for having her clothes torn. She believes that the matter is very serious, and the couple should bear the corresponding legal responsibility for it.
However, the couple did not even express the sincerity of apologizing, only justifying that it was unintentional, and said that the surveillance video did not capture the scene.
This made Ms. Yu very angry, and she decided to post the incident on the Internet, hoping to get justice for herself through the support of netizens.
However, she never imagined that even if this incident was hyped and spread, it would be useless.
This change is sad. What began as an unintentional dispute turned into a series of shocking events. Especially what happened to Ms. Yu, whether at the scene or on the Internet, she was under great mental pressure and pain. The justice and justice she hoped for seemed so distant in the process.
Why what seems like a small thing is getting worse
Although we sympathize with Ms. Na Ying's experience, many people cannot accept her leading a large dog without a muzzle into the elevator. So when she asked for help online, she found that many people didn't support her.
As you can see from the video, the couple stood in the elevator first, and the man kept looking down at his phone. When the elevator door opened, Ms. Na Ying walked into the elevator holding a pile of toilet paper, she stood near the elevator door, and once she entered the elevator, she did not pay special attention to her dog, nor did she deliberately pull the rope to prevent the dog from entering.
There are indeed many people who cannot accept the act of entering the elevator with a big dog. If it's a puppy, many people probably won't be scared. But if it is a dog with a large body and a large mouth, sharp teeth, and a tongue sticking out, people will definitely be scared.
If the person who raises a big dog enters the elevator later, he should take the initiative to ask: "Do you mind if I bring the dog in?" If you mind, I can wait for the next shift. If Ms. Na Ying had done this, the latter contradiction might not have happened. Ms. Na Ying's dog ran inside as soon as he entered the elevator, and his tail rubbed against the female owner.
The landlady scolded the dog at the time, which is really not good. Is it necessary to scold a dog just because it was rubbed by the tail? Scolding the dog in front of the dog owner, isn't this a provocation? The two ladies began to argue, which eventually developed into a physical altercation. According to Ms. Na Ying's description, it was the other party who pushed her first before she grabbed the other party's hair.
But from a legal point of view, the action of "pushing" does not necessarily count as hitting someone. However, Ms. Na Ying's behavior of grabbing the other person's hair was more serious. Grabbing the hair will be more painful. In this incident, Ms. Na Ying was not very concerned about being beaten, because she also bit the man's arm.
All she cared about was that her clothes had been ripped off because she wasn't wearing a bra, only a chest patch. However, after the landlady ripped off her clothes, she was seen by the female owner's husband, which made her feel insulted.
However, on this issue, she also pulled other people's hair, so the other party also naturally chose to pull her clothes. When both sides fight, they do not take into account demeanor and image, who would think so much? Moreover, the other party did not know that she was not wearing a bra! The act of tearing off clothes is indeed wrong, but the other party does not realize that her clothes are so thin that they can be easily ripped off.
Moreover, neither side of the dispute realized that their actions would have such consequences. They did not expect that the whole incident would expand so much, nor did they realize that it would cause so much harm to themselves and the other party. Both sides are caught in an emotional vortex and unable to calmly analyze and solve problems.
For Ms. Na Ying, she is more concerned about her clothes being ripped off, so she hopes that the couple will apologize to her and hope that the other party will bear the corresponding legal responsibility. If she hadn't called the police, perhaps the two sides would have been identified by the police as fighting each other, and there would have been no more follow-up.
At first, when she uploaded the video online, the police asked her to remove it, which she felt was unfair treatment of her and made accusations online.
But in reality, the police were protecting her. This incident will not change the outcome of the police because of her voice. There is a legal basis for the results of the police process. Ms. Na Ying is already 23 years old, which should have been a job.
However, she may not have the heart to work during this time. She has been haunted since the incident. After August 26, she went to the hospital for a check-up because she felt so dizzy that she even fainted in the hospital and was eventually hospitalized.
However, the couple never apologized to her and did not take legal responsibility for ripping off her clothes. During this time, she has been talking about her experiences online and replying to netizens' messages.
Recently, due to the great pain, she made an attempt to write a suicide note and take sleeping pills to commit suicide. However, she did not expect that suicide by taking sleeping pills would only end up causing more pain to her parents. Her actions were indeed very stupid.
Suicide by taking sleeping pills and being rushed to the hospital only deepened her family's pain. We hope that she will re-examine her actions and find better ways to solve problems, after all, life is precious.
summary
To sum up, the incident involved a woman entering the elevator with a large dog, sparking a conflict with another female owner. A physical altercation ensued between the two sides, which led to a series of subsequent incidents.
As can be seen from the video, the lady did not pay special attention to controlling the dog's movements when she entered the elevator with the big dog, which worried and scared many people. When an argument arises, both parties engage in inappropriate behavior, such as pushing and grabbing each other's hair. The altercation caused the woman's clothes to be ripped off, causing her a sense of distress and humiliation.
In this case, neither side realized that their actions would have such serious consequences. The woman wanted an apology and legal responsibility, but this did not materialize. She confided in her story online and eventually made a worrying suicide attempt.
This incident reminds us to remain calm and rational in social interactions and to avoid falling into emotional spirals. For dog owners, respect the feelings of others and properly control their pet behavior. For others, try to be as tolerant and understanding as possible, while avoiding violent behavior.
The most important thing is that no matter what dilemma we encounter, we should seek the right solution, not solve it with self-harm, and each of us does not live in the world just for ourselves!