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Zou Wei has been divorced for 18 years, and he would rather give up all his property than insist on divorcing Yan Ni.
Now, 18 years later, we can't help but ask, does he regret it?
Life choices are often deliberate, especially for an 18-year marriage.
Why did Zou Wei make such a decision at that time?
Did he regret it so much?
Recalling the original scene, Yan Ni and Zou Wei were still a happy couple.
However, over time, the contradictions between the two have long been revealed.
Issues such as housework, children's education, and career development have gradually become points of contradiction that cannot be coordinated between them.
Yan Ni is a woman with a strong career spirit, she hopes to make a success in the workplace, while Zou Wei values family harmony and stability.
He longs to build a warm home with Yan Ni, rather than just chasing success. This difference makes both sides disgusted with each other and unable to understand and support each other.
However, at the crossroads of marriage, Zou Wei made a surprising choice.
He resolutely decided to divorce Yan Ni, and preferred to abandon all his property and only hope to start over.
At that time, his vision was often limited, and perhaps Zou Wei thought that divorce would be the only way to solve the problem.
At this time, we can't help but ask, 18 years later, is Zou Wei still satisfied with this decision?
18 years, turning one person into another, but also turning an old relationship into dust.
Zou Wei finally realized that divorce is not the best way to solve the problem.
In the days of his single life, he gradually understood his mistakes.
He found that love is not only about sparks and passion, but requires mutual care, support and tolerance on both sides.
He began to think that if he had been more mature and rational in the face, maybe the situation of marriage would have been completely different.
In the 18 years since his divorce, Zou Wei has experienced many things and taken many detours.
He found peace and relief in his single life, but also gradually felt empty and lonely inside.
He began to wonder if his choice was worth it. He began to think that if he could face difficulties and problems with Yan Ni at the beginning, maybe their marriage would be stronger and more durable.
Looking back on the past, through the baptism of time, Zou Wei finally understood a truth: there is no regret medicine in life.
The 18-year divorce cost him dearly. Although he did not regret his decision to divorce, he deeply felt his original naivety and impulsiveness.
He learned to cherish the people in front of him, respect the differences between each other, and understand the preciousness of marriage.
To sum up, Zou Wei understood the true meaning of love after 18 years of divorce, regretted his original decision, and paid the price.
Every choice in life is risky, and divorce is just a way to solve a problem, or it can be the beginning of creating a new problem.
Therefore, we should be thoughtful and weigh the pros and cons before making a decision to avoid regret in the future.
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