Experts criticize the "pick-up tide", parents pick up will ruin children, netizens are too relieved Experts criticize parents' pick-up behavior may have a negative impact on children, and this view has triggered anger and opposition from netizens.
Parents picking up and dropping off their children has become a common phenomenon in modern society. However, some experts have questioned and criticized this phenomenon. They believe that parents overly picking up and dropping off their children may deprive them of opportunities to build independence and self-management skills.
Experts point out that when parents are overly accommodating to their children's needs, overprotecting their safety does not help them grow into independent and confident people. Conversely, this behavior may impair the child's autonomy and problem-solving skills. During the pick-up process, children may rely on their parents and cannot handle simple daily tasks such as transportation selection, route planning and time management.
Experts further pointed out that parental pick-up and drop-off not only has a negative impact on the child's personal development, but also has a series of adverse effects on society. As parent pick-ups increase, so do traffic jams, road mess, and safety issues. These problems not only burden cities, but also have a negative impact on children's quality of life.
However, this view has caused anger and opposition from some netizens. They believe that experts are unfair criticism of parents by pointing fingers at their pick-up and drop-off behavior. Netizens insisted that the parent pick-up was out of consideration for the safety and care of the child, not a wrong behavior.
They pointed out that in modern society, security issues cannot be ignored. Many parents choose to pick up and drop off their children out of protection for their physical and mental health. In addition, parent transfers can also provide an opportunity to establish a closer parent-child relationship between parents and children.
Despite the objections of netizens to the experts' views, this debate still exists. We must recognize that the impact of parental pick-up behavior is complex and multifaceted. While keeping children safe, we should also encourage the development of children's independence and autonomy to cultivate them to become confident and independent people.
Therefore, a balance should be sought when it comes to picking up and dropping off children. Parents can gradually guide their children to learn independent thinking and problem-solving skills while providing the necessary security. In addition, social and city managers should also strengthen transportation planning and safety measures to reduce the negative impact of parental pick-up.
In short, the controversy between parents picking up and dropping off their children is how to strike a balance between caring and independent development. Only by understanding the legitimacy of both parties' views can we promote the development of more comprehensive and effective solutions.