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"It is said that Yang Mi cursed 540 million yuan for custody, and Liu Kaiwei vowed to keep his daughter in Hong Kong." Sven doesn't even need to look for news sources. Just looking at this headline, the Hong Kong media's consistent love of doing things is about to burst out of the screen.
This is the news of August 8. According to local media in Hong Kong, Yang Mi will spend 540 million yuan (about 500 million yuan) to compete with her ex-husband Liu Kaiwei for the custody of her daughter. Go back to Beijing to study.
Hong Kong media believe that "Yang Mi's desire to fight for custody has traces", and the evidence is that she has often traveled to Hong Kong recently. In March this year, when Hong Kong had just cleared customs, Yang Mi was photographed secretly visiting Hong Kong. The company's Weibo IP she posted on Children's Day is based in Hong Kong, and the background of Yang Mi's daily photos released by the studio last month is also in Hong Kong.
Some media photographed her stuffing gifts into a suitcase and taking her parents to Hong Kong to visit her daughter. Some Hong Kong netizens also posted that they once met Yang Mi and his daughter for dinner at a restaurant in Central.
In the eyes of the Hong Kong media, Yang Mi uncharacteristically revealed his itinerary in Hong Kong. During this period, she frequently visited her daughter in Hong Kong, laying the groundwork for the battle for custody. There are even rumors that Yang Mi wanted to take his daughter back to the mainland to live as early as 4 years ago, but had no choice but to suspend the plan due to the epidemic. Now she has decided to speed up the "women's competition".
According to Hong Kong media speculation, the reason why Yang Mi decided to fight for the custody of his daughter was that Liu Kaiwei had a new boyfriend. There were rumors that he wanted to remarry and marry Li Xiaofeng. Although it is rumored that Xiao Nuomi and Li Xiaofeng get along well, Yang Mi still feels that it is better for her daughter to be taken care of by her biological mother than by her "stepmother".
Just in case everyone doesn't care about Liu Kaiwei's emotional status, here is some relevant information about Li Xiaofeng. She was originally the host of Anhui Satellite TV and later became an actress. The more excellent works include Hao Shuwen in "Fang Hua" and Ren Meimei in "The Twenty-Eight Laws of Love".
One of the funny things that people like to see is that Li Xiaofeng interviewed Liu Kaiwei when he was the host, and he often explored the love points of Liu Kaiwei and Yang Mi in the program. In "The Twenty-Eight Laws of Love", Yang Mi plays the heroine of an elite lawyer. Ren Meimei is her sister-in-law and her best friend. The heroine not only helped her catch the adulterer, but also helped her fight a divorce lawsuit.
After Liu Kaiwei and Li Xiaofeng's relationship was exposed, it was once on the hot search. In addition to being mistaken by the media for a game like an oolong at the beginning, there are also two parties who are keen to show affection through the "My Overlord Neighbor" series of short videos. Netizens interpreted it as a down-to-earth joke mixed with the sense of déjà vu of old Mary Sue and Cork's literary middle-aged idol drama. Netizens commented that the two showed affection as "sticky and down-to-earth and indulgent, greasy but irresistible", friends who are curious about this party can poke → [Li Xiaofeng Liu Kaiwei, they are almost 100 years old, middle-aged bullies always like to talk about two tons of oil? ] 】Create your own class~
At that time, Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei had a high-profile relationship. Although few netizens remarry after their first marriage, Liu Dan is very happy with her son's new girlfriend. Even when their relationship was first exposed, the old man expressed that he was happy for his son, and said that if Xiao Nuomi knew that his father had a girlfriend, he would not be angry, but happy.
At the beginning of the year, Li Xiaofeng made a video call to Liu Dan to greet the New Year. The old man praised her again, saying that she was a cheerful person, sweet and beautiful, very polite, and not pretentious at all. He also said that his son is not young and knows how to read people. also revealed that Xiao Nuomi chatted very happily with the other party on the phone, and probably liked her very much.
This comment is often sprayed as "good tea" by netizens, thinking that the old man is complaining, alluding to his former daughter-in-law Yang Mi, "Your understanding of regret seems to be different from our understanding of regret", "There is enough yin and yang", "Passing by, I think it is ugly to eat", "It's not Yang Mi's fans who are speechless", "I can only say that Yang Mi's divorce is too right"...
In March this year, some media in Hong Kong announced that Li Xiaofeng was two months pregnant. When the media asked Liu Dan, his answer was: "I've heard of it, but I don't know, let's look forward to the good news!" ”。 Although Li Xiaofeng wore a dress when she attended the event in May and broke the rumors of pregnancy with a flat abdomen, it can be seen that the old man likes her as "his son's new girlfriend".
In addition to the attitude of the elderly, Liu Kaiwei also revealed that he would not give up custody. The proof is that in July, he took Xiao Nuomi on a trip to Canada. Hong Kong media broke the news that he was suspected of changing his daughter's nationality to prevent his ex-wife Yang Mi from competing. Daughter custody.
However, some insiders said that Xiao Nuomi will continue to live and study in Hong Kong with his father and grandparents in the future, which means that Yang Mi "failed" to compete for his daughter, and Liu Kaiwei has no plans to get married at present. At present, he has no intention of remarrying Li Xiaofeng.
Melons are actually such melons. If you want to say whether Yang Mi really plans to fight for the custody of his daughter, he really wants to spend 500 million for this, whether Liu Kaiwei plans to remarry, whether Xiao Nuomi wants to be with his father or his mother in the future, if Yang Mi really wants custody... After all, we are not parties, and no one can judge their thoughts.
The Hong Kong media has always been happy to let things happen. They publish a lot of fake news that feels sensational. Even real news is often exaggerated. To put it mildly, I don't even think Yang Mi would go to court with Liu Kaiwei to fight for custody of the child.
When they first divorced, they said they would raise their daughter together, and they did so for many years. According to netizens, the relationship between the child and both parents is also good. Why is it necessary to argue? The second is Xiao Nuomi, who is 9 years old this year. She has her own ideas and judgments. A parent who truly loves their children will not let their long-remembered daughter see them in tears.
Yang Mi, as a well-known decent person in the entertainment industry, also had a distant relationship with his good sisters, divorced Liu Kaiwei at that time, and recently terminated his contract with the company. Her emotional intelligence, wealth, and experience are enough to support her in making the most appropriate decision. In the tender memory film, she ended many relationships for herself, but without exception, they were all beautiful reunions.
So I think instead of digging into the truth of the news, what is more worthy of appreciation is the reaction of netizens. Some people are very sensitive to the figure of 540 million, and immediately think "why does she have so much money as an actress" and "why spend 540 million to fight for custody?" "What is the probability?"
Sven learned that some lawyers analyzed that changing custody will actually bring a certain cost, but if it really costs 540 million yuan to change custody, then it is very likely that it is not just a basic fee. Yang Mi, as a high-income star actor, may be to show that he has the ability and premise to raise children.
A significant portion of this huge sum may be paid directly or indirectly to Liu Kaiwei as one of the conditions for the custody of the child in exchange.
Moreover, changing custody is by no means an easy task, and many factors need to be considered, including whether the child himself is willing to continue living with his father, Xiao Nuomi, and as a girl, there will be other relationships when he grows up. With opposite-sex fathers and possibly "stepmothers". "Living together still contributes to the healthy development of children.
In addition to these netizens who are particularly sensitive to numbers, most people's attention is still on Yang Mi. Some people question, since she wants custody, why didn't she fight for it when she divorced? She had to wait until the child was old enough to take care of her before she went for it. Isn't it because she chose her career between her career and her daughter?
In fact, in the cultural environment familiar to mainland netizens, parents divorced when their children were very young. If both parties love the child and both want custody, the financial situation of the parents is equal and the custody of the child is usually given to the mother. If the financial situation of the parties is very different, often the better party will be granted custody.
Under such understanding, netizens will think that "the child was still young at that time, but if she was sure to give it to her, it would not be surprising that she chose to give up." This is also an important reason why many people attack Yang Mi for "not being a good mother" and "not loving her daughter enough".
However, according to netizen popular science, Xiao Nuomi was born in Hong Kong and has a Hong Kong household registration. Divorce regulations there are different from those on the mainland. If the child is more than two years old when the parents divorce, the mother actually has no priority, because the grandparents have more children, and assigning the child to Yang Mi will cause her life and growth environment to change, so the man has an advantage.
Netizens who spoke for Yang Mi believed that the reason why the child followed his father was because at the time of divorce, Yang Mi either thought it was better for her to continue living in Hong Kong, so she compromised and did not fight for custody. Either she had fought for it, but she couldn't, so she took a step back and became "co-parenting."
Some people also have a similar attitude to the Hong Kong media, believing that the Liu family is unwilling to give up the custody of their daughter because Yang Mi is not a good mother at all. She has always been a famous "desperate third lady" in the domestic entertainment industry. The work is so intense that the time and energy that can be allocated to my daughter is limited. Marriage is like that. After divorce, the agreed "co-parents" are mostly grandparents. Bring the kids.
The evidence they presented was that although Yang Mi said that she could reduce her work for the sake of her family, she actually returned three months after giving birth, fearing that the public would forget her. 365 days a year, Xiao Nuomi does not see her mother most of the time. During the epidemic, due to the closure of customs, the mother and daughter have not been reunited for three years.
Well, even if there are mothers in the world who don't love children so much, how can we, as outsiders, accuse a female star of "not being a good mother" because we have eaten a few incomplete melons? How do you say "don't love your children"?
Don't look at the entertainment industry, let's say that we are all ordinary people. What working woman doesn't need to go back to work after giving birth and going to jail to earn money to support her family? When the child was young, the parents worked outside for a year, and the elderly in the family helped take care of the child, and they could not see each other often throughout the year. Don't they love their children?
When the children grow up, they also go to the big cities to wander and work hard, and only go home to reunite with their parents during the New Year holidays. Are our parents not loving enough? Not to mention that Xiao Nuomi also participated in the Hong Kong customs closure during the epidemic. Even if we and our parents are in the mainland, there must be many people who have not been able to reunite for years because of the epidemic, right?
I confess that friendship is very important in any kind of relationship and is one of the proofs of love. But when we look at other people's relationships, we don't get the whole picture, we don't comment. First of all, we don't know if Yang Mi has met the children and how many times. Secondly, for a strong woman like her, spending so much time with her does not mean not loving.
Yang Mi is an 85-little flower who never lacks topics and traffic. Their group of female stars are often ridiculed for "face in the countryside", and netizens often attack her for having a "girly" side instead of a "good mother". But in fact, Yang Mi chose to get married during the rising period of his career and chose to give birth to Xiao Nuomi when he was the most popular. Many of the selected itineraries did not miss the opportunity to visit their daughters in Hong Kong.
She knows the Internet so well, loves to play emojis, and is often on the hot search, doesn't she know that making herself a "good mother" can effectively reverse her reputation? But Yang Mi did not show off her daughter, show her mother's love, and create an image of a "good mother" for herself, but chose to protect Xiao Nuomi well. She would rather lose this exposure than let her child be disturbed by the flash.
For a top female star like Yang Mi, the latter is doubly embarrassed and ungrateful, but she still chooses to do so, isn't it to prove that she loves her children very much and is willing to protect her? Netizens think that she values her career and gives up following her children. How do you know if she wants to give her child a healthy childhood, and even if she is misunderstood, she will not take the bonus?
Sven found this ironic. According to the standard that some netizens insist that "Yang Mi does not love Xiao Nuomi", it seems that her status as a strong woman and her identity as a good mother cannot coexist. Due to the expiration of her career schedule, she does not have much time with her children, but this does not change the fact that she loves her children, but netizens will still stick to her schedule and say: "Look, she is really not a good child." "Mom."
So what about female celebrities who choose to temporarily return to their families and spend a lot of time with their children? Unless they completely return to the family, no longer return to filming, at most only participate in some parent-child variants, otherwise people like Tang Yan and Liu Shishi who have a big decrease in the production of children because of childbirth, netizens will not say that they are all "good mothers", but will only complain that they "have no ambition".
Let's take a look at the N ways that married celebrities with children are scolded: if the body recovers slowly, it means that they are not dedicated enough, and if the body recovers too quickly, it will be questioned as a surrogate mother. If you spend too much time with your baby, you will be scolded for not being ambitious, and if you spend too little time with your baby, you will be said that you are not a good mother. People who often dry babies are sprayed with children as bottomless programs, and people who deliberately weaken the child's sense of existence are also considered to love children enough.
Female celebrities have babysitters to share the pressure of childcare and housework, and fans wait for them to return after giving birth. Achieving "family and career balance" remains difficult. Life is already good, not to mention us ordinary women. Too many mothers around me who have given birth say that it is impossible to balance family and career, and that they can only choose one or the other in the short term.
It may be better to have parents help with their children, but for normal people, there is so much time and energy in total. If it is assigned to the workplace, it is inevitable to ignore the child, and if it is assigned to the child, it will lose the competitiveness of the workplace. We ourselves know that we can't have both, so why ask female stars to participate in the decathlon? Let's take a step back and say, even if there is such a perfect superfemale star, what good is it for the average woman? With such perfect "model women" in front of us, we ordinary people will only be forced to become introverts and suffer more questions about "why can they and why can't you".
It's not that I want to speak for Yang Mi, I just want more people to understand that it's normal for a mother to have a bad balance between career and family. After all, a family is not just made up of mothers. When we question a mother "not a good mother," think about why the father in the family is invisible.
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