It is said that appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, and finally character. So appearance is very important for people. In ancient times, some people began to study physiognomy, summarizing the auspicious nature of human physiognomy into concise and comprehensive statements and passing it down. For example: "A man looks at his nose and mouth, and he will be rich and prosperous in his life."
The ancients also paid great attention to appearance when they married. Therefore, there is also a saying about the taboo of the face, that is: "Marry a woman, do not marry a pout; Marry a woman, not a pout; Marry a woman, do not marry a woman".
Do not marry a living wife
The phrase "don't marry a woman with a big mouth" means that the ancients should not marry a woman with a big mouth. In general, women only pout when they complain, are upset, or angry. Therefore, "turning the mouth" was the embodiment of negative emotions in the eyes of the ancients. If a woman is born with a pout, it means that the woman's personality loves to complain, lacks patience, and has a lot of negative emotions.
Gu Youyun: "Yao Ming", so the ancients paid more attention to the gentle and virtuous character of women. Only such a woman can take care of her husband and children at home, take care of family affairs, and let the man be carefree outside and can work hard.
If you marry a woman who "opens her mouth" and goes home, there will be frequent complaints in life, and there will be many negative emotions, which will make the family uneasy, and the husband will not be able to work at ease, and it will also affect the happiness of the husband. So there is a taboo of "not marrying a woman with a cute mouth".
Take Han, don't take Sky Guard
"Marry a man, not marry the Heavenly Court", "Heavenly Court" refers to the forehead, "Heavenly Court Man" means good-looking and blessed, and "Heavenly Court Foundation" refers to being firmly clouded. Earth on the forehead. The ancients believed that a man with a "fortress of heaven" would have many problems, and life would also have problems.
In the past, men were the breadwinners of the family. When a woman is married, she must rely on her husband, for better or worse. Both parents hope that their daughters will marry into a good family and will not suffer much in the future. If she marries a man with a "heavenly base", she will have a lot of problems and things will not get better. Not only will he not be able to let his wife live a good life, but he may even pass on these troubles and sorrows to his wife. So there is a saying: "Marry a man, do not marry Tianwei".
From this point of view, ancient marriage is still too delicate. After all, look at appearance first, respect talent, and finally respect character. If you want to understand a person thoroughly, appearance is only the beginning, and you can't judge whether a person is good or bad just by looking at appearance. Whether to marry or not, is obviously one-sided.
In modern society, everyone can choose their own partner according to appearance, personality, family background, etc., and everyone believes that fate is in their own hands rather than relying on appearance. But physiognomy is not just feudal superstition. After all, this is a culture that has been passed down from China for thousands of years. Simply put, this culture is not a science, but an experience, the sum of past results.
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