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It is often said: "Misfortune is not a one-way street." ”
When bad luck strikes, trouble always ensues. You may have just recovered, but suddenly you are experiencing financial difficulties, and poverty is quietly descending, so that you have to deal with the hardships of "poverty and illness" at the same time.
Disasters are always coming like a flood, and once they break the levees, they will constantly hit you. Closing this loophole is not an easy task.
Generally speaking, after the age of 50, life often encounters a series of difficult tests, making the already difficult life more difficult.
After surviving these difficulties, you may usher in good luck; However, if these difficulties are not overcome, life may become worse or even slumped.
One of life's greatest disasters often strikes around the age of 55, and these four difficulties make life difficult.
First, the probability of suffering from serious diseases has increased greatly.
Some people have not had a serious illness for many years, but at the age of 55, they suddenly fall seriously ill and even have to be hospitalized for treatment, and life and death are on the line. This situation is doubly frightening.
Some people's originally stable lives are interrupted by illness around the age of 55, and not only can they not maintain a stable life, but they may even lose hope in life for a while.
Why is it easy to get sick around the age of 55? This is because between the ages of 45 and 55 of life is usually the most difficult decade. At the same time, from the age of 45, the human body gradually declines.
When the body goes downhill to a certain extent, the problem is exposed. If the problem is not big, maybe it can get through this. But if the problem is serious, it is equivalent to a life-and-death fight. Everything depends on the arrangement of fate.
For ordinary people, we can only exercise more when we are healthy, and everything else needs to go with the flow.
Second, unexpected misfortune has crept in.
The famous writer Shen Congwen once said: "Everything seems to be accidental, but in fact it is fate." ”
No matter how random the accidental event may seem, it actually carries some kind of fate. This includes sudden good luck or misfortune. These seem to have been doomed for a long time.
In the case of misfortune, for example, it comes and goes without a trace, and cannot be predicted in advance. Some people walk safely on the road, while others get into car accidents in an instant.
Although traffic rules were observed, the negligence of others turned into a tragedy. This is the embodiment of a small event in life, but someone will encounter it eventually.
Those who encounter misfortune may have reached the end of their lives, or they may face worse circumstances. However, a very small number of people may get away with it, but this is not common.
After the age of 55, you still need to be careful when going out, because when you are unlucky, even the most inconspicuous things can become dangerous.
Third, the number of avengers is increasing.
When we are young, it is difficult to tell the difference between a debt collector and a benefactor, and we often think that we are in contact with good people and lack the ability to read people.
At a certain age, experiencing the devastation of life, we begin to understand human nature and understand how terrible people who come to us to "collect debts" are.
Some people have a good life and decent careers before the age of 50. However, after the age of 50, he was suddenly surrounded by many enemies, not only his livelihood was in trouble, but his life became difficult.
For example, children raised over the years turned out to be losers and debt-ridden; Exes who used to love each other suddenly appear and are stalked; Relatives and friends also stress us for various reasons ...
In the chaos of the world, the love and hate of interpersonal relationships are the most complicated. But without these experiences, life can become boring. Only cause and effect are good and evil and the truth of the world.
For those who come to seek revenge, we don't need to be too nervous, we don't have to hide, we just have to take it in stride. Perhaps, an indifferent attitude can solve the problem.
Family strife affects the whole family.
For the average family, internal strife is the deadliest problem.
All impregnable fortresses are not breached from the outside, but disintegrated from the inside. Problems within the family are often the result of "nest fighting".
Disputes within the family can lead to unnecessary internal friction, which directly affects the fortunes of the family and the individual. As the saying goes, "everything prosperes at home", and "the family is decaying and quarrelling" reflects the seriousness of the problem.
From ancient times to the present, no family has been happy for a long time because of infighting. Infighting eventually leads to the decline of the family. In the end, it is the elderly and elders in the family who suffer the most.
People over fifty expect a harmonious and warm family. However, fate seems to have complicated internal problems instead of letting us go. If it continues, the whole family will suffer.
Only after the "Qi family" can we truly "enjoy the blessing". The best way to avoid bad luck is to unite with your family and face problems together.
Written by Serena Nightingale;
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