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"My wife is a very productive person."
This is Chen Haoming's evaluation of Lisa Jiang on the show.
In Chen Haoming's concept, his wife Jiang Lisa does not need to do anything except give birth.
Without the stress and troubles brought by work, you can still have food and clothing, how happy.
But is that really the case?
As we all know, Lisa Jiang married Chen Haomin for five years and had four children.
In these five years, Lisa Jiang has not been in a single confinement.
Every time I give birth, I have to serve the family before my body recovers.
So she simply didn't have time to take care of herself.
In order to satisfy her husband's fertility plan, she is like an emotionless fertility machine.
But whenever her husband was in need, she began planning to have a fifth child without saying a word.
But Chen Haoming has no idea how much frequent childbirth hurts women's bodies.
However, he didn't care at all, but thought that his wife was having a happy life.
Before meeting Chen Haoming, Lisa Jiang had her own wonderful life.
But all this changed after meeting Chen Haoming.
What seems to be a happy marriage is actually a chicken feather behind the scenes.
It's full of bad things.
01
Before marrying Chen Haoming, Lisa Jiang was originally a fashion designer.
If she hadn't met Chen Haoming back then, I'm afraid that Lisa Jiang would have already become a well-known designer.
Have your own brilliant life.
Lisa Jiang's childhood can be described as wonderful.
Coming from a sports family, she was born with sports cells.
Affected by the family environment, Lisa Jiang began to learn swimming, basketball and other related sports from a young age.
These sports trainings filled almost her entire childhood memory.
In the first year of junior high school, he represented the local community in basketball tournaments held nationwide.
Over the next six years, she won numerous awards and did not miss a single opportunity to compete.
At a young age, he achieved the title of "national first-class athlete".
If this trend continues, the way forward is clear.
However, Lisa Jiang is not here.
The year she graduated from junior high school, Lisa Jiang came out of the limelight.
Her outstanding temperament, coupled with her tall figure, has made her a suitor for many boys in the school.
There were even modeling agencies who came to her and invited her to cooperate.
Like most girls with star dreams.
Lisa Jiang is also full of curiosity about the glamorous surface entertainment industry.
It's just that at that time, Lisa Jiang thought that her studies were more important.
I don't want to step into society early.
After graduating from high school, she began planning her future life.
I decided to try it out and participated in the model selection contest.
Although the beauty who came to the competition was like a cloud.
But it can still be ranked third and take third place.
With excellent grades, Lisa Jiang was escorted to Beijing Institute of Fashion Technology.
When she walked into the campus, she was excited.
After all, this is one step closer to his dream.
And at this time, Lisa Jiang is a glowing existence wherever she goes.
Not only the appearance conditions are superior, but even the results are top-notch.
With her ability at this time, she can be guaranteed to be sent to France for graduate school after graduation.
Studied fashion design.
In order to seize the opportunity to study abroad, Lisa Jiang began to focus on practicing French.
During this period, she was arranged by the school to participate in academic exchanges in France many times.
As a result, her French has improved significantly.
Until then, modeling had always been her dream.
But she knew very well that the model was just eating youth rice.
And becoming a costume designer can serve the catwalk and the runway for a lifetime.
So she set her ambition to create her own clothing brand.
Let supermodels all over the world wear their own clothes.
However, everything she planned came to naught when she met Chen Haoming.
02
2010 was a turning point in Lisa Jiang's life.
At that time, Lisa Jiang was just a small model who was not famous.
Occasionally, there is also the opportunity to serve as a stand-in for the star.
Unlike Lisa Jiang.
At that time, Chen Haoming was already in the circle.
The film contract is continuous, and the salary is huge.
Acting in a play can get tens of millions of salaries.
It wasn't until 2013 that his worth soared again.
From the original 10 million to 20 million.
Being able to have such a gold-absorbing ability, who is not confused when he sees it.
But what Lisa Jiang didn't expect was that she would start an indissoluble bond with Chen Haoming in the future.
The two met by chance in Milan that year.
When they first met, Lisa Jiang was not too impressed by Chen Haoming.
On the contrary, Chen Haoming fell in love with Lisa Jiang at first sight.
After the two exchanged a few pleasantries, Chen Haoming mainly asked for Lisa Jiang's contact information.
In order to catch up with Lisa Jiang, who has a good temperament and outstanding appearance.
Chen Haoming has exhausted the means of puffing girls that he has learned all his life.
Just to pocket Lisa Jiang.
An inexperienced love field white rabbit, in the face of this kind of love field master, how not to fall into it.
It didn't take long for Lisa Jiang to fall into the love network woven by Chen Haoming and couldn't extricate herself.
After falling in love, Chen Haoming began to pua Lisa Jiang constantly.
The words let her know how lucky she was to meet herself.
Obviously, Lisa Jiang eats his set.
Before him, the little bird clings to the man, obeying his words.
From the time Chen Haomin proposed to let her give up her job and I raised you, Lisa Jiang lost her previous opinion.
Think you have met true love, and think that everything the other person says is right.
Lisa Jiang, who was carried away by love, followed Chen Haoming back to China as soon as her brain was hot.
He gave up the dream he had pursued for many years and was willing to live and marry her.
After falling in love, Lisa Jiang became pregnant.
So he pushed the boat along the water to get a marriage license.
In other words, is Lisa Jiang the woman Chen Haoming really loves?
The answer is clearly not.
It's just that at that time, Chen Haoming was already old enough to start a family.
In addition, he has been wandering and wandering for many years, and he has played enough.
At this time, Lisa Jiang happened to be pregnant, just at the right time.
03
Since Lisa Jiang married Chen Haoming, he forced Lisa Jiang to become a full-time wife.
At that time, Lisa Jiang was immersed in the joy of motherhood, and she agreed without having time to think about it.
Perhaps she would never have imagined that her actions at that time would completely change the rest of her life.
In order to strive to become a good wife in Chen Haoming's heart, she constantly changes herself.
Regard your husband as the backbone of the family and respond to everything you need.
If he knows how to love his wife, then Lisa Jiang will give up her career and become a full-time wife.
But Chen Haoming is an out-and-out scumbag.
Before meeting Lisa Jiang, she was famous for her flowery hearted carrot.
After marriage, although she coaxed Lisa Jiang sweetly, it was all for her own fertility plan.
Let me ask, what man who really loves his wife will let his wife have four children in five years?
He also said unashamedly that his wife is very capable of giving birth.
In this marriage, Lisa Jiang carved humility into her bones.
As long as her husband proposed a family plan, she was obligated to agree.
In these five years, Lisa Jiang did not have a day to rest.
I didn't even sit in confinement, and I served my husband's family every day.
In addition to serving tea and pouring water, cleaning, and endless cold rice.
The eldest daughter was born in November 2011.
However, within two years, the second child and second son were born.
During this period of taking the pregnancy for ten months, Lisa Jiang can be said to have just recovered her body and plans to prepare for a second child.
But what people never expected was that Lisa Jiang ushered in the third child the following year.
Immediately after a year and a half, four children were born.
Lisa Jiang's fertility rate is like an emotionless fertility machine.
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, it is impossible to understand what the concept of four children in five years is.
But from a health point of view.
After the cesarean section, the pregnant mother must rest for at least two years before she can consider having another child.
Moreover, the number of shaved births should not exceed three times.
Otherwise, the damage to women's bodies is immeasurable.
But Jiang Lisa planed four times at Chen Haoming's request.
A person can do this for her husband, which shows how deeply she loves.
I thought that Lisa Jiang's efforts could be exchanged for her husband's concern.
But now it seems that all he got is Chen Haoming's banter and endless housework.
Even if you sacrifice your body for him, you can't exchange it for a little family status.
Because of this, netizens regard Lisa Jiang as the humblest woman in marriage.
However, the things that humble her go far beyond childbearing.
In 2011, as soon as the two received their marriage certificate, Chen Haoming was exposed by the media as a "oil scandal".
With his deep qualifications, he bullied new actors who had just entered the industry at the dinner and took the opportunity to make oil.
After the scandal was exposed, Chen Haoming said that he was just drunk and hospitable in order to make amends for himself.
But such rhetoric is not convincing.
Instead, netizens turned over his past scandals again and pushed him into the limelight.
Seeing that the situation was becoming more and more uncontrollable, Chen Haoming used his pregnant wife as a shield.
Take her to the media to sell misery and bear the mistakes with him.
Afterwards, the victim saw that Lisa Jiang was pregnant, and she was not investigated.
This calmed the turmoil.
After this incident.
Chen Haoming will use his wife every time he cheats.
Over time, netizens got tired of his different faces.
This made his name of "scumbag" on his head and could never be taken off.
I thought that Chen Haoming would know his mistake in the future.
But in fact, people's ideas are still too naïve.
How can a dog change its habit of eating?
Since then, he has repeatedly violated questions of principle.
Never stopped hunting.
Although Lisa Jiang had heard about what he was doing outside.
But for the sake of the child's face, she chose to turn a blind eye.
After all, under Chen Haoming's years of PUA, Lisa Jiang has long been smoothed out by life.
Become a full-time wife who has no opinions, and will only be at home with her husband and children.
Now, every time Lisa Jiang is in the same frame with Chen Haoming, she looks a few years older than her husband.
Women nourished by love will live younger and younger.
A woman who is consumed by marriage will only become bruised all over her body.
If time can go back in time, is Lisa Jiang still willing to marry Chen Haoming?
Epilogue:
Lisa Jiang's marriage experience is actually a portrayal of the lives of many women.
They are bound by their families and children and cannot do what they want.
Lose yourself for love, sacrifice yourself for family.
This is actually very irrational.
As the saying goes: "It is better to rely on men than on yourself".
Try to pursue what you want and become your own dependency.
Second, the marriage should be run jointly by both husband and wife.
Unequal efforts will only make the marriage constantly crack.
It is not easy to know how to understand the other half.