preface
A recent photo shared by Chen Haomin's wife, Jiang Lisha, on social media left netizens exclaiming, almost unrecognizable.
As a wife and mother, it is understandable that she posts photos of playing with her husband's underage children every day, but now Jiang Lisha frequently posts sexy photos related to Burning Man on social media, which makes many people surprised and puzzled.
Most of the images of celebrity wives are very simple, since she is married to Chen Haomin, Jiang Lisha must also be dignified and generous as a celebrity wife and take care of her family, but now Jiang Lisha has long abandoned her celebrity wife status, and Jiang Lisha, who appears in front of the media, is more like a "rubbing" Internet celebrity.
Jiang Lisha's image changed.
In the eighteen years that Chen Haomin and Jiang Lisha have been married, the two have had many scandals and experienced many turmoil, but Jiang Lisha has always been by Chen Haomin's side, as the wife of Chen Haomin, who gave birth to four children in five years, most of her images are the appearance of a simple actress wife.
When attending events in public, Jiang Lisha's dress is usually relatively simple, without any sexy elements, although the actresses around her are wearing various fashion trends, but Jiang Lisha doesn't care about these at all, and Chen Haomin's family's dressing style is also based on comfort.
Such a Jiang Lisha is undoubtedly a representative symbol of a good wife and a good mother, but Jiang Lisha, who frequently posts sexy selfies on social media, may no longer be the image of a good wife and a good mother.
Jiang Lisha's selfie dressing style is much bolder than that of public dressing, and Jiang Lisha's skin can be seen from time to time when she wrapped herself tightly in the past, and she even released her long legs to show off to netizens.
Jiang Lisha's selfie is not only dressed boldly, Jiang Lisha's face has also changed a lot, making it almost impossible to recognize Jiang Lisha herself at a glance.
In this group of selfies, Jiang Lisha's face looks extremely exquisite, even on par with the images of many fairy girls, but because Jiang Lisha was already thin in the past, Jiang Lisha now looks more like a "snake spirit", which does not match the overly delicate face.
The change in appearance, people may understand that Jiang Lisha has undergone some micro-plastic surgery, but the overly bold dressing style is incomprehensible.
As a wife and mother, why do you want to dress up so charmingly?
Doesn't Jiang Lisha have the dignity and generosity of a mother as a wife?
In the eyes of many people, a bold style of dressing represents a woman's sense of self-worth, and only if she is confident enough will she expose her body to the public.
But in fact, these people really think wrong, self-confidence is not only the way to dress style, people should not feel that their lack of self-confidence has to be compensated for in other ways, which is a kind of harm to themselves.
Lack of confidence in one's own image.
Jiang Lisha's changes, apart from herself, are the most affected by this change is her children.
Jiang Lisha used to be Chen Haomin's star wife, as a celebrity wife, Jiang Lisha appeared in public more often to take care of the family, and Jiang Lisha, who showed the image of a beautiful wife, almost did not deliberately show her sexiness at all.
Such an image grew up with Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin's children, and it affected the children's values little by little, which is not bad, the children grew up in such a living environment and had their own independent understanding of the social phenomena around them.
But now that Jiang Lisha's image has changed, and she has changed her painting style, will it drive the children's values?
These children are already sensible, so they can naturally understand the meaning of their mother's painting style.
This lack of self-confidence will not only make children feel a little embarrassed, but it will also affect their values, making them mistakenly think that they need to regain their self-confidence.
Why did Jiang Lisha's image change?
She herself once said that she was a woman who was not very confident.
In her opinion, although she was favored by Chen Haomin when she was a wife, everyone still thought that she was a celebrity wife and could not be associated with Jiang Lisha's body and appearance.
In addition, the rumored girlfriends around Chen Haomin have brought huge pressure to Jiang Lisha, these actresses who are younger and more beautiful than themselves often appear by Chen Haomin's side, and they can impact Chen Haomin's feelings almost at any time, which makes Jiang Lisha, who is a wife, feel very uneasy.
As the actresses around Chen Haomin became younger and more beautiful, Jiang Lisha became more and more uneasy, her self-confidence was gradually weakened, and she began to dislike others to compare her with Chen Haomin's family.
This kind of psychology is not uncommon, and it is the anxiety of many women who are overly dependent on others in terms of self-identity, and once their self-identity is threatened, they will frantically find ways to make up for the psychological damage they have suffered, and they will not hesitate to show off their figure.
The lack of self-confidence of these women is not because they are not as beautiful as others, but because they always compare their appearance to the appearance of others.
Some people always compare Jiang Lisha's appearance with the actresses around Chen Haomin, Jiang Lisha's self-confidence will be weakened, and then gradually become more and more "snake spirit".
Many women are using this extreme way to improve their self-confidence levels, forgetting that they are dressing this way to get the attention of others, and that they still want to be comfortable and not wearing uncomfortable clothes to please others.
So the question is, is it right for Jiang Lisha to want to regain her self-confidence by dressing generously and showing herself?
Is it reasonable for her to do so?
The Internet celebrity style of rubbing the edges.
Many people think that Jiang Lisha's approach is right, thinking that this can regain self-worth and regain original self-confidence, but in fact, Jiang Lisha's approach is not correct.
Finding self-worth is one thing, but showing oneself is one thing, there is a gap between the two, and Jiang Lisha failed to grasp this gap.
Her approach is very similar to that of many young women, who will post photos of their sexy outfits on social platforms to attract attention, and Jiang Lisha's approach is also based on this, but her identity is more special.
In the eyes of these young women, Jiang Lisha has left their circle as a wife, but this will not only not distance them, but will make them feel that Jiang Lisha is more eye-catching.
Jiang Lisha's frequent exposure of her sexy self on social platforms is undoubtedly an example for young women, and many young women will think that they can do the same.
But in fact, Jiang Lisha as a wife, her image is completely different from that of young women, their values can be different, Jiang Lisha as a wife, means more responsibilities, children.
She can't ignore the child's upbringing, the child's influencer is her, and the identity of a public figure makes Jiang Lisha's living environment different from her children's, and these young women don't understand it at all.
Jiang Lisha's approach undoubtedly has a bad educational impact on the children, and this impact is long-term, and it remains to be seen whether the children can understand their mother's practice, but the impact is definitely there.
As a public figure, Jiang Lisha must take her due responsibility, even if her style of dressing is "confident", it will influence the imitation of many young women, which is irrational.
After these young women imitate themselves, their children will be influenced again, and Jiang Lisha's actions will not only affect her own children, but many more.
epilogue
Many women like Jiang Lisha may have experienced that they cannot get enough attention in the family, or even be ignored, and in the big society, they cannot get the affirmation of others, and they will undoubtedly feel lonely and hungry in such a life.
At this time, as long as they find something to do and strive to find a sense of fulfillment in life, they will not lose themselves like they do now.
Jiang Lisha's approach may be a manifestation of the ephemeral happiness of the long years, as she looks for the approval of others, but she inadvertently influences countless children.
If a retirement like Jiang Lisha can be happy enough in the future, it will be considered a blessing from the sky.
Celebrities are different from ordinary people, many celebrities have left the original life circle, and they will not be able to integrate into people's normal life circle in the later stage.
This loneliness will follow, Jiang Lisha may want to find resonance with herself, and now she has found it, but behind these resonances are countless children.