Text|Happy Baby
Mr. Yang Di said: "The appearance that a woman should have is very quiet, nine points of temperament, eight points of assets, seven points of reality, three points of posture, two points of confusion, and one point of self-knowledge." No matter where you are or where you fall in, you must take root downward, blossom upward, live up to life, and live up to yourself. ”
It is worthy of Mr. Yang Di, people are like this, no matter what the situation, do not live up to life, let alone yourself.
I like Mr. Yang Di very much, she lives transparently and whitely, died at the age of 105, shows the appearance of a woman to the fullest, and is a role model for the majority of women to learn.
I like that here is very quiet, that is the inner certainty and peace, lively people, the heart can also be very stable and not impetuous.
Perhaps, we should be a three-independent woman, not only spiritually independent, financially independent, but also have our own independent space.
At any time, we can allow ourselves to be our true selves, we can vent our emotions for a short time, but don't let ourselves fall into long-term unconsciousness.
No matter what you encounter at the moment, what kind of situation, no matter how you collapse, you must learn to heal yourself after alleviating.
This reminds me of Zhao Liying, who played Minglan in "Do You Know", from being protected to self-protection. It is not only a learning process, but also a metamorphosis of self-healing.
Some people think that the most suitable for Minglan in the play is Gu Tingye, no matter how beautiful the scene with the little father-in-law is, he can't bear the chicken and dog fragments after marriage.
Plus the little father-in-law is not so strong to protect her, and he can't think about everything for Ming Lan, although Gu Tingye had two children in the outer room before, but he really protected Ming Lan after marriage.
There is also that Lang Zhong, who is always hesitant to do things, maybe women feel that they can't center on Ming Lan, and they are not a good match.
A normal, smart and sober woman may not choose Gu Tingye, after all, considering that he had an unmarried lover in front of him, gave birth to two children, and even had a lover in the restaurant, it was really not the best choice.
But this is the case inside and outside the play, how can there be such a completely suitable and perfect person? The important thing is to live a thorough life.
Just like Zhao Liying, no matter in and out of the play, she has learned a lot of wisdom from Minglan and used it to protect herself in life, whether it is marriage or career.
What I admire her the most is that she never stays in a comfort zone, ancient costume, Republic of China, modern, fairy tale, each of her roles spans a lot, but each of them plays very well, and her role as Ming Lan has won the love of the majority of women.
In fact, women should be like Yang Wei and Minglan , as long as they are not love brains and have enough sober reason, but if they are assertive, they can be the master, responsible for themselves, and it is difficult to live badly.
Because the wisdom you have is enough to have the possibility of being favored, there is indeed none, and you also have the capital to spoil yourself.