Text|Happy Baby
Gen-la Hongyi said: "No matter what life is, you don't have to talk to your parents; Whether right or wrong with your partner; Regardless of fame and fortune with nobles; Regardless of the truth with villains; Regardless of face with friends; Regardless of wealth with relatives; With the old man whether he wins or loses; Regardless of the leadership; Regardless of gains and losses with oneself; To do this is to be born again. ”
It all boils down to four words: silence is golden. That's why it takes two years to learn to speak and a lifetime to learn to "shut up".
Because the word "on" is next to the word, and if there is no word, it is dumb, and if there is a word, it is not like it, and it is a fuss.
None of these nine theories are difficult to achieve, but experience and time will make you slowly enlighten from them.
The last one is too difficult, many people live in the shackles and torture of themselves, to others to themselves, to eat others.
What we can do is to keep our own sobriety at all times, no matter how complicated life is.
We don't have to shine, but don't stop shining and see the way ahead.
No matter which path people take in this life, they will end up in the same place. Simply live, don't understand too much, very tired.
In fact, seeking desirelessness is also a kind of seeking, but also a life attitude and way of life.
Thinking of the national moral model "old aunt" Gong Quanzhen, the grandmother once said that she did not want to consider herself the "general's wife", she was helpful, she has always been sponsoring poor students, but rarely cares about her children.
She adheres to the concept of educating her children, which is "one generation to another, and they have the hands to be self-reliant." ”
The thinking of the older generation will never go out of style, it's just that they are not good at words, belong to the action school, and speak with strength.
No matter what era, self-reliance and self-improvement are not wrong, people just have to rely on themselves, and no matter how much their family gives, they are not as good as themselves.
In addition to eating our own three meals a day and living our own spring, summer, autumn and winter, we don't have to care too much, and our lives are our own, and have nothing to do with others.
Most people you meet in your life will pass by in a way that fades away, and the people who really stay and nourish you are a few, and they can do and cherish it.
What we can do is to slowly open up our own "peach blossom source" between our own world and earth, and enjoy the quiet life of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence and leisurely seeing the South Mountain" like a poet.
You know, the fate of a person's life, it is too difficult to truly change, the key is to rely on their own strong mind and execution.
Either cultivate the mentality, thoughts, morality and abilities that match what you want; Or, as Gen-la Koichi said, let go of everything and live freely.